my exhusband wanted to take our daughter to spend the weekend at his new g/f house. She lives an hour and a half away from me, I have never met the women neither has my 3 year old daughter. Plus they have only been dating a month
2007-05-01 13:38:08 · 23 answers · asked by Chelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't worry, your three year old wont recognise the sounds of them positively THRUSTING on top of one another, she'll probably get sick of her high chair, wobble out of it and crack her head open on the floor.
2007-05-01 13:42:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
no.. no... nooo......... hell no!!! I would have to meet her first and also your daughter will need to meet her a few times before that was to happen, your ex is a dumb ***, he isn't thinking of your daughter and her feelings. like she is really going to be comfortable staying in the house with someone she has never met.. I don't think so, I WOULD NOT PERMIT IT!!!! Maybe if he was dating her a year and it was serious and u all have met, and I am not saying you have to be best friends with her, but enough where you will feel comfortable..I think that if your ex wants to get laid he can do it on a weekend when his daughter isn't around, and he can have some adult time, until then ugh the answer is no!!!!!!!!!!!!!! .. think about the child instead of his harm ones... (shaking head).. (shaking head)...
2007-05-01 13:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by michelle b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this would be bad for your daughter. First off cause she should slowly get to know the new girlfriend in a neutral setting like a park or something. Most importantly, who knows how long this "new" girlfriend will be around. I could see if it was serious but one month is too early to tell and your daughter could get hurt or confused.
2007-05-01 13:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by calibombshell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a month is a bit to soon to introduce a child into your ex's partners home...the relationship should be more established and he should have a much better understanding of how she does with children in general before subjecting your daughter to trial and error.
2007-05-01 13:48:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been in this exact situation and at first I was really against it and found everything wrong with the whole situation that I could. Then after doing a reality check I realized that if my ex has been responsible with his decisions in the past then I have no reason to think he would do anything that would be a negative influence on my child. I think you have to judge your decision on this from past decisons your ex has made concerning your child and go from there. I hope it all works out for you.
2007-05-01 13:52:37 · answer #5 · answered by Butterfly Girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No way. Is he crazy? Parents should keep their dating life separate from their children. This woman is someone he is sleeping with and that's it. Children should not be introduced to the women Daddy is fooling around with. Immature behavior like this can be used against him in court and his custody taken away. Tell your ex to stop thinking with what's between his legs and be a good role model for his little girl.
2007-05-01 13:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by LuvMyGirls 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to respect your partners rights to be involved in his childs life. If he has met someone that he feels strongly for, its normal and natural that he would want her to meet his daughter because if this woman can't get on with his child then the relationship won't go much further. If you can say that you trust your partner to look after his daughter then you really should let her go.
He didn't have to tell you he was taking her to meet this woman, but he did because he wants to be open and honest with you.
2007-05-01 13:45:33 · answer #7 · answered by Em 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
actual. She has no precise telling you the thank you to make sure your baby. I understand thoroughly which you basically opt to spend time along with your loved ones and not have your son long gone for the weekend. it fairly is fairly stupid considering that its Memorial Day weekend and a few families plan for journeys to the cemetery, holidays, and such as you stated, parades. consult with that woman and clarify the region. possibly she did no longer understand the 1st time. reliable success. i wish you have an incredible time on the parade.
2016-12-10 16:48:50 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You have no idea what goes on in that household and all the people living there. You need to protect that child like she's the winning 100 million lotto ticket.
2007-05-01 13:59:54 · answer #9 · answered by Lucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! The first thing would be to meet and even then you cant be to sure, think about it they have only been dating a month. When it is all said and done follow your heart!
2007-05-01 13:46:56 · answer #10 · answered by KHARI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cannot control your ex-husband's life. stop doing it. (i'd be thrilled to death if my ex got a g/f) it's his decision to introduce his new g/f to his daughter and you cannot stop him. what he does and where he takes her on his visitation days is his business. learn to get a grip. unless there is harm coming to your daughter.....you do not have any control. if you take this in court...the judge will only laugh at you. i'm not saying this to be mean, but my ex tried this with me...telling the judge i shouldn't be having my kids since i got married and had another baby. learn to pick your battles. this isn't one of them
2007-05-01 16:33:00 · answer #11 · answered by Bella 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋