i felt really ditched as i felt i was his first love like he was mine . I also discovered the lip marks of this girl in his wallet when i inquired he told me tht he didnt even remember and care abt them and that wallet was 3 yrs old atleast and if he knew he would have removed them from there .I dont knw but i feel very jeaolus abt the whole matter i just cant tolerate that my husband loved someone before me i know i cant do anything abt the past and now my husband is totally dedicated to me but still i want to knw abt their relationship how deep was it how was the girl and all and i have asked it to my hubby but he just says that its his dead past an inconsequential and he doesnt wanna talk abt it but i feel very disturbed abt his past and wanna knw abt it though i knw its useless to do so but at certain contexts i just remember abt my hubby s past relationship and get disturbed
dnt knw wht to do ?
2007-04-26 23:44:06 · 14 answers · asked by kamya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
maybe he did love her a long time ago but he sure loved you more to marry you and you were his only true love...first love is not as important as true love
2007-04-26 23:49:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Staying for your little girl is all well and good but children can see when their parents are not in love and if the household isn't a happy one all you could be doing is hurting yourself and you're child. The longer you leave it (if you are sure you don't want to be with him) the harder it will get. But if you are not sure then theirs still hope. When you get married all the fun is lost, try and take some time out for the both of you and see if its still there. Do something crazy. Have an action packed day and some raunchy sex afterwards. When you wake up in the morning and you still feel an emptiness then you'll know its over.
2016-05-20 03:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by christin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up. No one is a virgin that is over 18. And if that is the case, they are probably disturbed. So, move on. There are other things to worry about. One is, if you keep obsessing about stuff like this, he will eventually get tired of your jealosy and will do something to earn it.
2007-04-27 00:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
While I understand how you are feeling, you have to remember that this is all in his past. You have to forget about things like that and live for NOW....nothing is wrong if he loved someone before he met you, it just goes to show that he can show love.
2007-04-27 01:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any idea how ridiculous you sound? Your husband chose to marry you. Everyone has a past. It has nothing to do with your future. If he had loved her the way he loves you, then he would have married her. Grow up!!!
2007-04-26 23:50:22 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay what I understand is that he had a g/f b4 he married you; if that really is the case, he married you not her. Also, his having a g/f b4 has nothing at all to do with you and your life with him; it is time to let that go and be the loving wife that you are meant to be.
2007-04-26 23:56:08 · answer #6 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let sleeping dogs lay its in his past so just leave it alone, if he wanted to talk about it he would have told you.You can't live in the past in order to move on in the furture.
2007-04-26 23:49:54 · answer #7 · answered by Mary O 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let the past be the past. It's not a big deal.
2007-04-26 23:50:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on this thought : you count, she doesn't.
Let the past be. You've got a future to work on.
2007-04-27 01:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by joe b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long story short, leave him and get your life better!
2007-04-26 23:48:57 · answer #10 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋