what my problem is, is that im having a hard time finding someone im attracted too, and everytime i do find someone im attracted to, they dont feel the same way twords me. it seems like the only girls i attract are unattractive non-level headed women, and now i am beginning to become extremely lonely, i havent had anyone to share my heart with for a couple of years now, and this is starting to bother me. i mean, i find myself as an attractive youngman with a good head on my shoulders, but how come im having this problem?
2007-04-30 07:09:31 · 8 answers · asked by here for good 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry, you don't have a problem, i think it happens to everyone. I had the same issue as u. People i did like didn't like me back and i found myself getting asked out by not so attractive people. I think it all depends on where u meet these girls and how u interact with each other. When i would meet a guy i liked we would like mess around, telling jokes flirting and so fourth, you would, hey he likes me. But when i would kinda say something it was like oh no we're just friends. When u start to feel a connection with someone flat out let them know, don't beat around the bush. Find out what this person is looking for, if they say they aren't looking for a relationship, then don't waste ur time. Look for places to meet people. The club and bar i do not recommend. Hang in there, u'll find someone.
2007-04-30 07:25:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell me about it I seem to have a similar problem well, but i guess because am so picky, its been two years for me, am just getting out there again after a two year relationship two years ago.
As for me am taking as they come no pressure just have fun with and don't take it personal the right one will come along.
You'll see, well good luck and wish me luck too.
2007-04-30 08:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by none 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really believe you are attracted to women that aren't good for you then you may want to see a counselor because that usually runs on a subconsious level. And you may want to meet more women to increase your chances of meeting someone whom you like and likes you back.
2007-04-30 07:15:06 · answer #3 · answered by Holiday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best advice is to stop looking. When you look you can never find anyone but when you aren't looking and are happy being single you'll find it or someone will find you.
2007-04-30 07:13:45 · answer #4 · answered by Varacha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sooner or later some1 will come by hopefully, just pick who you choose to date wisely, there is a ton of tramps and cheaters out there nowadays and you wouldn't wont to be hurt
2007-04-30 07:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by eclipse555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... U shouldn't be so picky for one... U don't need to judge a girl on specificly their looks, theres more than that like personality. U should get to know them and then figure out weather u like them still or not. U never know wut u could find...
2007-04-30 07:16:25 · answer #6 · answered by KelCee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true love waits dont settle for less but stay in the dating game or you will miss lady right.
2007-04-30 07:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're looking in the wrong places.
2007-04-30 07:14:18 · answer #8 · answered by 2sexy 2cute 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋