for some reasons me and my best friend are not talking to each other. she's refusing to answer my calls. emails and sms. we had a fight. it was my fault. i apologised her still no use. i need her friendship. pls tell me now wht i have to do to win her heart again? how can i trick her to be my frnd again?? pls gimme some suggestions.
2007-04-30 03:38:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You cannot trick her. You have to set up a situation where she takes you back
2007-04-30 03:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you give her sometime to breath, get over being angry and have a chance to except your apology. Then try writing her a letter or an email telling her how much you've missed her friendship, and wish this thing hadn't come between the two of you. Take responsibility for what you did, Say you know you were wrong, and listen to what she has to say. Don't make excuses for yourself, validate her feelings. Healing takes time, it doesn't just happen at the snap of a finger. And its best not to trick your friends, because it can make the situation worse. Time is what you need, in the mean time, work on other relationships in your life, or get comfortable doing things on your own, and learning about interest and hobbys you like.
2007-04-30 03:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by Kellie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you cannot "trick" anybody because it will make the situation worse between the two of you. Second, what in the world did you do to the point that she doesn't want anything to do with you right now? Give that girl an opportunity to breathe and continue to give her space. Forgiving someone takes time and it doesn't take one day to get over the situation, depending on what you did. She will come around eventually, but in the meantime, you can focus on strenghtening your other relationships or keep yourself busy with a hobby that you really enjoy. Once she cools down, she will come to you. Take responsibility for what you did. She will know that you still care, but just give that girl her space. Hope this helps and good luck.
2007-04-30 03:57:10 · answer #3 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 19:17:41 · answer #4 · answered by lot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to trick her to be your friend. That's mean. You've done all you can - you've apologised. What is she expecting now? A rose and a letter from the queen???
The ball is in her court - it's her decision. You've just got to sit it out and wait.
Don't worry about it - if she is really is a true friend, she wont ignore you ... and she will accept your apology. There isn't anything else you can do.
Look at this like a test - for her. To determine whether or not she really is a true friend.
2007-04-30 04:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever it is you did. it obviously was enought for her to not associate with you at all. I would definitly give her some time. I can tell you are really sorry for whatever you did, cause if you didnt care you wouldnt take the time to fix things. shes probably still thinking about everything. everyone need some time to forgive and forget,so give her time. if she really wants to be your friend again, she'll get in touch with you. but if you keep writing her,emailing her and texting her, she might get annoyed and not wanna speak to you ever again. so just let her be upset, and think about everything. if you guys were real close, she'll call you. maybe you could just get a card and write something nice in there and just tell her, you respect her space and that you miss her as a friend and when shes ready to forgive you, that you'll be waiting for her. and leave it as that.
2007-04-30 03:52:14 · answer #6 · answered by luvleebabygurl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you don't trick anyone. Second, what the heck did you do? And third, grow up, give the girl time. She's pissed right now. She has a right to be. She'll come around eventually, especially if you've apologized and she knows you still care.
2007-04-30 03:42:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kellie is right-- respect her space. She probably just needs some time. After a few weeks you can try again. If she still won't speak to you, be creative. Remember that ultimately it is her decision to be your friend. But try flowers...maybe wake her up with cookies in bed...
2007-04-30 03:44:18 · answer #8 · answered by Earthling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Don't trick her
2. give her some space
3. after you have given her some space try to talk to her and see if ya'll can work it out
4. don't pressure her or "stalk" follow her around or anything like that because you'll just push her away.
And also maybe shes having problems that she needs to work out and she dosen't want u to know.
2007-04-30 03:45:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No trick to it. Evidently your apology was not believable or acceptable to her. You must show sincerity by your actions to gain her trust again.
2007-04-30 03:45:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋