Y do we feel insecured in a relationship, whatever its is, friendship, or any other family relationship.
Are we the people who feel insecure or are our loved ones are not capable to provide us a security?
why do we feel insecure?
2007-04-26 23:46:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well.. we all are insecure of our relationships or friendship. we say we are not but when we see someone with our mates or partners y are we jealour or angry? Bcoz we are insecure.
Insecurity comes when u love someone more than they love u, or u do something for someone and when they dont reciprocal we tend to be insecure.
I think insecurity is in human nature, no matter how secure are the sorrundings they live in.
2007-04-27 04:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by smile always 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity is one of those DARK places. Insecurity does not comepletely come from someone else. Yes, if they are not trustworthy or honest, you can feel insecurity directly from them. And let's be honest here, there are not a whole lot of people that you can "really" trust in your life. I mean with all your heart. But, insecurity also comes from within you. If you are focused on the other person not giving you what you want or need... that's what's going to happen. Focus on the good, then, it's more likely to happen.
2007-04-27 07:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by Ken S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people feel insecure in a relationship because they lack trust,,,,, it is also based on personal issues.as a child it is up to our parents to provide us with securities as we are not yet experienced in life and not yet adults to secure ourselves, let alone understand the meaning. Sometimes in life people will experience trauma and leave us with a scar of fear..... which only leads us to becoming insecure....... the stronger however ones personality and self love is the less likely we are to be insecure.also one who is continually hurt through out life whatever it maybe will always find it ever so hard to be secure in any matter whether it be relationship, work wise, trust, etc etc...... and even self trust comes into this.. all of this can lead to a very lonely life... but in order to be happy we need to let go of our insecurities learn to forgive and retrust again, otherwise we build a wall out of insecurities that only lead to becoming bitter and lonely.
2007-04-27 07:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by littlemisssaigon 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Insecure people make insecure relationships. When you expect a dog to do its work and the work of a human then you are insecure. No human is 100% perfect, we all have our various flaws. Expecting a human to function 100% in every area of his or her life without any imperfections is like a disaster waiting to happen. Take people they way you see them and always give room for second chances (when necessary) 'cos no body is perfect.
2007-04-27 07:10:27 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its human nature. In a way its a good thing cause the minute you feel just a little bit insecure in a relationship it means that you really love/care for that person cause your scared they going to leave your life, I believe its kind of like your minds way of telling you that you would do anything for this person and that they are making some kind of effect in your life. If we look at it that way its quite a nice thing really. But then you get mean people that play on that and thats when it becomes nasty!!!
2007-04-27 07:09:46 · answer #5 · answered by jolene c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am 100% secure in my r/ship....but many years ago before i met him i was in a bad marriage and it was full of mistrust and deceit and i didn't feel secure at all....this r/ship is solid so i have no reason to feel insecure
2007-04-27 07:59:47 · answer #6 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mine is not insecure! both relationship with a friends/family, boyfriends!
2007-04-27 08:40:26 · answer #7 · answered by fatanlonely845 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry to say this...may be you are trying to hide something that is why you are feeling like that...
try to trust others your GF, mom, friends or any one....life is all about sharing with others. we can't live alone in our whole life... everyone have someone for them in this world..if you feel that everyone hurting you or everyone going away from you don't mind them just look for the one who loves you, the one who likes you... so that you wont feel like that anymore
first try to stop feel like that... listen what others says.. keep patients
2007-04-27 06:54:52 · answer #8 · answered by Jag 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i feel secure because i keep my missis locked up all day. Te he
2007-04-27 06:50:17 · answer #9 · answered by capa-de-monty 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes that the best thing about it?
2007-04-27 06:58:27 · answer #10 · answered by amy_baby123 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋