my X bf left me 2 mounths ago, I wants him to come back to me, i know the reason that he left me was just his stupid freinds, but he never gave me chance to explain things he left me without reason, even without telling me what i did wrong. I dont know wat to do. plz i want u guys to help me from your perspectives . thank you
2007-04-26 20:29:22 · 22 answers · asked by sokote_gharibe_paiiz 2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So your bf is a mindless twit who listens to his friends, considers them to have more important things to say than you. Interesting. Why would you want to have a relationship with someone who isn't willing to listen to you, doesn't respect you enough to ask you "why?" and won't even talk to you about the break up? Doesn't sound like the relationship was going in a favorable direction. Consider finding someone who respects and admires you, who is willing to not only listen to you but to pay attention. Find someone who mirrors what you really want rather than what you had. Good luck.
2007-04-26 20:36:23 · answer #1 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You "DO NOT" know the reason he left you...
The reason you cannot know, is...
There is never "one" reason why someone breaks up with another.
There could be a variety of reasons, or none at all.
Even if he "tells" you why he left you, you cannot be sure that what he said was "truthful."
The reasons for "breaking up" are almost always numerous, vague, and not even understood by the people who did the "breaking up."
Just know that for whatever "reason" or "reasons," there are other guys out there (hopefully somewhat close to your own age) that would have plenty of "loving" reasons to "be" with you, and have almost zero reasons for "not."
If you really love someone, and they break up with you, be happy for them and yourself that they "did."
All the women that have broken up with me, and all the women who I have broken up with, are in the past.
Concentrate on your next "love," and forget about the old as soon as "time" allows.
And even though you still love him (unfortunately break-ups don't usually mean that your love for someone suddenly vanishes into the blue...) let him go, and hopefully, he will do the same...
2007-04-27 03:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ex-boyfriend left you without a reason that means that he has moved on and didn't want to work things out. It seems like he has already made his decision. He would rather spend time with his friends and some friends can be just as needy as girlfriends can, meaning they don't want other people to spend time with them.
I personally try not to have written documentation between an ex since they have the option in sharing (i.e. text messages, e-mails or letters) that information with others. So if you do write chose your words carefully.
2007-04-27 03:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by Richard M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are pigs. all we want is boobs and booty. See Some
See Women as a Object While Others try and support to
the best of their skills. the reason he left you is because he
had a change of heart and didn't have the guts to tell you
what HE did wrong. In his Mind he can just go get another
chick and that's that. don't waste your time with him.
2007-04-27 03:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by jenny_ortega_luvz_u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No real man leaves a girl for his "stupids friends" he did it for himself. It seems he doesn't love you, by the way he left.
I'm sure you did nothing wrong, that's why he didn't explain anything, he just stop loving you but didn't dare to tell you the true face to face.
Forget about him, if a man prefer his "stupid frieds" then he is not e real man, he is just a pathetic loser.
2007-04-27 04:37:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your x is not worth the trouble. i mean if he was a gentlemen and at least gave you a reason then maybe you could try to fix the problems in your relationship but if he isn't a man enough to confront your problems than he isn't worth it. find another guy that wont be misled by his friends. good luck
2007-04-27 03:40:01 · answer #6 · answered by gocash26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he left you without reason he probably isnt worth gettin him back i mean theres soo many other guys out there for you that can love you more than that guy i mean you should try to move on my gf wanted to move on but she realized she couldnt so we got back together and its ben great ever since if you cant get over him you should try to talk to him and see if yall can work things out
2007-04-27 03:36:52 · answer #7 · answered by Jake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sound young dont worry if he cares he will be there if not have a good time u cant blame anyone else but u@him after 2 mos u must be having good time by now
2007-04-27 03:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by www.eagle101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter. I have been fighting with my ex for 13 years. And to this day I still haven't seen my daughter in person.
2007-04-27 03:33:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want this guy back? Someone that slinks away when things stop going the way he wants them too? You can do better.
2007-04-27 03:32:32 · answer #10 · answered by claymore 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋