Sex life is a disaster,everything i do is not appreciated and my life is so lonely.Its like i made a wrong move to get married to him.
2007-05-01 13:28:38 · 12 answers · asked by lista83 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Got married 5 months ago.Sex life is a disaster coz he cant get it up everytime eversince marriage.I cook and clean for him but i didnt feel appreciated coz all he do is work.Its like i married the wrong guy.I feel so lonely and i will sometime fantasize about other guys.HELP!!
2007-05-01 13:44:18 · update #1
It can sure turn out this way...thank goodness for Yahoo Answers. :)
2007-05-01 13:32:20 · answer #1 · answered by naughty lady 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Try to communicate with your spouse and things will work out well for both of you. Sex is not everything in a marriage life. There are a lot more other things in marriage life
2007-05-02 10:18:10 · answer #2 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this website. It's called Lovingyou.com. It has some ideas on how to spice up your love life. If that doesn't work, try talking with your spouse. Find out about the problem before it wrecks your marriage.
2007-05-01 20:35:14 · answer #3 · answered by Scandguard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is not really that you get bored too quickly. There is so much more going on. I don't know how long you have been married, but if you cannot communicate and you don't seek help, the answer is obvious, unfortunately....divorce. You really didn't give much information to get much more of an answer. Sorry.
2007-05-01 20:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take him to a sex-therapist, a sexologist like in Meet The Fockers.
2007-05-01 20:33:50 · answer #5 · answered by inferno0424 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem probably lies with in u, maybe your just one of these people who has too high of expectations. discouragement happens when our reality doesn't match our expectations. change your attitude. work on your marriage, get some therapy, because the next guy is going to be just the same after awhile.
2007-05-01 20:48:36 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try communication.
Your question isn't as clear as it should be. If you have trouble communicating, see a marriage counsellor. Don't throw your marriage away because you think you are bored.
Does anyone truly question why the divorce rate is so high?
2007-05-01 20:41:31 · answer #7 · answered by QT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow good luck! I hope things work out. Maybe talk to him about some little things. Or see someone to help you. If you dont want to do it any longer dont hold on because the longer you do its going to hurt him that much more. Good luck though :)
2007-05-01 20:32:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If there is something you like to do together make time to do it. Try and make your sex life more interesting some how!
2007-05-01 20:39:13 · answer #9 · answered by ThunderAce 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is it the sex or being underappreciated, I don't get it? or is the sex underappreciated?
2007-05-01 20:33:47 · answer #10 · answered by Stacy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋