It has just come to my attention, that my boyfriend of nearly 6 years has had several relationships behind my back in the time we have been together. I believe they involved sexual relations. He denys it all, but a woman always knows. One of the "flings" involved him traveling on a plane. In the meantime, I've been completely supportive of him and faithful. I thought he was the one. The last of these 2 secret relationships I learned about ended about 6 months ago. Since then he really does seem to be completely with me. I finally really feel loved by him. But now I've found out about this past. I still love him, but he won't even admit it. What do I do?
2007-05-01 23:31:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you still with him? You should have left after you found out about the first relationship behind your back. Now he's just thinking that you are a doormat because if you'll stay the first time he cheats on you, then he knows he can do it again and again and you aren't going NO WHERE. Enjoy the lying dog and wondering where he is and what he is doing when he's out all night.
2007-05-01 23:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by juniper555 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a question that only truly you can answer. but some advice is that is the last relationship ended 6 months ago, then I would be worried that six months to a year from now he might do it again. alot of people say once a cheater always a cheater that is not always true. but I would question is if he loves you so much and cares for you so much why would he have these relationships w/other women and have you get possibly hurt by what you found out. you need to talk to him and let him know that he hurt you really bad and that under no circumstances will you tolerate it again. Good Luck to you-but only you can make the right choice.
2007-05-01 23:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by Daisy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 07:23:03 · answer #3 · answered by grimwood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him if he really loved you he wouldnt of cheated in the first place and he doesnt have the decency to admit to it now. Can you trust him again, is he worth it? You dont want to be wondering for the rest of your life is he faithful. I say you should dump him now, if he cheated once maybe its forgivable but several times no way get out their and find a decent man for yourself one who will not cheat and string you along like this for six years no one deserves that.
2007-05-01 23:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question is could you live knowing this the rest of your life if you are still together? Several relationships is a huge red flag about the state of your relationship with this man.
2007-05-01 23:50:19 · answer #5 · answered by Bazinga 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either accept it or dump him and move on. Only two choices. By the way, once a cheater, always a cheater.
2007-05-01 23:35:56 · answer #6 · answered by jingles 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
jingles is right. If he cheats on your once, he'll cheat on you twice. And if you forgive him and let him back into your arms, he's probably smiling at how gullible you are and will continue to be. Don't fall for more of his tricks!
2007-05-01 23:40:18 · answer #7 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I give a space to anyone that plays me unless if you say you are too ugly and too weak
2007-05-01 23:45:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can go ahead loving him but u should be careful and care of ur self.
2007-05-01 23:44:01 · answer #9 · answered by Cfriend C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater Always a cheater!
2007-05-01 23:36:19 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋