my friend is going to ask out this boy....who i'm going to marry when i leave school...and she like my bestfriend and we haven't told anyone we're gettin married....she thinks he really likes her and she'll be crushed when he says no, i mean he might even say yes :' - ( we just need some advice on what to say....please help.
2007-04-29 23:05:05 · 7 answers · asked by Taylor 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are sure that you are getting married to this boy and the relationship is mutual, you and your fiance should tell her the truth, either way you may loss your friend or fiance, choose who is most important to you, your fiance or your friend.
2007-04-29 23:12:42 · answer #1 · answered by zainab gangaali 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have your "man" tell her straight up that he isn't interested in her and perhaps, also add, that he is already madly, truthly, deeply in love with someone else. he is an honorable guy right? Anyway this should do the trick unless she's a crazy hoe. :P j/k but seriously tho that may not work either then I guess you will have to be honest both of you and tell her that it's her best friend he's in love with.
2007-04-29 23:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he really loves ya he would say no! you dont have to ashamed of marrying him, i mean friendship is suppose to be abit different. just tell her the truth so she would keep on getting her hopes on even more, hopefull she would find someone else that might interest her
2007-04-29 23:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by Aaron B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's going to say yes, then he;s not the guy you thought he was. you are too young to even think of marriage, and aren't married yet. if you don't tell anyone of your engagement, or that you are even dating him, then what do you expect?
2007-04-29 23:12:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to tell her that he is flattered that she would like her to go out with him, but he is committed to someone else right now. If she asks who, tell him to say that she wouldn't know her.
2007-04-29 23:10:20 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u & ur bf should be very clear about ur future plans don't be shy or afraid to tell them don't for ur friends feeling let ur bf tell her yes that will make more complications just tell about ur & ur bf relationship openly . she might be angey , sad but it will not ruine all of ur 3 lives.
2007-04-29 23:12:53 · answer #6 · answered by dilu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ahaha wtf is wrong with you?
2007-04-29 23:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by iamtehwinnar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋