I am Married we love eachothere & we Quarrel Eachother why?

Answer 1

Because we want to love more to each other.

Answer 2

If u love & quarell at the same time, i mean if u does both the things thenpls dont worry relation is heading safe. And I think that is the true love b'coz what ever it is, u can't expect ur man/woman to like each and evry thing u like as he straitaway has an indepent heart & brains to think & see the things. So it is not that u should not quarell at atll in ur lives, but definitely there r limits for every thing and i sense u r way far to reach tha limit . Take care Have a great married life ahead.

Answer 3

You are looking to get some excitement in your life. Fighting is one way that you have tried before and of course it got your blood up then and it does now too. There are other ways to share peak moments with the ones you love that are less destructive.

Try bungee jumping or parachuting. Try skiing or go kart racing. I don't know what you have done for excitement in the past but think of something that you both can do that will be a memory for a long time. Then do it. Do something that is less damaging than fighting.

Answer 4

Ego problem should be set aside while being at home. U both r a little bit intolerant, not sweet hearted, not soft, not fully sincere , little bit angry & probably highly talkative too. Never have altercation in presence of an outsider & do not humiliate or taunt too whether u both r inside or outside the house. While in bazaar, take care of this thing. Never shout. Take oath by keeping hands of both on your religious book that never in future u both will ever fight & fuuly love each other. Co-operate each other by heart in almost all domestic activities. All these qualities must be improved at the earliest. While getting up in the morning & before retiring to bed at night, hug each other daily & love even if u have lack of time. Try to learn good qualities from one another & appreciate higly plus points instead of pinpointing mistakes. While at home take breakfast, lunch & dinner compulsorily together, always taking the name of God. Read religious principles regarding married life fully & follow them .Perhaps u both did not study them fully. When u both love , the fights have no place. When my children were in the age range of 2-6 years, I was taking them to green gardens & zoos etc. , riding them on my shoulders & walking long distances & they were slapping me on my head & faces in public but I never cribbed & went on doing my 'service' as father, as those r my children. A girl married & went to the house of husband after leaving suddenly the parents' house is a little bit perturbed for few years. She must be treated with softer attitude than the softness about the children I mentioned above. For any mistake both must apologize immediately , move forward & kiss after that. Fights will cease. There is no place for hot head in married life.

Answer 5

It is just normal. Almost all the couples fight and it has more to do with the perceived 'right' in a realtionship. Just remember about your childhood fights with your brothers, sisters or close friends. Nothing to worry about that. Of course, you should not try to linger on the issues involved and the efforts to reconcile should always be made as soon as possible. Even better way is to ensure that you do not argue about the non issues.

Answer 6

Every healthy marriage I have ever seen had its ups and downs. If you expect to go through life with no disagreements, then you are dreaming. Reality is that everyone has different ideas and opinions. When two people are married, they have to compromise. Sometimes when two people feel strongly about something, they may have to argue about it in order to come to a conclusion. It is perfectly natural. If you didn't quarret at all, you would not have a normal marriage.

Answer 7

I should like you both of you to agree on one thing. You will indulge in intense sex, every time after an argument. Then, you will start enjoying even quarrels, which will take the place of foreplay.

Answer 8

quarrel which increase love. so quarrel for some good reasons, then next day u are able to understand each other in a better way.

Answer 9

I like rose, when i pluck thorn pricks! i enjoy alcohol but i have hangover the next day. i enjoy dating but that costs a bomb! got it? NO?

well it is not necessary that u love some then u don't have difference of opinion. thing is both of u have a point of view & u both feel strong abt it. tht's y u ppl quarrel. nothing wrong. with passage of time u both will mature & relationship will also, improve. relax, give ur self time. enjoy the fights.

Answer 10

Often quarreling is not good in a couple, you will see one day one of you will use this point as scapegoat, when it will happen it will surely too late. Stop it, try to discuss quietly after diner the pros and cons so that one day one of you will not be hurt.

Answer 11

There is no problem with u .It is all OK. U r living normal life.It shows u listen each other,bear each other and also love each other. Little quarrels are part of life.these are just like spices.