Well I know this boy who says that he likes my 12 year old sister. I think he needs help because that’s sick. Am I wrong?
2007-04-26 22:43:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, make clear what he means when he says he 'likes' your sister. Make sure he's not crossing the line.
If he is thinking of boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, or any obsessive or passionate relationship with her, then He's sick and he needs counseling. Keep your sister away from that pedophile. Whether it's his immaturity or his ill intentions, in the end, it's not normal and it's potentially damaging experience for a 12yr old to become a victim of such sick person in society.
If you know that boy personally, tell him to see a counselor or report to his parents. And if you're asking this question so innocently, then it seems that you should take help of adults/elderly people in your family. They will take proper action. Show that boy you are capable of protecting your younger sister, but at the same time, don't suddenly go to extremes by creating too much animosity. Presuming, that this boy is already abnormal, creating animosity will encourage him to take some form of revenge. So, handle this matter carefully, without creating any chaos or panic in this situation.
Be strong enough to protect your sister.
2007-04-26 23:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by ricci 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
actually you are totally RIGHT, He is SICK!?! You should tell him that he needs to keep away from your sister and then you should also tell your parents because they have the right to know. How can they protect you and your sister if they have no Clue as to what is happening. She should not be associating with a weirdo Guy like him. At the Age of 17 He doesn't even really know what love is.
2007-04-26 22:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by imjae_02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think so and he is bascially a pedophile in the making cause in a couple of months he will be going to jail. She's a little girl and unless you belong to some religious cult/sect he will go to jail. Or he can hold hands for 6 years.
2007-04-26 22:47:36 · answer #3 · answered by fbarkon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents. He has no business fooling with a 12 year old.
2007-04-26 22:51:56 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's puppy love. It won't last. Once he gets into High School as a junior or senior and meets a girl his own age, he'll drop her like a hot potatoe. I would watch him, though. Tell him to backoff if he gets any closer to her. If not, tell your parents, teachers, or anyone in authority in your life. You are a great sister to worry....
2007-04-26 22:50:29 · answer #5 · answered by gone 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In your defense I would say that you aren't wrong because you're basically a concerned brother just looking out for you sister and i totally respect that, and that does sound alittle creepy.
2007-04-26 22:48:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can like anyone, even babies who are only a year old.
It's not really "sick" for him to say he likes her. Ask him exactly what he means. She is much too young to be interested in anyone right now. He can dream all he wants to, and nothing will come of it.
2007-04-26 22:48:10 · answer #7 · answered by fredg 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. age doesnt matter. I was 12 when my hubby now was 17. He liked me and now we are happily married. Theres nothing sick about it.
2007-04-26 23:05:02 · answer #8 · answered by ducket_head 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No,I don't think so.he isn't pervert but maybe..he is fallen in love but maybe not...you should be conscious & optimist and take him under your observation so you can notice his intention.by the way you should give them more opportunity....only god know is he well-intentioned or not? Nice to talk you...send me e-mail: Princezed1987@yahoo.com...I am very sincerely yours.
2007-04-26 23:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by Alen2ai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your sister away from him, he just wants her for sex and shes in big trouble if she falls for this act, your parents need to know and you need to warn your sister!!
2007-04-26 22:58:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋