He was my world.
2007-04-29 23:31:41 · 9 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thankyou everyone, if you ever look back on these answers I want all of you to know how much I appreciate your input, this is a really sad time in my life.
2007-04-30 00:47:53 · update #1
Believe that you're worth more then that, u deserve to be happy, and having fun. Tell yourself u dont want that skunk to ruin ur life andmake u upset, becuase ur better off without him.
2007-04-30 01:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was the reason for this. It's hard to communicate without knowing the entire reason. There could be several answers, some may not be for you.
I would get back to my lifestyle. I've been around this block once already. I went back to school and got back with friends that understood me.
She went a different way that she though she wanted, dating, sleeping over, heavy drinking and partying.
Eight months later she called and "wanted to try it out again" the vary first nigh I found out she had a DUI in placed. I asked her why. She said it was in case she changed her mind. I left right there. After another six months she showed up again, with her mother.
She begged to come back and said things were changed. I told her no. I changed my life without her and had a good life.
Get back with your life, your friends, let him do what he wants to do now, before it really hurts after your married and have kids. Think about it. If he's doing this now, better now then later.
2007-04-30 06:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful that you didn't have to go through a painful divorce. THEN try and get yourself together. The most important thing is to find yourself, and by that I mean, for the most part the past however long you were with this guy, you were a couple and everything you did and decided was based on two people--now it is based on you--and only you. Find out the things that make you happy, and do them. Take up old hobbies that you did before you met him. Find new ones, rediscover yourself as an individual. Like who you are--WITHOUT HIM, then you can focus on finding a successful relationship, or just dating for fun. The important thing is that you make the most of your life--then find someone to share it with. Good Luck!!!
2007-04-30 06:41:53 · answer #3 · answered by Austins Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear about that. Things like that can be very difficult to handle. But it all depends on how you go about doing it. It's deffinitly going to take some time, I'll tell you that much. And there's not much you can do. The best advice I can give you is not to dwell on it. Don't blame yourself. Just live out your life. Keep yourself busy and surrounded by friends. Take care
2007-04-30 06:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move somewhere you will never seem him again. Get a new job and new life. Start over. Set some new priorities. Make a list of what is REALLY important in your life. Lose that zero.
2007-04-30 06:51:24 · answer #5 · answered by Q.A. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry for your loss, but in life there are no guarantees, and i do believe things happen for a reason, better to happen now than later, just be grateful it happened now, than after marriage, and children where it may have been even more devastating. create another world for yourself, a new love, and never look back.
2007-04-30 06:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had a life before him and you will have a life after him. Remind yourself of that.
2007-04-30 07:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Other men in the sea. But its hard. I know I've been there myself. It took me awhile before i dated again. Cheer up Hon. Its not bad
2007-04-30 06:41:49 · answer #8 · answered by Wayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need your own world. Stat with making one of your own, then maybe you'll find one that fits in yours.
2007-04-30 07:15:25 · answer #9 · answered by Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋