I was trying to talk my ex-girlfriend into going back out with me, but she told me that she needs time to heal (from past relationships, excluding ours) and that eventually she will give me another chance, but in the meantime we can be "friends with benefits". Ok, so we're in high school, but we decided a while back that we are both saving ourselves until marriage. so how does the whole "friends with benefits" thing work out without sex? does it mean that we can date but just not a relationship? or makeout? Help me! I dont understand!
2007-04-29 03:14:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
then you are friends with out benefits. no harm with that
2007-04-29 03:18:44 · answer #1 · answered by suro25 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Friends with benefits" means sex without the commitment of a relationship. Friends without sex are just friends. She's trying to tell you she's not interested in being in a relationship with you at all right now. You and she are friends only, nothing more.
Sorry to disappoint.
2007-04-29 03:18:00 · answer #2 · answered by crackerhammermike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually Yes! friends with benefits are people Who have Intiments moments with one another but if you guys say that yall are savin yall selves for marriage then i dont really know the answer but yall can still kiss,hug & comfort one another.
The main part about friends with benefits is Having SEX.
yall dont have to have sex just chill with one another,share time,go out & have fun!
That's All...........!
2007-04-29 03:27:17 · answer #3 · answered by **Ms.Ashlie** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she means friends and the benefits part means making out, kissing, just doing things that "normal friends" wouldnt do
2007-04-29 03:18:43 · answer #4 · answered by #1 Monkey Minion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's friends with benefits alright she will come back be your friend so you can take her out and she doesn't have to do anything with you so your just friends and she gets the benefits works out perfectly......well for her anyway.
2007-04-29 03:24:48 · answer #5 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
acquaintances with advantages or FWB is the position you're acquaintances as such yet also have casual consensual sex with one yet another. Too undesirable you at the instantaneous are not my neighbour, i might want to like that comradeship
2016-11-23 14:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to inform her that "friends with benefits" means friends who have sex. I have never heard anything other than this. Maybe she is going with the Bill Clinton strategy and thinking that the two of you can please each other without actually having intercourse.........
2007-04-29 03:19:53 · answer #7 · answered by crash27_m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not all about sex save yourself until marriage and just ask her what you mean about you guys being friends with benefits
2007-04-29 03:19:32 · answer #8 · answered by latosha h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not what she was thinking cuz if you are not having benefits than it is not friends with benefits. I think you might want to break it to her.
2007-04-29 04:23:52 · answer #9 · answered by ♫♥PinkGirl♥♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sex is the benefits. Anything else is just friends. She must have misspoken.
2007-04-29 03:18:25 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is confused i think she ment she just wants to be friends and dont really understand what the term friends with benefits implies. i would take it as meaning she just wants to be friends with you for now.
2007-04-29 03:18:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋