Me and my best friend have been close for 3 years. He's the one i can talk to about everything and i'm the only girl that can "open him up" (pretty lucky to have that considering the fact he's the "shy boy" private-person type). He's liked me all this time and just recently i started to develop feelings for him. We care for each other deeply but decided that if the right time came, it would just happen - no rush. Recently, we just lost someone we knew - he was very close to him. I don't want to be a pushover and annoy him so i would (now and then) call and txt to see how he's doing. At the service, he was completely vulnerable with me - physically and emotionally. He would be "composed" with everyone but with me, he was like a little boy. Rather than big hugs, he would just hold me for a long time and hold me close to him. I don't want him to think i'm taking advantage of this situation bc we're vulnerable. How can i be there for him?
2007-05-01 13:22:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he's the only i could be comfortably close with emotionally and physically - same goes for him. I wanna be there for him completely but i don't know if i'm doing it right
Why is he like this with me?
2007-05-01 13:22:20 · update #1
He is like that with you because you were blessed by God with a closeness not often felt or seen. Stop questioning it and enjoy each other. To be there for him, well just call him or go to see him once a day, just BE THERE for him. You don't have to do much more than that
2007-05-02 03:39:58 · answer #1 · answered by ma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋