2007-04-26 23:39:42 · 43 answers · asked by Miss Koko 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I state Cheat I mean in general throughout life... From cheating on your partner to cheating in a school exam...Tell Me What You Think
2007-04-26 23:48:10 · update #1
they think the grass is always greener.
2007-04-26 23:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
People get into relationships with a lot of reasons and expectations.
1: you may get into a relationship cause you are dumped by your ex-bf. Your partner might not know so he will be in heaven thinking that you are at the same page while its not the case.
2: your partner thinks he found a diamond and is already looking at you with a serious plan and expect you to think the same.
3. in a few months time you worked out your story and is perhaps planning to go back to your ex or found your ideal partner. what do you do..you are out with the same speed you came. you were in two different worlds
4. others cheat cause one component of their life is not fullfilled but do not see it necessary to quit the relationship.
Cheating in all other aspects like exam is because of poor planning and miscalculation of what to expect. when you realize you are there you feel you just have to cheat to pass. others plan to cheat in exams because they do not see it as a priority.
2007-04-26 23:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by titotito 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's simple. If I was to say to you that Brad Pitt wanted to sleep with you and there was a chance that your partner wouldn't find out but this was the only chance you would have. Most people would go for it. The temptation is too much. Cheating in other ways is too give them an edge to be better than the next person but others will have other views this is coming from a non cheater.
2007-04-30 23:39:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Such a little quesiton, with a massive answer.
People cheat for different reasons. Some are sex addicts. some are insecure, some dont respect themselves and feel good by letting others feel good so they cut themselves short and disrespsect themselves. Some do it to find love, they have been negelected of it for most of their life and dont know what love is. Its quite sad really, what is the definition of a **** or a whore, a mum who cant feed her kids so she got to go sell herself?? Its bad and it shouldnt be this way. I feel sorry for some people, but i dont for others.
Some people cheat because they have no empathy towards anyone else's feelings and think that if they dont get caught, then so what. And i reckon some people do it to boost their egos eg, men!! or should i say LITTLE BOYS!
2007-04-26 23:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by london lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason people cheat is two fold. They think they deserve more than they have earned, and they are too lazy to do the real work to get it.
Why?
Immaturity, selfishness, lack of commitment, boredom, tired of waiting, deserved more, unfulfillment, loneliness, too busy, wasn't looking, just happened, it was the other person's fault, the partner drove me away/to it, was drunk, too hard, no time, wanted something, etc. Try any excuse. They will.
2007-04-26 23:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who cheat have lots of "good reasons" for cheating, but the bottom line--in my opinion--is that cheaters are DISHONEST PEOPLE who will stop at nothing to get what they want or "need".
To a cheater, lying is easier than confronting a difficult situation, doing the work required, or accepting the potential consequences of their actions.
What they don't realize is that eventually they will get caught--they always do--and they will have to face their issue sooner or later.
2007-04-27 01:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by magartista 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think some people have a evil side to them.
Cheating on diets is very common but cheating on your mate is another matter.
Most men have little resistance to temptation..I cheated and did not get caught but I still have to live with the guilt..and no confession is not always good for the soul..sometimes discretion is the better thing to do..as my women already warned me she could forgive anything BUT infidelity..but i sometimes cheat on my diet and go to Hot and Now or all you can eat Chinese Buffet..but she already knows about this cheating...
I guess we men are never mature enough for a relationship..but the women I cheated with was also married...so ..its not always the guys alone...but its a moral weakness.i could resist anything but temptation..the spirit is strong but the flesh is weak.
2007-04-26 23:47:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depending on the degree of how BAD the cheating is... than on an equal measure they have lack of integrity. Lack of self-respect. Lack of self-worth.
And because it SO bad sometimes, they dive in to denial. Their truth hurts too much, but the more they ignore it the worse it gets. Somethings got to give at some point...
2007-04-27 07:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by Angelina 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheat as taking a test?
Cheat on their spouses?
Cheat on their significant other?
Cheating is for self gratification...they always think they can get an edge on life. It ain't worth it people...just be yourself and do what you can. Achievement is the best and do it with honesty!
2007-04-26 23:46:27 · answer #9 · answered by Magicman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's a few. Not happy w/relationship.Sex is not good anymore.Sick of the same thing.Financial instability.No challenge in the relationship.Argue too much.The other person offers someting better you can't offer.Enjoys infidelity.
2007-04-26 23:47:27 · answer #10 · answered by Den B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many lame excuses why people cheat but the main reason is selffishness. All they ever think about is themselves- how they feel,what they want, what they think is best,what they are (eg, I am a man,that's our nature).
2007-04-26 23:51:30 · answer #11 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋