Family & Relationships - 30 April 2007

i dont know what wrong but lately i have been having problem with the fact that i was a adopted. i have knowen since i was 2.

2007-04-30 03:45:44 · 10 answers · asked by patricia c 1 in Family

He left for Iraq on my birthday. I dont know weather I should be mad at the army, because it moves me from my friends and family,and sends ppl to Iraq so they can die, or should I be happy that hes serving us?

2007-04-30 03:43:55 · 10 answers · asked by Vote for Pedro 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex husband asked me to take our son because he was studying. He only has him every other weekend. He is only doing 1 course. Our son called him on Saturday night and he was not home. He was out to dinner. I got very angry with my ex (out of the hearing range of our son) He does not get how this impacts him. His Dad told him he could not take him this weekend because he had to study and when he calls him he was not at home. I heard my son ask him where he was. It frustrates me that he can't seem to arrange his life so that his studying does not interfere with his limited time with his son. I have talked to him about this but he gets defensive and tries to tell me he does not have the time. I get angry because I know how much time he now has since he left our marriage for another woman. He says I stress him out too much when I get upset so now we do not talk at all. Am I wrong?

2007-04-30 03:43:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ladies! What length of penis you think is enough? What about its thickness? Do you think it would be better to be longer or thicker withou any limitation? If you accept a limitation for them tell me about it.

2007-04-30 03:39:15 · 5 answers · asked by F M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she knows it bothers me and she says "oh i know you are not jelous,that's his past" but why would she keep it up there if she knows it bothers me?

2007-04-30 03:39:01 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

for some reasons me and my best friend are not talking to each other. she's refusing to answer my calls. emails and sms. we had a fight. it was my fault. i apologised her still no use. i need her friendship. pls tell me now wht i have to do to win her heart again? how can i trick her to be my frnd again?? pls gimme some suggestions.

2007-04-30 03:38:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

because my parents have been driving me nuts for years now. i don't do anything wrong, but i can't do anything right. they'll telll me to do something, i'll go do it, and then they'll yell at me for doing it. my sister will come up to me and clock me upside the head, i'll go tell them, and they'll say "well, OBVIOUSLY, you pissed her off, or else she wouldn't have it you. you're grounded." its ridiculous. i want to move in with my fiance.

2007-04-30 03:37:03 · 9 answers · asked by scoot 1 in Family

Maybe this is a big misconception on my part, but it seems like women have no problems getting "hit on".
Sure some of these guys could be less than desirable, but admit it. It's either an ego boost, or it happens so much that it's annoying as h3ll.
I'm one of those guys that if the girl is "out of my leauge" I will play and joke w/ her just cause I know theres no chance. But I clam up and get all goofy w/ the women I want to approach, but am too shy to just ask.
In this day and age, why don't more women hit on me?
I also don't have this desirable "bad boy image" that women are drawn to. I'm metrosexual. (straight, but mistaken as gay).
So that's another big drawback. Many possible women assume I'm batting for the other team.
So any advice, secrets, ANYTHING? Offers??? (live in central IN, average looking swm 39) LOL.
Hey can't blame a guy for trying... Thanks!

2007-04-30 03:34:08 · 14 answers · asked by Kari 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 03:34:00 · 8 answers · asked by besthusbandever 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 03:32:35 · 14 answers · asked by P S 4 in Singles & Dating

Are you doomed to failure if you're not one of the so called "supermodel" guys?

2007-04-30 03:31:32 · 21 answers · asked by bern 1 in Singles & Dating

Say you had a tough week. So you and your friends go for a long over due girls night out. Your enjoying the night dancing and even had a little more then you to drink then on most occasions. The night is going smoothly until. A one certain pest keeps annoying you and your friends. At various times during the evening the guy keeps hitting on you and won’t get the idea to leave you alone. You have tried shooting him down, and even used the we’re lesbian line, to no avail. He just keeps hounding. One of your friends hands you a remote control that can cut the guy down to size. Literally it can shrink him to around an inch tall. Would you us the remote and how would you deal with the annoying pest?

I wrote this as a fun question. So have a good time with it.

2007-04-30 03:31:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When I met my first husband at 21 it was love at first sight and I knew right then I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. We married 6 months after and had 7 amazing years and a 3 year old boy at the time he passed away. He died very suddenly in a car accident and it absolutely devastated me. He meant everything to me and I would have gladly taken his place that day rather than having to endure living without him but I had to go on because of our son. Five years after my husband passed away I started seeing this guy Eric and he absolutely adored me and my son Tyler. We dated for two years and he eventually proposed. I loved him but it wasn’t like with my first husband because nothing could compare to that but I said yes and we had a beautiful ceremony 3 years ago. Everyone I talked to would always tell me how lucky I was and how their spouses never looked at them the way he looks at me but I never really felt the same. Throughout our whole relationship I kept pictures all around the house of my first husband which I know made Tyler uncomfortable but he never said a thing about it. Last year he asked me how I’d feel about him adopting our son which I felt he had no right to do as I didn’t want my son to think of him as his father when he wasn’t and he eventually let it go. Last night we had a dinner party at our house and as usual me and my friends recalled stories from our youth and all I talked about was my time with my first husband calling him the love of my life. My husband was upset by this but didn’t show it until after all guests left. He went off at me saying he didn’t know why the hell I married him when he clearly can’t compare to who my first husband was. Where does he get off being jealous of a dead man? What is his problem?

2007-04-30 03:30:32 · 70 answers · asked by Brianna 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-30 03:28:36 · 5 answers · asked by Serendipity 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

im 17 years old male, i have this long stick thing with two ball shaped things inbetween my legs and dont know waht it is thier hairy aswell! what is it?

2007-04-30 03:27:23 · 11 answers · asked by creak165 3 in Singles & Dating

If a woman says that she has been waiting all her life for u and everything is perfect, why would she need a break ? Is there such a thing as being too perfect ? all girls say they want someone to sweep them off their feet, but y is it when they get swept, they bug out - does it scare them that they been looking all their life, and now its finally here ?

2007-04-30 03:27:21 · 11 answers · asked by questions 1 in Marriage & Divorce

howdo you do it

2007-04-30 03:25:30 · 17 answers · asked by jamie s 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and a lawyer at his job began an affair a few months back. I found out via the web. He and she planned to live in our historical home. (Apparently, I was not invited!) Since I had no idea he was unhappy, I'm wondering what they had planned and what I should do about it. (My lawyer only seems to care about money. I'd like to see the 2 schemers publicly flogged!) Any advice about how to go about this? (The divorce, not the flogging.)

2007-04-30 03:21:37 · 19 answers · asked by Jutta_8 1 in Marriage & Divorce

o.k. heres the story. We had been dating for about 6 years and broke up and before we got back together I slept with a freind of his only once. Whenever he gets drunk or we get in a fight he brings it up and throws it in my face calling me a whore, I thought that when I told him and he forgave me for it, we put that in the past. What would you do if he kept holding it over your head? It was a mistake and like a year before we got back together and he always asks me if I have cheated on him recently and I am totally commited to him and would never do that. I always have to remind him that it was before we got back together and before I had any hope of us getting back together. Am I wrong? Should he treat me this way?

2007-04-30 03:19:42 · 29 answers · asked by daisydownsouth 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been married for nearly 17 yrs and have had infrequent sex ever since. Over the years he came up with various reasons why he doesn't want to have sex with me from he's not in the mood to saying its because he is stressed out to he resents me because I'm not working at the moment. He has been totally into porn (computer and magazine) and has even gone so far as taking up the hobby of taking pictures of women's asses in the neighborhood. I happen to be a very attractive woman who loves sex, and am not opposed to experimenting. Also he tries take all credit for running the house and tries to be super mom to make me look bad. For example, if we have an argument he'll get up extra early the next day to do all the chores pertaining to the kids so that there's nothing left for me to do, Then when I get up he looks at me like "you finally got up?", when its only 7am. I really feel like he tries to cut me out of family life. Whenever I do anything he thinks he can to it better. Give up?

2007-04-30 03:18:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my parents give me a grade check to give to all my teachers and have them sign it with my grade on it. they make me do one every friday and then get mad at me when I dont remember to get all of the classes because we were busy or something. I told my mom to give me one on monday then give me until friday to get it filled out and she said no it was stupid and there is no reason why I cant get it done in one day. how can i get my mom to chill out and do it my way because that will save us both a lot of trouble.

2007-04-30 03:18:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-04-30 03:17:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend has been with her fella for so long and he doesn’t know what he wants. When I say he doesn’t know what he wants I mean one minute he wants her in his life then he thinks she is better off without him then he just wants to do his own thing and the thing is she has studies to do and he keeps hurting her and messing with her but she love him so she will not give up on him. Help what do you think she should do?

2007-04-30 03:14:26 · 15 answers · asked by persian gal 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 03:13:51 · 8 answers · asked by BIG Nick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-30 03:12:14 · 16 answers · asked by vinny02315 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-30 03:09:03 · 9 answers · asked by charles d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We got a call from my husband's 13 year old son last night. It seems his mother is about to go to jail for her 3rd or 4th DUI in recent years. She has been doing everything in her power for years to keep the boy away from his father. He wants to come live with us. We live in Texas, she lives in Indiana, and we can't afford a lawyer in either state!! The mom wants to send our son to Florida to live with her mother, but I think my husband should have first priority and concideration, not to mention my son's wishes. We are calling CPS in Indiana, and child support, but how can we get into court without a lawyer, and from this distance? And how do we do it fast?

2007-04-30 03:08:18 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i know there are some of you out there that has had this happen to you... you find out a year later that your man or girl friend was a H.O.E. that they tried to sleep with any and everything when they were younger... what would you do how would you feel to find this out... that you could one day walk past someone they slept with... or you could be working with someone they slept with... how would you feel??? and would the relationship end??? or could you work threw it...

2007-04-30 03:08:04 · 12 answers · asked by Godson 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 03:07:27 · 11 answers · asked by Venkat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

or did you fake it?

2007-04-30 03:06:52 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings