you fail in your marriage,and you felt hopeless as your friends have a happy family as not you...your friends would ask why ?and they dont seem understand....do you feel ashame of yourself as you cant make a good family...compared to your friends?like maybe a loser...and sometimes you think why dont i be like them?what can we do?also your friends and other people would talk behind your back saying "look at her she cant manage .....her life"what a pity women"
2007-05-01 23:30:09 · 9 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
People think more about themselves than others. I havn't been divorced, but I know women who have, including my sister. I feel for her and hope she can make a happy life for herself. What other people think doesn't matter. Best wishes.
2007-05-01 23:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, the grass is not always greener on the other side - just b/c other marriages look like they are "together" and wonderful - doesn't mean they are - it just means that the other people are hiding their problems better. I bet you if you sat down with other women and talked for real about their relationships - they all have issues. Either their husbands work too much, doesn't help around the house, doesn't spend enough time with the kids, doesn't listen - blah blah - it's all the same, just different people
2007-05-02 06:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by abby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO I do not feel like this.
I have been married for 10 yrs. (tomorrow) & , no
our marriage is not always peachy, but it is a good marriage . We learned to talk to eachother about eveything & to LISTEN to each other too, then compromise & find the best solution when a problem does happen.
perhaps all you need is some marrige counseling & as far as your friends how dare they talk about you behind your back, a TRUE friend would NOT
do that, they would try to help you !
2007-05-02 06:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel this same exact way. My marriage isn't the greatest and I am contemplating a divorce. I feel that my family (parents, and siblings) look down on me like I am a loser and a failure. They think my husband is such a great person, and he is. However, they don't live with him and know his habits and what goes on behind closed doors. It is quite difficult and I often feel I live my life to please my parents while I am a grown woman.
2007-05-02 06:37:01 · answer #4 · answered by Blue Eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends who gloat about how wonderful their lives are are kidding themselves, how do they know what is around the corner, perhaps they will also find out their husbands have cheated, no one knows what the future holds. It's all in your head, you are the one that feels a failure, no one else is thinking that of you, they are probably feeling sympathy for you, and thinking "That could happen to me". No one has a perfect life, so don't think yours is any different, you just have a different set of problems, that's all.
2007-05-02 08:45:02 · answer #5 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends, real friends, wouldn't talk behind your back, ever. You feel that way because it is part of the healing process. Your friends don't have any better marriages then you do, trust me.
2007-05-02 06:37:05 · answer #6 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew it, women can turn on you like a pack of dogs and chew you up.
self pity is a bad thing
2007-05-02 06:36:53 · answer #7 · answered by rosie p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL SORRY, AS I M NOT SUPPOSED TO ANSWER THIS QUESTION, BUT I M FORCED TO TELL YOU THAT YOU SHOULD NOT CARE OF WORLD, IF YOUR MARRIAGE GOT FAILED, THERE MIGHT BE THOUSANDS OF REASONS. & PAST IS PAST, SO LOOK AHEAD ONLY. PEOPLE WILL NEVER STOP TALKING EVEN IF IT IS BEST OF LOT. SO DON'T CARE OF PEOPLE OR GENERAL FRIENDS, RELY ON YOU WILL POWER AS WELL AS VERY VERY GOOD & TESTED FRIENDS.
SORRY AGAIN
2007-05-02 06:38:54 · answer #8 · answered by cool guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, this is all wrong
sorry i got divorced because he was a Cheat and a Liar...
I did not fail, HE did
2007-05-02 06:33:38 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋