Family & Relationships - 30 April 2007

I gave my phone to a guy just to make friends, but now he calls me everyday and is really annoying, I told him I am not interested in any relationship, he didn't understand and he keeps calling me, I told him I have a boyfriend which is not true but I told him...and he keeps calling, and I am getting worried, he may be crazy or dangerous guy, he know where I live, please tell me what can I do to end with this...I've try it all.....any more ideas?....thank you all

2007-04-30 07:48:25 · 13 answers · asked by N.T. 3 in Singles & Dating

She is 5 months pregnant and she asked for a baby 6 months before becoming pregnant and I didnt plan on getting her pregnant but it happened and now it is an emotional roller coaster and she is happy one moment wont talk to me the next and now she says she doesnt feel the same for me and left me. I was planning to ask her for marriage on Friday but she was in a major bout of anger and I figured it would backfire on me. With all the frustration and worry in me with what is going on I am going to the doc tomorrow because I used to take antidepressents a few years back. Now I feel like a basketcase myself. I have a hard time sleeping, I cry, havent eaten or really had any fluids in 3-4 days and feel weak and dizzy everywhere I go, I am withdrawing from family, friends just annoy me and I am trying my damn hardest to be there for her and giving the impression I am fine. I have gone from weighing 232 on Thrusday to 216 this morning and I cant eat anything without feeling sick.

2007-04-30 07:46:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

"Shayla" lived in the apartment beneath mine four years ago. We've had months of not speaking to one another at different periods, and I have felt very betrayed by her in the past. She asked me to be a bridesmaid in her wedding, and I agreed. When she began fighting with her maid of honor I got "promoted" to the position. To make matters worse, she admits she doesn't love him, and is constantly looking up exes and talking about trying to find a "fling" since she has a "free cheat" to get even with her man for an affair he had with one of his exes. I have asked her if she is sure she wants to marry him, and she says it doesn't matter since divorce is so easy. Should I suck it up and shoulder all this work for a friend I'm not sure is that close? Should I tell her how I feel about participating? Is there a gracious way out?

2007-04-30 07:45:23 · 14 answers · asked by at work 2 in Weddings

2007-04-30 07:36:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and I got into a fight on friday and I said sorry but I didn't know if he was still mad. He said today he still loves me and forgives me . On one of his friends question his friend typed that I was messed up, and he said sorry it was Jesse. Should I forgive him???? I think it's the right thing to do but i'm not sure if he's tealling me the truth??? thanks guys for your help!!!

2007-04-30 07:35:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean he literally spends every single minute it on it when he is not working or sleeping I just dont feel like he is giving me or our son any of his free time. He tells me well at least Im not out drinking or druging which is a good thing but I think I should get some time. Right?

2007-04-30 07:35:43 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

in the way like that hes leading you to his son because he accepts you

2007-04-30 07:34:03 · 9 answers · asked by xangelheidix 2 in Weddings

2007-04-30 07:32:14 · 19 answers · asked by xangelheidix 2 in Weddings

It's a credit union and I called them, since he is the primary account holder he could do that, but as for as marriage laws, could withhold money from me being we are still married and still live together? Very degrading asking for money...

2007-04-30 07:25:08 · 5 answers · asked by coffeelover 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We just took the pre-marriage inventory (200 question exam) and we have to meet with the priest soon. I'm just wondering what types of things you discuss with the priest.

2007-04-30 07:23:23 · 7 answers · asked by Emmers 2 in Weddings

2007-04-30 07:22:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in love with a married woman. I became friends with her a few months ago when she came to work for a company I was with. She is very attractive, and about 25 years my senior. She didn’t stay long with the company but we continued to hang out. I got to know her better and came to find out that her husband had just recently cheated on her with a much younger woman. We have become close these past few months and I’m 99.9% sure she likes me, more than a friend that is. She is really touchy feely and we are constantly flirting with each other. Her husband works at night and sleeps during the day and she will only talk to me when she is away from him and we will only hang out after he’s gone to work. My question is should I continue along this path or should I bail because if I continue the relationship will turn sexual and I CANNOT say no to this woman. I fear I’m headed for a catastrophe but all I see is her and I can’t stop. What’s a girl to do!!

2007-04-30 07:21:16 · 29 answers · asked by ♀ǐcƏ_ƇơĿƉ♀ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been told to wear it on the right hand. Is that correct or could I just wear nothing to the alter and then have my hubby put both on when we exchange rings?

2007-04-30 07:17:13 · 24 answers · asked by Char Char 1 in Weddings

Me and my husband love each other .... We initiate sex equally, am probably litte more on higher end...still he lovingly says 'I will rape u' even tho i never say no to him for sex...is this common with married couples or way of saying "i want u more than u think ?"

2007-04-30 07:13:47 · 16 answers · asked by rs 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-30 07:13:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you know what I mean?

2007-04-30 07:13:11 · 39 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well friday night me and the b/f got into a huge fight, it was my fault i did somthing stupied. anywaz i was standing in between my car and my car door yelling at him telling to let me leave, well i then said somthing that really set him off and he slammed my door into my body since i was standing in between. well now i have a burse and i told him i was so mad that he did that but he says he didnt know i was stading so close he thought the door would have slipped out of my fingers, how mad should i be? should i let it go? he has never hit me and he is not voilent he couldnt hurt a fly so was it just a accident?

2007-04-30 07:10:07 · 40 answers · asked by lovely 3 in Singles & Dating

This past week-end I was on a trip with 3 friends. We traveled to a quaint little town in Northern Illinois for shopping. One of our friends has some physical disabilities and has difficulties gettting around. Another one has just recently lost 60 pounds,moves like the roadrunner and dosen't like to be slowed down. Well as soon as we got into town it became very obvious that roadrunner and the other friend were trying to ditch me and our friend with the handicap.
They continualy walked ahead of us and finally just seperated from us alltogether. It was agreed ahead of time that we would all shop and have lunch together as a group but we didn't see them again till it was time to leave.Now I'm feeling resentful because they didn't have the decency to let us know ahead of time what their plans were. In the end they knew that I was upset because since then I've given them the cold shoulder. I guess my question is, how should I have handled this? Did I over react? Thanks.

2007-04-30 07:09:42 · 3 answers · asked by seashell 6 in Friends

2007-04-30 07:09:37 · 12 answers · asked by frustrateddivorcee 1 in Singles & Dating

what my problem is, is that im having a hard time finding someone im attracted too, and everytime i do find someone im attracted to, they dont feel the same way twords me. it seems like the only girls i attract are unattractive non-level headed women, and now i am beginning to become extremely lonely, i havent had anyone to share my heart with for a couple of years now, and this is starting to bother me. i mean, i find myself as an attractive youngman with a good head on my shoulders, but how come im having this problem?

2007-04-30 07:09:31 · 8 answers · asked by here for good 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean this happens all the time in relationships and when people died.

2007-04-30 07:08:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I mean it's so stupid...why go out with them in the first place if there's not good enough...i need answers...

2007-04-30 07:08:16 · 14 answers · asked by sallyanne 3 in Singles & Dating

I am in my new home with my new partner. I have lots of nice things from my previous marriage (pearl necklace, some nice crystal pieces for holding jewelry, a shoe rack that the prior husband made me for example).

I have mixed emotions on weather to just put these away in a box or to keep them out and use them. They do hold some sentimental value. I am just questioning if it is illogical when something is nice and useful to hide it away just because of who gave it to you. Any feedback is welcome.

2007-04-30 07:07:33 · 10 answers · asked by peace over power 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex and I both reside in Florida in the same town. He has been unemployed for 3 months now and just recently text messaged me that he is ou of work now and I need to wait for him to get a full-time job in order to pay for his daughter's childsupport. I am a single mom, working full-time. This is his 6th time being unemployed and I always worked during those times....is there anything that I can do?

2007-04-30 07:05:36 · 10 answers · asked by Lucky_Star 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-30 07:05:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-04-30 07:04:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 07:04:03 · 18 answers · asked by itsme 3 in Friends

i have been dating her about 1 week now and as i went to kiss her i put my hand in her jacket and under her arms dont ask why but still and she has hairy armpits not like a lil were talking alot and this dont bother me at all but she told me she hasnt shaved in about a year on any part of her body so i think shes worried what im gonna say to her what should i say i have no clue i thought i would ask every one

i dont want to brake up with her she is a nice person

2007-04-30 07:02:42 · 31 answers · asked by carlos 1 in Singles & Dating

anger
contempt
jealousy or
lack of passion?

2007-04-30 07:01:08 · 32 answers · asked by 062419844142436830 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know that is mixing of professional stuff and love, but I like her a lot and dont know how to became closer

2007-04-30 07:01:00 · 6 answers · asked by nick y 1 in Singles & Dating