i was hurt by the guy i love more then anything in the world what can i do to get back at him. i know its wrong but i have to do something his family has hurt me for the last 6 please help me and i will do anything for people
2007-04-29 02:50:28 · 31 answers · asked by suepooh23 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the best thing to do is to show him that it doesn't matter. don't let him or his family know how they have affected you. if you try to hurt them back, you're the same as them. is that what you want? if you see one of them, ignore them. act as if you don't know them. it won't be easy, but try it anyway.
2007-04-29 02:54:50 · answer #1 · answered by wendy_da_goodlil_witch 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl the best thing you should do is not do anything at all.
I know girl it's not just what you want hear or to do but remember it is not worth sinking in to someones level. I'm sorry for all the hurt that this guy and his family did to you but sometimes you know there is people that want to see you feeling destroyed for them is a victory seeing you that way dont give them girl what thy want to see or feel you are a winner so dont give up you seem like a bright person dont do something that maybe down the line you well pretty much regrit excuse my spelling. God will take care of all the mess that they have put you through. Just be patience. Just an advice talk to someone whom you trust and tell them whats going on cause beleive it or not when you speak to someone that will make you feel better. And lets say that this person don't leave you or alone then you have other ways to distance this person away from you and that is going to the police and put a restraning order on him excuse my writing again. Or just girl try to get away from him as much as you can. I wish you good luck girl and please dont do anything to this guy he is not worth anything to get your hands dirty so heads up
2007-04-29 10:09:40 · answer #2 · answered by mary o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, step back. Listen to yourself. How do you feel? Angry? Hurt? Pissed off? Life isn't fair. It sucks, but it does. I'm not going to tell you what to do. I don't know you. I don't know the situation, I don't know the details. I will offer a few suggestions. Try writing about your feelings, your thoughts. What's happened and what you want to do. Talk to someone you trust, your best friend, a parent, anyone who will be honest with you and not judge you. I'm not telling you not to seek revenge. The problem is, Revenge may hurt you more than them, because you clearly have morals and principals. I hate to see people let other people influence them to drop down to their level. Its hard to be the better person. Just take some time to think and look at all your options. And stay away from them completely if they're poison. Don't let them suck you down. I hope this helps a little. Later.
2007-04-29 10:00:20 · answer #3 · answered by Lews Therin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been wronged by many people in the past and as I grew older I realised that things tend to work out ok if you do nothing.I believe in karma and I know that each and every person who hurt me in the past had something bad happen to them.This could be because of their own actions or just bad luck but I like to think that some of it was for me!!
2007-04-29 09:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by wattie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As they say, time is the best healer. Time should heal a lot of your pain.
If you could tell how exactly he hurt you I could give you some really nasty means of hurting him.
Best thing would be to get another boy friend, a guy much better than him, who could give him an inferiority complex. You could also ignore him when he comes near to you or insult him in from of his friends, especially the new girl friend if any :D
Or spread a nasty rumour of what he did to you and what a crook he is... etc etc
2007-04-29 10:02:03 · answer #5 · answered by roshansherigar2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hit um where u know it hurts there weak points and knock down there strong points so there left with nothing but hope like they hurt u but make sure that is really what u want to do if it is not then if u do hurt them u will feel terrible revenge is a poisin u know ince it takes u over its all over from there ( i got that line from spider-man but hey its true)
2007-04-29 09:57:48 · answer #6 · answered by missy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just had the same experience, and believe me, what i did was probably something that my ex had disliked a lot.
i do not understand the details of your situation, but mine was that my ex had cheated on me. i got so mad, i did everything i could to track down the girl and i had called her and told her things that he had done behind her back. she totally blew up. basically, what i did was letting more girls that were around him know what kind of a a**hole he was and im sure it is going to be hard for him to get a new girlfriend now.
goodluck!
2007-04-29 09:56:23 · answer #7 · answered by xsophzx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only hurting yourself with this attitude. Work on letting go of the past and seeking better things for yourself in the future.
2007-04-29 10:03:15 · answer #8 · answered by Helen W. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should stoop to their level of cruelity. Just stay strong. You will make it through the difficult times.
If you really want to hurt him then I would leave him. He has no right treating you like crap.
Good luck and God Bless!!
2007-04-29 09:58:16 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the stupidest thing I ever heard. You "love" this guy "more than anything in the world" and you want to hurt him in retaliation?
Stupid stuff.
2007-04-29 09:54:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋