Family & Relationships - 30 April 2007

I dont understand but I am seriously giving up on love its way too complicated. 4 women said I am way too nice thats intimidating so sorry ladies rather stay tru to myself than change

2007-04-30 01:16:22 · 16 answers · asked by Jay 2 in Singles & Dating

you're alone with your male/boy/girl/lady friend and you can't wait to have sex/snog with him/her? how do you stop this happening?

2007-04-30 01:12:54 · 9 answers · asked by fatanlonely845 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been having some problems with my ex...we have been having a rough time. i want to get back with her and i have been nasty to her and i want to make up with her and treat her specail. i have said some nasty things to her at work infront of her works mates. do you think i should send her some flowers at work cos i love the girl

2007-04-30 01:10:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Any way i am a black and descent african........

2007-04-30 01:10:44 · 5 answers · asked by B-BOY 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 01:10:25 · 1 answers · asked by bobo 2 in Friends

I've just got married and I'm going through a list of people I need to tell about my name change. So far I've got the bank, work, car insurance, mortgage co., and council tax office.
I'm sure I'm missing a few - any suggestions?
Thanks!

2007-04-30 01:09:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

the friend about whom i am saying is a boy.

2007-04-30 01:07:50 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We have been married almost 10 yrs now, he has never been very romantic expressively towards me. And i have often complained and felt insecure in this relationship. Now since he joined this new company over a year now- he met his woman who works with him. She is seperated from her husband for the last 18 yrs, she is fun loving but appeared to have potrayed a sorry past to my husband (based on what he told me). Now i think they are not just friend - but he is sleeping with her as he has no interest in sex with me and does not want to do anything with me anymore. Last nite- found some calls on my caller id from her to my husband in my absence. I have requested his other male friend to keep an eye on him and let me know. I have confronted my husband abt this other woman- but he has never given me a straight answer. I have 2 kids below 5. What should i do?

2007-04-30 01:07:24 · 21 answers · asked by curious mom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love to have sex with my wife, but she told me recently that she does not feel the same,she says that she does not enjoy it all the time and could take it or leave it,lately,for about six months its mostly leave it.She says that she is too tired,and has not felt the same about sex for a few years since the children were born.The problem for me is I love having sex with her,it gives me great pleasure to see her naked, to touch her to be with her in an intimate way nobody else can.When we make love I feel like the luckiest man in the world.I like to walk past my wife and touch her or kiss her,but now she sees this as the start of sex and gets stand offish.started running and cycling an has never looked better and it drives me crazy not to be able to go near her.When I try to talk about it she gets defenceive,and tells me shes too tired and that Im making a big deal of it,but I feel so hurt,she has engery for everthing else.she says she wants time ,I just want her and its killing me?

2007-04-30 01:06:14 · 21 answers · asked by RR 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my age is 26, working in software firm

2007-04-30 01:04:13 · 5 answers · asked by coolspy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

after 2 years of a relationship, we had a fight one day. like any other fight. you fight and you make up. but this was different. he never called back. i called. but he said it was over. he was really cold. i thought he loved me. we spoke about marraige and kids, and everything. but he just left me. i asked to see him, to talk, and he said he never wanted see me again. did he ever love me? he never gave me a chance to say goodbye or explain, why did he do that? why do guys do this? and a year on, it still bugs me. i think about him so much. he says hes got a girlfriend, and this was a couple of months after we broke up. but i dont belive him, i feel he just wants to hurt me. help.....please

2007-04-30 01:02:50 · 8 answers · asked by bless1982@talk21.com 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi,

My girl friend of 2 yrs, told me that her first time was with her ex- boy friend of 5 yrs. She left him after their engagement as she felt insecure as he never earned and lived in her cash.

You can say she jumped on her friend's boy friend (me) when i broke with her friend (my ex-gf), i never had sex with anyone so didn't know if she was a virgin or not. But,one day when we were talking she told me how she lost her virginity to this guy.

She is from a conservative catholic girl, but now i feel she seems to never forget him, even though she says otherwise. I have given her a good home, car, money and even bailed her out of her credit which she incurred for her ex-guy.

So, what should i do? I am very attached to her,but everytime we have sex, it always hits me she has slept with someonelse or much worst thinking oh him or comparing him with me..

We are from Asia, down here women lose their virginity after marriage.. So, i need some advise to make my life better, pls help guys..

2007-04-30 01:02:49 · 10 answers · asked by Quest_Master 1 in Singles & Dating

if you had 1 wish what would it be and why would you make it?

2007-04-30 01:00:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

been with my fella for 6 years and we both go out a lot sepertalty with our friends. the thing is alot of people i know who are in relationships seem to do a lot of things if not most things together. where both 27 and liove together - so just wanted to klnow what peoples veiws where on this - we do still do a lot as a couple such as going to concerts and and holidays together. anyway feedback would be good to here......

2007-04-30 00:59:20 · 20 answers · asked by Pebbles 2 in Singles & Dating

im love hamid to much but my brorther no need to marrid me pls can you give my soulution and best answer

2007-04-30 00:57:42 · 9 answers · asked by Mei M 1 in Singles & Dating

Over this weekend my bf and I were riding in a car with his parents,(he's29 i'm 31)we live together-no secrets,neither one of us insecure or anything..but on his phone he has alot of funny pics and jokes his sisters send him that he shows me all the time,well he was sleep(i know it sounds bad) and his cell was on the seat so i start looking thru his pics on his phone--not his #'s or anything or calls just the pics and was laughing at all the crazy pics he has..then you know there were his regular pics on there,pics of me,and his son...then one other pic---one of his boy's girlfriend--now mind you it was just a regular pic but still he had no other pics except of us(our lil' family) and then one of her..so i wake him up(stupid move)and say why do you have a pic of so and so in your phone???It started a major arguement..yes in front of his parents..I TRUELY was NOT looking for anything but was i wrong asking about the pic or should i have left it alone and maybe asked at a lter time??

2007-04-30 00:54:24 · 6 answers · asked by ccrazeegyrl 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 00:53:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-30 00:51:39 · 8 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Friends

I have worked in my office for over 2 years. I was hired by the owner of the office, and about 4 months later he brought in an associate. Within the last year the owner has stepped back and not been in the office much. I work mainly with this associate. He is one of the most hateful, selfish, verbally abusive men I have ever met. I have put up with his abuse for a very long time. I have spoken to him and our office manager about his abuse, he has promised to change, and then never has. I have had to put up with him screaming and yelling, cursing, and even throwing things(not at me). He throws temper tantrums like a child. He has no compassion for the women who work under him. He seems to think he can treat people however he wants and never reap the consequences. I have had enough of him bringing me to tears, going home in a foul mood, being depressed over going to work, and just being under so much stress. Has anyone else ever quit a job? Did you feel relief to be away from it?

2007-04-30 00:51:37 · 3 answers · asked by LittleMermaid 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 13 years old and I like this girl, lets call her Susan. I was wondering if she likes me.

She seems to act different around me
When we had to write a love poem to either Romeo or Juliet, pretending you were the other, depending on your gender, Susan jokingly said that she was going to write hers to me.
After she read mine, she told me it was excellent and she said I should give it to her. (although many other girls said it was excellent)

She sits next to me sometimes, if she sees I'm not sitting next to anyone. She asks to sign my planner and my binders etc.
When I do something she doesn't like she gets mockingly mad and laughs.

At lunch, when I went out for recess, she was like "Hey, MY NAME, come over here" and she put a dandelion in my hair and she said it made me look pretty (she was joking)
Does she like me?

But that's not my only problem. My parents are overprotective so I wouldn't be able to ask a girl to the movies, etc, I could only go if they asked me. Problem!!!

2007-04-30 00:47:17 · 7 answers · asked by I Don't Take Your Crap 2 in Singles & Dating

Can anyone help me out here? I'm trying to find my friends profile by simply typing in her email address coz that's all I have, she has a hotmail address

2007-04-30 00:43:52 · 4 answers · asked by Sheepless 1 in Friends

My wife and I are planning a vacation and one of her fantasy is to make love in water. We have tired it once and it didn’t really work out due to dryness issues. I heard Epson slat softens the water; is it safe to make love with Epson salt added to the water?

2007-04-30 00:35:58 · 10 answers · asked by Cutless 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I broke up with my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago and i have taken a fancy to his mate and i know he likes me and i slept with him 4 the first time saturday nite and it was brilliant and i dont regret it and i know he doesnt but i am feelin a little bit sorry for my ex boyfriend i relly like his mate tho wat do i do???

2007-04-30 00:32:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

K Ive been dating a fantastic guy for the last few weeks - he seems besotted with me- constantly tells me he loves me and we are getting on fantastic - I have no problems with him and we are madly in love and spend every spare minute we have together. However - his brothers girlfriend is starting to bug me - herself and his brother live together and according to my bf are madly in love - however when we meet them she makes a point of standing in between us - gazing up at him and ignoring her bf to speak to mine. I said this to my bf who was shocked at me being jealous as he said there is nothing between him and her - but the more I see her the more I think shes into him - he does nothing to encourage her from what I can see - but shes really annoying me. She rings him for no reason as well - can you guys please help? AM I being paranoid over nothing or do you think she fancies him? Should I be worried?

2007-04-30 00:32:25 · 33 answers · asked by Its me! 1 in Singles & Dating

I constantly have guys touching my butt and it is getting annoying . People always are talking about and they think I don't know what they are saying , but I do an it is too bad to put on Yahoo . And there is this really cute guy that is flirting with me all the time but I don't do anything because I don't want to make a fool out of myself .

Someone PLEASE HELP Me !!!!!!!!!!1


Also , at home it is pretty rough because of my parents . I believe they are getting a divorce and they don't even talk to each other . This pain at home is coming out in my work . My grades are dropping dramatically . I went from a straight A student to a failure . Help please .

I am only 11.

2007-04-30 00:27:47 · 9 answers · asked by Me 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do you cut all ties with your exes? What's the purpose of it?

2007-04-30 00:25:02 · 11 answers · asked by Confused as hell 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 51 and single. I would like some female companionship while over there that doesn't have to involve sex, some romance would be nice however. What about Thailand and Russia?

2007-04-30 00:22:47 · 1 answers · asked by malabe1 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 00:21:37 · 21 answers · asked by Alan K 1 in Weddings

Recalling back as far as relationships go with women, I've noticed that they never farted, not even once, seriously what is up with that?? Do you women just like hold it in or something?

2007-04-30 00:20:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my fiance are living on opposite sides of the world so organising our wedding so far hasn't been easy- through email, text messaging and the occasional (very expensive) phone call.

When we first talked about our ceremony we agreed very small and personal because it's the sentiment behind it that's important not the big party.

I know he's trying to be helpful most of the time BUT he keeps inviting friends and making decisions without consulting me first. For example we agreed on 2 close mutual friends to attend and today I get an sms telling me that 3 more of his friends are going... When i asked why he didn't tell me before he just said that they're his friends and he wants them there.
However, he can't seem to understand how I feel- out of my family only my mum can attend, and none of my friends can fly out for the ceremony. He thinks I'm being unreasonable for limiting his guests.

Am I...??

I need an objective perspective on this one.

2007-04-30 00:19:07 · 9 answers · asked by lerato 3 in Weddings