Family & Relationships - 1 May 2007

I was just wondering about this. Because, when I have sex I find it very hard to not have feelings afterwards, I start caring about them more. Is this the same for men? And I really enjoy the cuddling and stroking aspects of sex, is this the same for men? Especially after sex, I feel like I need to snuggle or I can't sleep. Any insights on what sex is like for a man or what it means to you would be great, I'm just extremely curious!

2007-05-01 14:21:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this does not sound like fun to me, and i told her i don't want to. should i be worried she might go to someone ealse. she has been faithful til this point, she wants to try this very bad.

2007-05-01 14:20:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This guy, Mike, who's like the class clown, keeps flirting with me. Whenever he passes me, he says "Nice haircut" or "Nice shoes." One time he flicked my back and pretended he didn't do it. Today, we were sitting in a circle cuz we were playing a game for history and he says "Nice haircut. Did you get new shoes too?" And I say no, these are like the only ones I have except for the tennis shoes. And he goes "What about your converse?" And a girl asked him what he said, and we asked how he remembered my shoes he said "I study her." And then he was asking me all these questions, like if I had any brothers or sisters, and if I liked them and where I got my haircut

2007-05-01 14:13:05 · 7 answers · asked by omygosh 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-01 14:11:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My gift has to relate to what people do at 9:00 in the morning. What do you do at 9:00 in the morning? If you are still sleeping then, do you have any ideas on what I could use?

2007-05-01 14:09:46 · 11 answers · asked by Rachel B 3 in Weddings

what do i do for fun with friends and crushes?
hanging out wise?
any plans?

2007-05-01 14:08:42 · 1 answers · asked by cabsleeper 4 in Friends

I am finding that I am becomming my parents- and I HATE IT- I dont know how to change. I am in therapy now but I still have a hard time rooting out their beliefs from my own, since I was raised with such a tight fist I feel I dont even know who "I am" now- has anyone tried to establish themselves seperate from their parents? I am scared to death that I am becomming just like them- emmulating their behavior which is horrible... Anyone else gone through this?

2007-05-01 14:08:04 · 5 answers · asked by katie 2 in Family

I have been seeing this guy off and on for the past 2 months. Sunday we had a talk and decided to start seeing each other again (we had previously been a couple for 2 months before the off and on), but take things slow since we rushed into the whole bf/gf thing. He came over Sunday and saw me, but since then I didn't talk to him until today on the computer. He works nights and he said that he didnt get a chance to call yesterday cause he was sleeping all day and then running late for work and that he was getting ready to go back to bed for a little bit before he went to work tonight. Should I assume he has changed his mind? I don't want to push him away by asking.

2007-05-01 14:07:29 · 10 answers · asked by LAH 2 in Singles & Dating

hi i am 36 going to be 37 in june . i am from india . although people here marry usually in arranged marriage i have always found it ludicrous . but on the other hand i have never found true long lasting love either . if a girl likes me i dont like her ; if both of us like each other there is some other hitch . kind of like a male ally mcbeal . am i alone or are there others like me out there too ?

2007-05-01 14:03:55 · 2 answers · asked by atmaram 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok this guy acted like he liked me when he doesn't and as it turns out he wants my best friend! Why did he flirt with me if he didn't want me?

2007-05-01 14:01:12 · 18 answers · asked by Shelby 1 in Singles & Dating

guys, wht do u look for in a girl im in 7th and guys r mean to me. they think im ugly, when im not and say im wmo, im not.
help
wht do u look for in girls.....
dont be shy!!

2007-05-01 13:58:38 · 14 answers · asked by xo3cheersxo 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-01 13:57:57 · 6 answers · asked by Vince 1 in Family

In highschool, I date the cutest most popular guy at school, and girls are always picking on me because of it, and being rude or mean, how do i get them to stop without losing my boyfriend

2007-05-01 13:57:56 · 11 answers · asked by trickortreat 2 in Singles & Dating

i don't plan on it.. i've always just wondered how this one works.

2007-05-01 13:55:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so i met this girl 4 weeks back and everyday since we have been talking, texting, emailing for hours at a time ECT. i really like her and really want to meet her again. she is avoiding this because she says "she needs to know someone well before hanging out with them" well its been 4 weeks now and im going nuts because i think shes awesome but she absolutly will not meet up with me and i dont wanna seem desperate about it.

she gives the same excuse tho, i asked if theres something shes not telling me like "poss rape victim" she said no.

is there something i am missing? why wont she meet up with me to hang out or date?

also i told her today i dont think i want a long distance friendship like this when it isnt nesscary since we live so close to each other. did i screw myself over with that?

2007-05-01 13:51:54 · 5 answers · asked by wazzup151821 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-01 13:44:51 · 8 answers · asked by Emmi H 2 in Friends

my exhusband wanted to take our daughter to spend the weekend at his new g/f house. She lives an hour and a half away from me, I have never met the women neither has my 3 year old daughter. Plus they have only been dating a month

2007-05-01 13:38:08 · 23 answers · asked by Chelle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband cheated on me and he was very remorseful at first but now when i bring it up hes like well sh** happens i was going to try to make things work since he did transfer jobs and i left him and moved a1000 miles away and he moved down here to try to work it out but now its occuring to me he thinks its kinda ok or do you think hes tired of me mentioning it every day and just doesnt want to here it anymore?

2007-05-01 13:35:27 · 18 answers · asked by hcj25 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He's single but when ever he gets with a girl they cheat on him or reject him , he's losing hope in ever dating. what could he do?

2007-05-01 13:34:29 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay so I'm an idiot. He said he loved me and was inlove with me. So why do I have a five month old daughter who has never met her father? and why is he telling everyone she isn't his and that I went out got pregnant for some random guy so I could pass the baby off as his and get him to marry me? I never said anything to him about marriage he is the one who kept bringing it up. Why would I want to marry his sorry fat bald a** anyway, sorry venting. I just want to prove that it is his kid.

2007-05-01 13:34:15 · 1 answers · asked by ClassyKat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so one my friends loves to fake things but she did something so dumb here let me explain: she came to school on monday with a ring on from like the dollar store, and shes like im getting married! (shes 15) and she showed her ring and shes like " my bf goes to providence highschool and like he broke up with his gf and after that he started like dating me" and she starts writing "i love adam" all over her agenda and everything, and then shes like we are getting married when we are 18, and the next day she comes to school and she flips open her cellphone and she shows us a picture of her "bf" but its sooooo obvious that she took a magazine and took pictures from a magazine of a model! and my other friend said yea right you got that from a magazine and she gulps and her face turns red and shes like: "no thats ma man" seriously whats her problem do some girls really do stupid stuff like this?

2007-05-01 13:29:57 · 1 answers · asked by californiadudette1991 2 in Friends

I can cite many instances of love being torn apart on various grounds such as materialistic gains, caste, religion and region, good looks, parental pressure etc. Very seldom the person invokes empathy on the shattering mental impact left on the affected. While the victim actually benefits from the release of life tied to an unsteady soul for life, the agony of separation is likely to leave a lifetime scar on the affected. In this context how do you define one such person?

2007-05-01 13:29:49 · 17 answers · asked by Nimit 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like sex- in fact, I like it more than most guys. The thing is, girls really aren't suppossed to like sex- so do I have a problem? I mean, its not like it consumes my life, but I have no inhibitions about doing the dirty.
Its not like I sleep with everyone I meet, but if I feel a spark, I'll do it- even if I'm not dating the guy.
So am I morally wrong, or am I just sexually progressive?
I do not know what to think about my behavior, and that is why I'm asking you.

2007-05-01 13:29:36 · 12 answers · asked by Just Mara 3 in Singles & Dating

Since I do not trust my ex-husband's second wife (now widow) and since she does not communicate with my and my ex-husband's children, how will I know that if he left something to the chldren, they will actually receive it? Is there any outside oversight as far as Living Trusts go?

2007-05-01 13:28:47 · 6 answers · asked by Maggan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Sex life is a disaster,everything i do is not appreciated and my life is so lonely.Its like i made a wrong move to get married to him.

2007-05-01 13:28:38 · 12 answers · asked by lista83 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-01 13:28:14 · 2 answers · asked by Stephanie 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl....ALOT, I've already told her before that I like her and she didnt have much of a positive or negative reaction to it but we are still good friends and she seemed to talk to me more and feel more comftorable around me after that, my friend knows that I like her but he always talks to her and plays around with her and **** in class. I get so damn jealous some days I want to just forget about pursuing her with the intent to date but other days she seems like she's intrested than usual. He's always trying to joke around with her and stuff I know he sounds like a bad friend but we get along fine in other classes. I always get paranoied and think that they're talking to each other more than she talks to me, and that really tears at me. Should I just forget about her?

2007-05-01 13:27:25 · 1 answers · asked by Gr33n Tea 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my best friend have been close for 3 years. He's the one i can talk to about everything and i'm the only girl that can "open him up" (pretty lucky to have that considering the fact he's the "shy boy" private-person type). He's liked me all this time and just recently i started to develop feelings for him. We care for each other deeply but decided that if the right time came, it would just happen - no rush. Recently, we just lost someone we knew - he was very close to him. I don't want to be a pushover and annoy him so i would (now and then) call and txt to see how he's doing. At the service, he was completely vulnerable with me - physically and emotionally. He would be "composed" with everyone but with me, he was like a little boy. Rather than big hugs, he would just hold me for a long time and hold me close to him. I don't want him to think i'm taking advantage of this situation bc we're vulnerable. How can i be there for him?

2007-05-01 13:22:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i like this one guy but he dosent know it and i want to tell him but i dont know how i think ill just tell him on the last day of school right before the bell rings then he can have the whole summer to think abbout it but how should i tell him what should i say because i really dont want to mess up my relationship with him as a friend and i went and told his best friend and i dont really trust him not to tell him allthough he swore he wouldent say anything so i dont know what to do help me

i might as well kill myself to night that would be better that faceing him tomorrow ive acually thought about kiling myself over him before but i just couldent leave him with out saying goodbye and im not gonna be all like hey i am goimg to kill myself tonight so i thought i would just say goodbye how stupid would that be and besides he would probably chase after me and try to talk me out of it and i would just start crying and tell him i love him but i couldent do that it would crush him,advice?

2007-05-01 13:19:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm just wondering what you really want in life and how it affects your choice of a lover. it seems like many women want a bad boy, and then complain he acts bad and emotionally abusive. I think that is the main reason most boys act so bad! You also don't seem to want a normal boring buy, even though it would be the most stable and dependable relationship. What do you really want in life and love?

2007-05-01 13:19:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating