I care about my boyfriend alot, but theres another guy that I feel the same way about. And I would never cheat, I just dont know what to do. What if I pick the wrong person then its too late to have the other one back? Should I choose the one I have a deeper relationship with, of the one I have a better friendship with?
2007-04-29 22:11:55 · 10 answers · asked by Nicolle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is fairly normal to have feelings for someone else. But, as you mature you will realize that the grass on the other side isn't better.
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Why do you need to make a choice right now. Give it time
2007-04-29 22:18:38 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you should do yourself and both of them a favor by taking a break from all of this. It would not be fair to the new guy if you left you boyfriend just because you think you have a deeper connection with the other guy. Sometimes people just feel like they have a deeper connection with a man that is not their boyfriend because they are beginning to realize that other people are interested in them. Take a month away from both of these men and see how you feel then. People will not get hurt if you take a break and after the break you will be able to decide if you really have deep feelings for either of them.
2007-04-30 05:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the better the friendship is the better the foundations will be... its odvious theres something between you and the new guy but whether he's the right guy for you is another question... thats called chance... whereas if you stick with your bf your familiar with things. the true question is why did it come to this? not how, but why.... think about it... why you have feelings for a new guy?... the answer isn't like "he's so funny or something"... or is it something your bf did?... or am i tired with him?... you know, all those little questions. i think you'll come to your decision if you can work that out. but make sure they're your own questions to this way you have made a well informed decision. to answer your question you must pick one cause nobody is getting the real you.
2007-04-30 05:35:36 · answer #3 · answered by petex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well something had to have happened for you to have developed feelings for this other guy. You are going to have to follow your heart. No choice we ever make will always be the right one. We just have to learn from the mistakes we make. But evaluate the current relationship before you make a decision. If you feel the other guy will be a better match then go for it. However, if your current guy hasn't given u a reason to drop him then why do it?
2007-04-30 05:28:36 · answer #4 · answered by cinnamon35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose the one who deeply and truly loves u and cares 4u, choose the one for whom ur feelings are more stronger or u've spent more quality time.
and if he's ur boyfrnd, then strengthen ur bond of frndshp with ur bf so that in future u may not look upto other people for their frndshp.
but if he's the friend then make sure that it's just not the attraction that is driving u towards him. or otherwise u'll regret it later.
decide only after introspectiong urself and carefully watching ur feelings and actions. good luck!
2007-04-30 05:32:02 · answer #5 · answered by random_real_imaginations 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant love two guys at the same time.surely u must be confused.you leav your boyfriend to the other guy or contineu your relationship with your boyfriend and forget about the other guy.there is a saying that "you cant get married to two men as your Husband and leav with them under the same roof"at a time.
2007-04-30 05:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to one first and tell to your current bf what you feel. It is better to have a good comunication with him. After you tell it to him. Observe his chill outs and if you notice that he is not serious. Maybe you commit to the other side.
2007-04-30 05:18:43 · answer #7 · answered by Aeron John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose ONE wisely. You'll probably never get a chance with the one you burned bridges with!
2007-04-30 05:16:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have those feelings some thing must be wrong with the bf or you wouldnt be thinking the way you are
2007-04-30 05:18:01 · answer #9 · answered by frank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called life
your decision
2007-04-30 05:14:53 · answer #10 · answered by pop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋