I have been seeing this guy off and on for the past 2 months. Sunday we had a talk and decided to start seeing each other again (we had previously been a couple for 2 months before the off and on), but take things slow since we rushed into the whole bf/gf thing. He came over Sunday and saw me, but since then I didn't talk to him until today on the computer. He works nights and he said that he didnt get a chance to call yesterday cause he was sleeping all day and then running late for work and that he was getting ready to go back to bed for a little bit before he went to work tonight. Should I assume he has changed his mind? I don't want to push him away by asking.
2007-05-01 14:07:29 · 10 answers · asked by LAH 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you might be a little clingy. Give it time. If he's still not giving you as much attention as you need, you could try talking to him. If you don't feel like you can talk to him after two months, your relationship might not be what you want it to be.
2007-05-01 14:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a little while longer.. maybe he really is busy..working night shift must be hard on the system.. with sleeping during the day.. when most people are working.. I couldn't imagine it, as I have always worked day shift..
Don't wait much longer though.. A call doesn't take long.. he could do a quick "hello"..how are you.. If he really is interested he will contact you.. Don't wait around for him though too long, and if in couple more days ..no calls.. then consider moving on.. meet someone else..
We girls let guys rule our lives.. we shouldn't do that... your too good for that.. I am 41.. and have wasted oh so much time with the wrong guys., and rejecting the right guys..
take care..
2007-05-01 14:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow! Slow down! He doesn't have to call you everyday! and pressuring him- dont' even bring up "why didn't you call me?" - just say so how was your day yesterday? Don't worry about what he's doing all the time. Guys can't stand "needy" girls who need constant attention and constant phone calls. It turns them off. Back off and just be cool and hang out with him on his free time. Trust me, if he's really really into you, he will be calling asking you to hang out.
Guys generally have this "dominant" thing buried in them- it makes them feel good to do the initiating
Hope this helps! :}
2007-05-01 14:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by MedeivelReign 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may come as a shock to you, but people have to work and do things other then answer to the girlfriend. You probally have pushed him away in the past by crouding him. Give the poor guy some space :)
2007-05-01 14:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, it's only a few days into this relationship again. just give him some time. if you can't handle it, just say you want to keep seeing him just not seriously. like dating, compared to a steady relationship. it's all up to you.
2007-05-01 14:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by emm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me: if he WANTED to call, he would have. He is merely feeding you excuses. Break free of him and move on!
2007-05-01 14:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by LovablyMe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, he thought out everything huh? well dont worry, just continue 2 c where dis'll leave.
2007-05-01 14:13:03 · answer #7 · answered by Toki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him some time and then ask him for a straight answer, he may be very indecisive.
2007-05-01 14:11:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think he is trying to be with you but he does not have much time
2007-05-01 14:11:31 · answer #9 · answered by brandon W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never know unless you ask
2007-05-01 14:10:52 · answer #10 · answered by Candy Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋