2007-04-29 17:54:29 · 14 answers · asked by jamin t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Knowing that ULTIMATELY -- each person is responsible for their INDIVIDUAL HAPPINESS .. and yes, into every life a little rain (conflict, challenges, obstacles) must fall.
It is the way that we OVERCOME these difficulties that determines our SUCCESS in life -- one can either shut oneself of (and never learn, improve, change, succeed), or one can confront the challenges directly and EMBRACE Change -- the change that can mean so MUCH MORE HAPPINESS and JOY in one's life.
These principles and thoughts apply whether you are going through rehab from a horrific accident, you are going through a tough time (and yes, that includes job loss or divorce), or whether you are struggling in the resolve to stay in school and yes, apply yourself so that in the FUTURE you can see the benefits of these extra sacrifices for a more comfortable life for your family.
2007-04-29 18:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think it's possible. When my Dad died in a car accident that was my worst possible time.
My son is going through child custody now and can't stay calm.
It's okay to be at wits end when your life is in tourmoil.
We've all been there, you just need someone to talk to.
Talking it out is a great thing!
2007-04-30 01:10:42 · answer #2 · answered by fayebrah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell myself everything happens for a reason, and something good comes out of something bad, and that things are going this way because some must or must not happen. I know life takes weird turns, but it's for a reason.
2007-04-30 00:58:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One has to remain calm in crisis. Crying or worrying is not the solution. What is going to happen will happen and we have no hold over it, but one should not forget to put in the best efforts to fight against the crisis.
2007-04-30 01:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By telling yourself that this is an opportunity for you to grow. Be optimistic. Crap happens, but it only lasts as long as you allow it to. Look out the window and see that the sun is still shining... and also realise that this feeling will pass.
2007-04-30 01:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by Batty Natty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a silver lining on every cloud. What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. Whatever major problems you're having now won't last forever, it'll be blown away, leaving behind only people who were brave and strong.
2007-04-30 01:06:17 · answer #6 · answered by Greyskiescheermeup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just realize that what you are going through will come to an end. Bad things cannot last forever. Bad times help us appriciate the good times more. You will get through it.. whatever it is.
2007-04-30 00:59:09 · answer #7 · answered by VMSS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u think your life is at its worst, look around you , there is always someone a hella lot worse off than you, look at the positives in your life, look at what you have that many others dont.
or yeah...just get high
2007-04-30 00:58:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you can't. Sometimes you don't. Not your finest hours, but it happens.
But I find that *not* being on my own is a big help. If there's anyone possible, reach out for help from someone you trust.
2007-04-30 10:02:00 · answer #9 · answered by Matthew P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who does that? one can take a deep breath and start sorting only. it helps to remember the past...if you got thru this...you can get thru that...there's always a sort of rainbow after the rain
2007-04-30 01:01:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋