I would like to do something special for my boyfriend. He has been so great through some hardships these past few months. To be more specific, I would like to do something special in the bedroom. Maybe a new position or something kinky or dressing up. I was also thinking of buying some sexy lingerie. Im sort of a tom boy so I am not very comfortable with my body but for him I am willing to do it. Any advice on what to do? Any advice on how to be more comfortable with my body? Anything helps. Thankyou.
2007-04-29 21:10:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thank you all for your answers. I dont know if i can pick a best since they were all really helpful. He has seen me naked plenty of times. I just find it hard to feel sexy. Sometimes I end up feeling silly.
2007-04-29 21:22:44 · update #1
I'm assuming he's seen you naked right ... just go for it. get a black lace corset with thigh highs, heels, do your hair and make up , dance for him while he's tied up and have your way with him.
You're willing to do it for him so just do it...don't worry about your body concentrate on him...he'll love you for it.
2007-04-29 21:15:13 · answer #1 · answered by CUTIE PIE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First i would make a nice dinner. Make sure it's what he likes. Sexy doesn't have to be uncomfortable. There are the boy shorts that are lacy and pretty get a lacy tank to go with the shorts. Nice music, wine, candles, fresh sheets on the bed. All that helps. You haven't said what you normally do in the bedroom to do something different. But for me I would be the one in control. I would initiate the sex. I would do a strip tease for him. Whipped cream and carmel sauce to kick of the oral pleasure is a good way to get everything in gear. After that you won't have to do much. Just went there this weekend and after the head, I was no longer in control and the sex was off the chain. You just have to know what you like and whatever you see yourself doing just do it.
2007-04-29 21:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by cinnamon35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is to not do anything like that if you are not going to be comfortable doing it. The best way to be comfortable with your body is to just let go of everything that makes you not like you're body. It sounds to easy, but just try it, it work. Don't care - stop thinking about it. When you're doing something and you start thinking about what you like or something just make yourself stop and ay more attention to what you were doing. If you want to try to some lingerie but you're not to comfortable with it - go to a place like Victoria secret, they have nice cotton teddies that are sexy but still comfortable. I think what he might appreciate more than anything is for you to just let go all your inhibitions. Then you'll be more willing to try pretty much anything.........
2007-04-29 21:17:23 · answer #3 · answered by מימי 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ticklish?
It can be very erotic to have him tie you to the bed and tickle you playfully and erotically (while respecting your limits and giving you air breaks).
Have him tickle you gently with his fingernails, with an ostrich feather and with a soft sable fur paint brush. As the tickling continues, you will both become aroused.
Have him worship your breasts while gently tickling your sides and armpits. You will both find this very erotic and very arousing.
As this winds down, you will realize that you just experienced an incredible form of extended foreplay.
To really set the mood, take an erotic bubble bath with him first and then light the candles in the bedroom.
Feel free to email me if you have any questions,
Good luck to you both!
2007-04-29 21:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by mgctouch 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all when you go shopping pick up what first appeals you. usually thats the right one. then go home put it on and prance around with it on, get the feel of it , look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself your the ****. make plans at a bed and breakfast or whatever you can do at the time. when you put that outfit on strut your thang girl like you did when you where at home by yourself. when your practicing at home try lil things like biting your bottom lip, putting your hand on your chest and stroking down towards your breasts, men love that ****. you have to explore your on body first be fore you feel comfortable with anyone else.
2007-04-29 21:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by Shandlan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Candles, oil, soft music, champagne all set up in the room before he sees. Then tell him you just want to let him know how you feel and tell him he needs to let you start thing off and then his wish is there to be granted. Errrrrr KY may be needed.
2007-04-29 21:18:09 · answer #6 · answered by Bosspooba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋