this does not sound like fun to me, and i told her i don't want to. should i be worried she might go to someone ealse. she has been faithful til this point, she wants to try this very bad.
2007-05-01 14:20:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
go for it . and take it slow , give her a chance to relax as you enter her and besure to use a good lube . and wear a rubber if your worried about a little $h-t on your d!@k . most guys would be more then happy to have thier girl want to try it . plus after you get over your hang ups you may find that you like it
2007-05-01 14:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by crazy_ol_hippie_radical 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what's the issue - if she wants to try something new - do it! I'm sure she's done things for you she may not have been too keen to try initially, so put away your reservations, use plenty of lube and GO SLOW.... it's a real turn on for most women coz they can stimulate themselves at the same time and reach climax really well. Don't be shy - give it a try and she'll love you for being such a loving partner ! Besides, isn't this what most guys really want to try at least once in their life ?....
2007-05-01 21:26:02 · answer #2 · answered by mamabear_45 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like this isn't you, then she should understand. Peer pressure is awful and this move in your life will be, well no turning back. Its possible that one day you'll never get this out of your head. Do what makes you feel comfortable, if she wants it there, then buy her a toy and let her do it herself, and who, or what in the world is making her so curious. Maybe you should ask her if she is satisfied with you, or has she done this with someone else. Be very careful and always wrap yourself, that place is so scarry.
2007-05-01 21:27:28 · answer #3 · answered by sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it, and then you won't have to worry about it anymore. A guy that isn't willing to try that with a willing partner, is defiantly going to make her suspicious, or wonder about the guy. Half the time, it will be so uncomfortable for her, she'll never want to try it again, so you do it once, and odds are she won't want to try it again, so your off the hook. If she does like it, then I can almost promise you, that you'll love it.
2007-05-01 21:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by David 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well don't worry that she is going to go to someone else, but in a relationship it is good to try things at least once.
That way you can say you tried, instead of just shutting her down and saying no.
2007-05-01 21:24:58 · answer #5 · answered by Exhausted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't for everyone, that is the truth, but do it if she wants it. Sex is about exploration between two people. Just put on alot of lube and all will work out okay. Besides, it is a great sensation for you too. Tight. She will be the one with the pain, not you. Just take it easy on her.
2007-05-01 21:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by Corey 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everything is weird and kinky on the first shot. You may be scared but its nothing new. Its just another thing you can do with your man tool. Try to be adventurous, girls like that. Life is short enjoy it :)
2007-05-01 21:24:24 · answer #7 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, people who are capable of monogamous relationships and are willing to be in one are not going to jump into bed with someone else simply because one's partner is unable or unwilling to preform certain desires.
2007-05-01 21:25:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should respect your decision if you honestly do not want to try that. Point out to her that you would respect he decision if she told you that she didn't want to try something that you wanted to.
Although, for the record, you may want to change your mind and at least give it a shot.
2007-05-01 21:24:22 · answer #9 · answered by Chip 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Suggestion: Use a dildo or vibrator and practice fastidious hygiene. It's a compromise but also has the benefit that you can fill her up both ways at once... if you get my drift. She may really like that.
2007-05-01 21:24:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋