because my parents have been driving me nuts for years now. i don't do anything wrong, but i can't do anything right. they'll telll me to do something, i'll go do it, and then they'll yell at me for doing it. my sister will come up to me and clock me upside the head, i'll go tell them, and they'll say "well, OBVIOUSLY, you pissed her off, or else she wouldn't have it you. you're grounded." its ridiculous. i want to move in with my fiance.
2007-04-30 03:37:03 · 9 answers · asked by scoot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
When you are legally emancipated your parents are under no obligation to support you financially. You will have to get your own insurance.
2007-04-30 03:52:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your fiance is 18 or older and you move in with him without your parents permission, you parents can have him (or even his parents if he lives at home) arrested for kidnapping. So don't do it.
When you turn 18, unless you are a full time student, you will probably not be covered under your parents insurance anyway. But as long as you are under 18 and they have not signed guardianship to anyone else, where you live should not matter, you are covered.
If things are that bad at home, see if you can get your parents permission to move in with another relative or a friend. I don't recommend moving in with the fiance. That's just a lot of added stress. Wait until you get married for that. Statically, you have a better chance at a successful marriage if you DON'T live together first. So don't put yourself at a disadvantage right off the bat. Find somewhere else to live.
If your sister is physically abusing you and your parents do not put a stop to it, you need to let someone know. Tell your guidence counselor at school. That needs to be stopped and if your parents will not stop it, then the authorities need to step in. But be aware, they could come and remove EITHER her or you. But being "clocked" is not acceptable...EVER...even if you did "deserve it".
Last note: moving in with a guy to escape your bad family life is a really really bad idea. And at your age (I'm assuming you are under 18) , you are way too young to be considering marriage. You have lots of life to live before being a married person. Why not start planning on moving out with some girlfriends and getting place with them? Or plan on going FAR away for college somewhere? There are a LOT more positive ways to escape your situation without tying yourself down to a man when you are so young. He may be very nice and you could be perfect for each other. But if that is the case, waiting until you're at least 21 won't be so bad. After all, don't you want to be able to have a champagne toast at your wedding and be legal to do it?
Talk to a counselor. Explore what ALL your options are. Don't just jump at the first one that looks good. The sign of being mature and ready to be married is when you take the time to really think about your choices and consider the advice of people with more wisdom and experience than you.
2007-04-30 05:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!! You will NOT be on their insurance anymore from the MOMENT you are EMANCIPATED ... and that is certain.
YOU need to stay put and get your education -- finish High School at a minimum. LISTEN to your parents, DO what they ask (they ARE being reasonable --- if you can't figure out how to cooperatively live with your PARENTS, how in the world are you going to be 'different' when you get married? The true answer is -- you will NOT be different, and the marriage will FAIL!!!!).
LISTEN -- being difficult in your family's home (and your parents are (I am sure) having to endure a LOT of abuse from you and disrespect) ... you obviously have NOT learned any skills to make any sort of family situation work. I will point this out again -- non-cooperation with the Parents' Home Rules, being disrespectful to them, not helping out, not having a good relationship with siblings -- all point out to a certain LACK of a VITAL SKILL for a marriage ....
Cooperation, working together as a family unit, inability to resolve conflicting ideas/goals effectively (through compromise), and communication skills.
HOW do you think, as young as you are (and I am sure that you are NOT even graduated yet from High School -- so without the skills or education -- PLEASE do NOT bring another life into the world at this time), that you are going to be engaged or married or even contemplate it at this time?
GROW UP quite a bit ... learn how to live in PEACE with your IMMEDIATE BIRTH FAMILY -- and do NOT have sex or get pregnant UNTIL you have learned the skills for a successful marriage and gotten an education that will help you be a successful adult (and provide for yourself through your Employment!).
2007-04-30 03:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emancipation for teens can come at different ages depending on what state you are in. Also, they can cancel your auto insurance if they so desire. I don't know why they would cancel health or life insurance, though. It may all stem from the fact you may be too young to have a "fiancee", as you call him. That kinda tells me you are already sexually involved, and they may not like that or him very much. Your sister may be right in clocking you, since you sound like you need some direction and taming, and tough love from parents if they decide to cut your insurance.
2007-04-30 04:04:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-09 03:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by riddell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want the responsibility of moving out, then get your own insurance. They will have something to hold over your head, and believe me, they will. But to answer your question, how will the insurance company know if you don't tell them?
2007-04-30 03:41:52 · answer #6 · answered by BamBam 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Nope. If you are emancipated from them, then legally they won't be responsible for you anymore, and they can't cover you on insurance.
2007-04-30 03:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If your going to move out then really move out. Take control of your finances and responsabilities. Take care of your own insurance.
2007-04-30 03:50:44 · answer #8 · answered by JB 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you cant move ANYwhere till you are 18
so, stay put
2007-04-30 03:40:44 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋