I broke up with my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago and i have taken a fancy to his mate and i know he likes me and i slept with him 4 the first time saturday nite and it was brilliant and i dont regret it and i know he doesnt but i am feelin a little bit sorry for my ex boyfriend i relly like his mate tho wat do i do???
2007-04-30 00:32:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well..you have slept with your b/f's mate after breaking up. That's okay. Don't worry about your ex now and confuse yourself.
2007-04-30 00:38:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure why you are feeling sorry for your ex bf, if anything youe ex bf is probably thrilled that you ended the relationship especially once he finds out his friend slept with you.
What you did was wrong sleeping with your ex's friend and you crossed the line and probably ruined a friendship. AND yes it was wrong for this guy to sleep with you as he too ruined a friendship. In the end, everyone loses here except for the ex bf because now he knows who is friends really are.
2007-04-30 07:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by Patty G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong!! You guys broke up, so you haven't done anything wrong! If i were you and the new bf i would let the ex know soon about how you guys feel about each other. Why, because its his friend and out of respect you should tell him soon. It could get a little messy, but lets hope the ex is understanding!
Good luck and remember, you haven't done anything wrong!
2007-04-30 07:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by Purity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, this is tough. You and your ex-boyfriends mate are doing nothing wrong at all realistically but if your ex finds out, it could really hurt him.
If he finished with you then gets upset about it, remind him that it was his decision to go with other people so thats exactly what you are doing but if you finished him....well....your gonna look like a complete cow.
2007-04-30 07:40:54 · answer #4 · answered by MrsMatsuyama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
double standard. if that was a male question then he would be patted on the back. if you guys are done then its done. woman have every right to feel good about there selves. you sound young so get it out of your system before you start a family. i could go on but i wont.
2007-04-30 07:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by greg143zz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sleep with all his mates. That way nobody will feel left out or bothered about what you do any more.
2007-04-30 07:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong as long u are happy and any way why to worry when u already parted the other guy. try to settle down for your happiness good luck.
2007-04-30 07:44:40 · answer #7 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how long you were with your boyfriends going for his mate wasnt that cool but you need to follow your heart
2007-04-30 07:42:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You truely aren't over him if you feel bad for sleeping with his best friend. I would say stop sleeping with this guy!!!
2007-04-30 07:39:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop sleeping with him
you arent over your ex
2007-04-30 07:36:45 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋