At the beginning that we decided to live together, we have no any rule. she rarely to clean bathroom or clean dishes or wash clothes!!! They are become my job!!! Should I say to her or just keep doing as usual as I stay alone????
2007-04-26 18:58:19 · 14 answers · asked by Frida y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have a talk. Come to an agreement. If she does not follow the agreement then kick her out!
2007-04-26 19:05:05 · answer #1 · answered by Triplescoop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Frida y, Stop don't do her laundry or any of her clean up. You have do it for her so many times she expects you to do it for her. You need to have a talk with her and tell her it's a 50-50 deal with the chores around the apartment and if she doesn't keep her part up you are going to look for a new roommate. I can still remember when i was younger and the roommate i had. I work at day and she work at night and when she got off work she would bring her friends over and have a party. Lets put it this way i didn't get much sleep with her as a roommate,plus she never did anything around the house but mess it up. I finally had to kick her out and i started living by myself. Hope you have better luck than i did.
A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-04-26 19:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no definately say something and don't let them slip and get lazy later on. You can't keep being the mommy/daddy they are an adult and should act like one. My past roommate let his retarded dog run around and pee all over because he was so lazy he would never take her out. Then while he's at work I get to clean up dog pee woohoo. If I just let that go i'd be cleanin dog pee every day. People like this also like to push to see how lazy they can get before you say something. So the longer you go without saying something the worse it will get for yourself. HA One roommate i had like to use my expensive cologne hair gel and make a huge mess in my bathroom.... so i laced my OWN hair gel with pepper spray. He learned.
2007-04-26 19:04:59 · answer #3 · answered by massure4hire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is hard to answer not know other information, but basically you need to have a calm, civil, adult conversation with this person and tell them how you feel. If they have a problem with it then they have two choices. Leave or help. Bottom line.
2007-04-26 19:02:56 · answer #4 · answered by Queen B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her that you two are roommates you are not her maid, and if she dont like then i would find a better roommate and tell her she need to get her a maid or a new rommate.... You need to stand up for yourself.......
2007-04-26 19:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to make a calender of the week and each of you should pick your strength of doing the house work or at less pick choirs out of the hat and do the work that you pick out for a week and swich jobs.
2007-04-26 19:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her and try a chore chart if that does not work then look for a new place to stay.
2007-04-26 19:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by wantajeannie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw all her crap in her room trash dishes and everything else she'll get the hint.
2007-04-26 19:01:51 · answer #8 · answered by SassyFras85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that if she doesn't start helping you, she can find a new roommate because you are moving!!
2007-04-26 19:09:48 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a maid and send her the bill....
People like that never change...
2007-04-26 19:02:11 · answer #10 · answered by ★Greed★ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋