v-day, birthday, x-mas, this guy never gives me anything. he won't take me on dates, or buy me a flower, nothin. even if i try to borrow money he always says no. he has a job, and i see him spend money for his friends and family but not 4 me, y?
2007-04-26 18:52:36 · 14 answers · asked by trickortreat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a new boyfriend!!!
2007-04-26 18:57:08 · answer #1 · answered by SAMMY 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
honestly? he doesnt give a crap about you, keeping you, or your relationship. you need to dump this guy--QUICK! he's obviously uninterested in the relationship or you because he's not spending much effort on keeping you. If you see him spending money on his friends and family, and nothing on you, that should be a sure fire indicator that this guy's a total loser, especially if you're dishing out a lot of money on him. DUMP him and find someone more worthy of you. Good Luck!
2007-04-26 18:58:21 · answer #2 · answered by xeternal_heavnx 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Do you spend any money on him? Did you get him a birthday or christmas gift?
If you're really that annoyed with it. Talk to HIM, not people that don't know anything about the actual relationship, or leave him.
2007-04-26 18:56:27 · answer #3 · answered by Lexi 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
And he's still your boyfriend? Stop messing with boys and get a man. It should be 50/50 or nothing. Set some standards and don't accept nothing less.
2007-04-26 19:07:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Do you spend any money on him? If not, then why do you expect him to spend money on you? Have you talked with him about it? Perhaps the lack of reciprocity on your part is the reason for the behavior in question.
2007-04-26 18:56:28 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
That is because you are still there letting him take advantage of you. Have the guts to leave this jerk!!!
2007-04-26 18:55:42 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
This should be a wake up call for you. He is selfish, and you will never be first with him.
2007-04-26 18:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
and i bet you do everything too!!! Give your self more credit and move on. Youll find someone who actully cares instead or uses you!
2007-04-26 18:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by SARAH D 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
well, why on earth would he spend his money on u if u re fully available for free? u re projecting his behavior. so it is your own fault
2007-04-26 18:56:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
maybe b/c you're just his girlfriend and not his wife. if he's that stingy then dump him.
2007-04-26 18:58:13 · answer #10 · answered by freedom fighter 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋