Should girls that go out to clubs or parties carry condoms? Even if they have no intention to hook up?

Question

My gf goes out with her female freinds to drink a little and dance a little with her freinds about once a month. A freind of mine and I agree that she ought to have protection on her just in case.

Both of us used to go out to the clubs, and often enough we hooked up with girls on girls nights out that we knew had or most likely had boyfreinds - or more (as in, my freind hooked up with a chick with a ring). it wasn't that they were disatisfied, but we showed them some excitement and sometimes it paid off. those were crazier days for me - and i don't live like that anymore - but there were certainly guys who were way better at scoring than i was.

so my thing is, if my gf ends up in the back seat - and i don't think she will (i just think, and at least one other guy i know has confirmed, when your out and booze is involved, **** happens) - i'd like for her not to bring anything home to me. i mean, if it happened, i'd never know. i repeat - i have no suspicion - i just think if your out partying, you ought to have proper equipment.

so is my logic sound? And how do you tell your gf she ought to have protection without 1) making a tacit accustation or 2) giving legitimacy to improper conduct?

Answer 1

Go ahead and suggest it to her. Have a cup of ice ready for when she hands you back your balls.

Answer 2

as a single girl when i go out i have a condom with me. In fact most girls i know do so i wouldn't be so fast to assume that your gf doesn't. If you think it is a possibility that she might stray then i think it is something you should bring up. But be carefull. I would start by talking about yourself. tell her that you are worried she might drink too much and end up having too much fun. she of course will tell you that this is not the case. I would follow this by telling her that it would make you feel more comfortable if you knew she had protection on her even if she is never gonna need it. also be sure to let her know it's not her that you don't trust it's the guys at the clubs. I would not elaborate about you and your friends past discretions with girls who were in committed relationships. She will not like being compared to them.

Answer 3

I have never taken any with me ever. I know for a fact that I would not have a 1 night stand and don't drink to the point of no knowing what I'm doing. But as for your GF if you know she is the sort of girl to have 1 night stands then I don't know. But I know if my bf told me to carry them around just in case something happens I would be very pissed off as this would tell me that he was thinking of doing something with other girls and that it's ok to cheat. And any way who is to say she would even use the condoms if it was in the heat of the moment and she was drunk I think that would be the last thing she would think about. You need to talk to her and have trust that she would not do that kinda thing and the same goes for you.If you tell her to carry them around with her when she goes out then your are inviting her to cheat whether you like it or not, so there is no easy way of saying that, but if you must then go ahead, but be warned that if she gets upset and angry with you, don't say I didn't say so. Good luck cos your gonna need it....

Answer 4

Um I continuously carry condoms. no longer because I genuinely have reason, you in basic terms do not comprehend what might want to ensue. I''m no longer one which sleeps round I not in any respect were yet, I also do not desire an STD or being pregnant...etc. lots of the time it truly is both a guy pal of mine or one in each of my women that finally ends up utilising my jimmys. i imagine at this present day and age in case you're having sex and also you do not carry a condom you're in basic terms disrespecting your body and being reckless. it truly is no longer warm no count number number the way you look at it! i'm happy my guy incorporates condoms. in basic terms be open and genuine which include her if she receives disillusioned then you definitely may no longer be courting the right lady. Or she's in basic terms immature. solid luck.

Answer 5

your logic is off in that if she was serious about you and planned any future with you she would not be going drinking at all. When girls go places with other girls they are either feeling totally single, they're lessies, or they are bored. When you care about her not picking up any std's, etc. it sounds to me like you plan your future with her. Drop her if you're looking for a monogamous relationship....sounds to me like she's not happy with you and is looking elsewhere for her excitement. You can't stop people who want to drink from drinking either. If you dislike those two qualities in her then she's not for you.

Answer 6

I really think she probably has the restraint not to go around doing random guys she meets at clubs. It's not like she has no self-control. If you ask her to carry condoms with her, she definitely could get offended. She will think you don't trust her, and no matter what you're saying explicitly...it really sounds like you don't.

Answer 7

Listen, does a cowboy carry a saddle but never intends to ride a horse? See what I mean...dude condoms aren't chewing gum.

Answer 8

If you suggested that to her it's almost like its you telling her its ok to go and have sex with other guys. And hey, if she comes home knocked up, whatever then just break up with her. If she was so horny don't you think she'd come to you to get the deed done?

Answer 9

Life is not the TV. Your body is not for strangers in a bar. Get a grip on who you are, and what you want. A game plan.

Answer 10

They should have condom vending machines in both women and men restrooms or next to them, because it is at the privacy of the customer's discretion.