We've been on and off for 2 years and we are very close. We never had sex until recently.I love her very much and she's my sweetheart but the sex just sucks. I don't want to leave her but IDK. Everytime we have sex she always orgasms and is satisfied but I'm not. I feel like she gets what she wants but doesn't give me anything in return, please help me.
2007-04-29 14:12:44 · 7 answers · asked by Oceanside 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pick up a book for the 2 of you to look at together and try out - something like the Kama Sutra, Joy of Sex or something that shows different positions and techniques. If sex is something new, she might not know how to satisfy you and might think that she already is doing what you like. It is hard to tell someone that they aren't satisfying you, so don't. I think that the approach of "let's try something new to keep things fresh" approach along with the book might help.
2007-04-29 14:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried taking to her about it? Sex is something that should be equally satisfying for both parties involved. The real problem is lack of sexual communication. Like with anything else you two will share she hasn't learned you likes and dislikes in sex ed 101. So I think you really need to tell her how you feel.
2007-04-29 21:18:43 · answer #2 · answered by beatyful 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ha! so fair!! For years the men have had all the fun and left the ladies in the lurch!
2007-04-29 21:16:29 · answer #3 · answered by parental unit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres really nothing we can do. but seriously u should be happy that u are pleasing her! Thats what any decent guy wants to do!!
Maybe u should speak to her!!
2007-04-29 21:16:58 · answer #4 · answered by stevieglenwright 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her what you want. sudgest you try a funky new position or she could blow you? Just ask!
2007-04-29 21:17:48 · answer #5 · answered by Dancing with love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't help u there.sorry.
2007-04-29 21:15:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
forget her and move on
2007-04-29 21:16:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋