Family & Relationships - 30 April 2007

What do you do when you feel taken for granted in a relationship of five years??? Walking away is not an option obviously.. but how would I let him know without making him feel like he's not good enough or I'm complain too much about him? How can I make him understand how I feel?

2007-04-30 11:16:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

it ain't like i just bust out doing it in the middle of sex, and i don't ruin any romantic moments by doing this but since i'm a guy, i love motorboating titi's. girls wonder what's so great about it. i'm like "WHAT, ARE YOU KIDDING, I LOVE MOTORBOATING TITI'S"

i'm not trying to get a date or nothing but i just want to know if there are any girls who actually enjoy getting thier titi's motorboated.

2007-04-30 11:16:54 · 3 answers · asked by killa' fo' real 3 in Singles & Dating

There was this guy I was starting to like. I didn't like him that much at first- but then he kind of hit on me a little bit by sitting next to me, but not talking to me. I got home that day on myspace and got a message from him, and he was telling me that he really liked the color of my eyes and that they were really pretty. he was going on about how i was so pretty and stuff. so basically, he charmed me and i started to like him. i talked to him back and forth for a while, for a few days over myspace, and we'd say hi- how're you- that type of stuff- to each other during school. so we were talking online and he's talking about how he didn't get a lot of sleep, i ask why, and he said because he went to a party and "hooked up with a hot girl- she was an awesome kisser! =]" i couldn't even believe he said that, i thought he liked me. why would he say something like that? is he just not interested in me anymore? or is he trying to make me jealous? because it worked.

2007-04-30 11:15:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really wanna wow my man in the sack and I have plum run out of ideas. We have literally tried everything. We have been together since we were 16 and just had a baby 4 months ago. So the spice is kinda running low. We have done it at the grocery store the park etc.. We have tried a little bit of SnM. We have done some role playing, we have tried all orfaces and man maybe a new twist on something old. Best idea gets 5 points.

2007-04-30 11:13:42 · 7 answers · asked by SassyFras85 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm choosing between sage and rose pink. The groomsmen will have matching vests and ties. Let me know what you think - thanks!

P.S. This is for an indoor spring wedding in Michigan.

P.P.S. Here is the dress I'm considering:
http://www.fevervintage.com/ad.html

2007-04-30 11:13:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I just dont like the kinda friendship they have. I mean ive seen them together and i just get a feeling u know. i keep asking him if he has feelling for her but he denays it.

2007-04-30 11:11:26 · 20 answers · asked by DLana 2 in Singles & Dating

OK SO HERE IS MY STORY WHEN I FIRST MEET THIS GUY WE BOTH LIKED EACH OTHER BUT THEN SOMETHING CAME UP BETWEEN US AND WE HAD A BIG ARGUMENT AND WE STOP TALKING FOR A WHILE WE BOTH WANTED TO TALK TO EACH OTHER (I KNOW KNOW FOR A FACT BECAUSE HE TOLD SOME FRIENDS)BUT WE DONT FIND THE RIGHT WORDS AND I REALLY LIKE HIM AND I WANT IT TO STOP BUT IT FEELS DUMB JUST SAYING HI AND BYE
SO CAN YOU GUYS HELP WHAT SHOULD I DO TALK TO HIM?? AND DO YOU THINK MAYBE HE STOP LIKING ME??

2007-04-30 11:10:36 · 6 answers · asked by Hummm... 3 in Singles & Dating

i have a best friend onika right? everytime there's some guy i like she teases me about it and last time she told him and i wasn't even sure if liked him like that you know? and now when i know i dont like him like that, her teasing me is just ruining our friendship i try to tell her but she doesn't let me talk. guys i need help, what should i do?

2007-04-30 11:07:21 · 7 answers · asked by tigerlily 1 in Friends

This person seems to think so.
http://dating-me.blogspot.com/2007/02/why-bloggers-are-best-lovers.html

2007-04-30 11:06:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Some examples are: grabbing his friend's girlfriends *** and feeling her up at our house, feeling up a random girl at a bar, telling a girl she was looking pretty ****** sexy. Not every time we go out but often enough. This is what he's doing when I'm around, what's he doing when I'm not? We have had numerous conversaions about it and it always end with him saying he's going to stop. The last time it happened he said I was over reacting and it's just harmless flirting. I don't feel that it is. It hurts me that he does these things. I don't know what to do. Any advise?

2007-04-30 11:04:47 · 26 answers · asked by me_me625 2 in Singles & Dating

He said he will take care of me and he acts like it but I just don't know what to do.

2007-04-30 11:03:06 · 51 answers · asked by Autumn 1 in Singles & Dating

So i like these two guys and i don't know who i should pursue.
The first on is totally HOT and nice, he is athletic and always makes me laugh but he cant go out until he is 16( He is Mormon and 14).
The second guy is really sweet and always makes me laugh but he isn't really that cute and he is a little immature but he can date right now. He had a huge crush on me last year but this year i like him and he likes this Bi tch who i hate who heard that i like him and made her friend pretend to like him oh yah and he is really sensitive and has a few anger issues he ripped up a picture of this girl i hate it was funny :)

2007-04-30 11:03:04 · 7 answers · asked by Sara P 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who recently became unemployed and her husband will not assist her financially. She was fired after reporting abusive behavior she was receiving from her boss. He got a huge bonus and did not give her a penny. She recently discovered some money that her husband was apparently holding. Each time she asks him for money, he becomes verbally abusive.

She has always been there for him when he needed something. He was fired in the past and she paid all the bills. His motor went out on his vehicle and she co-signed and paid the downpayment so that he could get a new vehicle. She is a very giving person and he is very selfish. She is considering leaving him.
They have been to counseling in the past because he was physically abusive. She thought they had worked everything out, but it seems like his is displaying other forms of abuse. She says he screams at her and tears her down (privately) and then pretends to be the loving husband.
What advice should I give her?

2007-04-30 11:01:51 · 14 answers · asked by Twilight 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We are not having any BM or MOHs at the wedding, just brides maids and groommen, and they are all bringing dates or at least most of them, Chris's dad is a gm, His momma is helping me kinda plan the wedding adn wants us to sit with out parents at the reception, I dont like that idea, and i have voiced it, neither one of us wants that, but we cant seem to get it thou to her, any advice, how do they nomarlly sit at a wedding

please help

2007-04-30 11:00:23 · 15 answers · asked by rebecca j 2 in Weddings

what would you do if your boyfriend got ticked off at you cuz he really wanted to talk to been waiting all day..then even told u not to go anywhere jus wait here..after 2 hrs he comes and its time for u to go..u dont want to but have to cuz u mite get in trouble...he gets pissed and doesnt understand that it hurts his gf when is he troubled.. do guys understand there hurting a girl emotionally somtimes? what do u guys think..

2007-04-30 10:59:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your boyfriend or any man pushes, or headbutts a woman... knocks them down, trips them, grabs them with force or just man-handles her in any way, is that just the same as if he hit her? Is that considered abuse?

2007-04-30 10:57:24 · 24 answers · asked by jersey_girl130 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

yea like we were goin out for like a week. then at da dance on friday he said all those emails were from his cusin, not him. (cuz we emailed each other on like how we ''luved'' each other or sumthin, so yea duh.''

but anyways um my heart was broke and then like today my friend amanda said that he only 'dumped' me cuz he had pressure. she sed he sed that everybody wuz tellin him to break up wit me or make a move or something like that. and amanda sed something like he plannnd it and that the song dont matter by akon wuz on when he did that. so yea and today he asked me out again but i'm scared that he's gonna do the same thing that he did at the dance. so should i or not????

2007-04-30 10:50:03 · 4 answers · asked by jillybabe 2 in Singles & Dating

There are too many cliches in wedding music today. My fiancee and I are looking for some modern (preferably) and unusual choices for wedding music.

2007-04-30 10:43:05 · 13 answers · asked by no_sin_except_stupidity 1 in Weddings

my friend is leaving her husband. i think what keeps her in their marriage for more than 16 yrs is the comfort that her husband can provide. my friend took care of her husband and her kids half of her life and husband cheated, and she can't over it. she will end up with nothing if she leaves but she's not happy?

2007-04-30 10:42:09 · 12 answers · asked by Bakekang 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my fiance' dearly and want to have a great life with him. I've always been very attractive to him physically, but lately, I'm not. He's grown his sideburns long and they look terrible. I tried really hard to talk to him about it in a very nice way, but he doesn't seem to care if I find them repulsive or not, his son doesn't like them either, so it's not "just me". I am trying very hard to get over the way he looks right now, because I love him either way - but it's really turning me off every time I look at him, and knowing he doesn't even care that I feel this way doesn't help. I'm afraid I'll damage our relationship by not being as sexually active as I normally am (I'm a bit of a freak!), but I also can't feel like I'm lying and all turned on when I'm not. What should I do???

2007-04-30 10:38:54 · 15 answers · asked by wellbeing 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going to be 50 soon and been married 3 yrs .I have always been healthy and have my own business for many yrs.Recent my knees hurt so bad I didnt think I was going to be able to wrk.My job is all me and without me it wont run.In the midst of all the tests medically it entered my mind tht I didnt want to be a burden to my husband financially or partner wise ! My husband has lots a money and he was a bacholer all his life and I couldnt get it out a my head tht he wouldnt take care of me had I became ill ect.....I think he married me to take care of him .I now am fine but is there something wrong in this relationship ?Im still shocked I thought this.why did I think this?

2007-04-30 10:37:20 · 16 answers · asked by jessy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont understand do guys understand that their hurting a girl emotionally as in like say if u had a arguement ..and the chick is saying sorry and admitting what she did...why doesnt he care ?..and still jus acts as if he's rolling his eyes...

( i wanted to know cause my bf got ticked off at me bcuz he wanted to talk to me badly n told me to a wait a while.. after he came back to talk to me i had to go cuz of sum issues like "gettin in trouble" ..btw its a long distance relationship so i dunno if he understands i get hurt by him acting that way..i wanted to know if guys accually care..?)

2007-04-30 10:36:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've known each other for about two years now. We have just recentley started talking to each other a lot, over the internet, at school, ect. Then he asked me for my number. He's called me total of 4 times now in a period of 2 days. Im confused and kind of new at this. Haha, sad right? Please help. : ]

2007-04-30 10:36:06 · 20 answers · asked by Emily 2 in Singles & Dating

i just turned 15 and i look like i could be 19!

2007-04-30 10:35:23 · 6 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Family

i was just wondering if anyone out there thinks that any type of sex is absolutely over the top disgusting? I used to think that about oral, and i kind of think that about anal right now. does anyone else think anythings weird? and please dont report this question. i really need to know.

2007-04-30 10:34:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For his bestfriend, we've had asecret affair for over 6 months now, and he is really great in bed, and doesn't want children.

2007-04-30 10:31:42 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So let start a fun dissucccion:

What makes making love memorable for you?

Although, there is not wrong answers the peson that puts the most effort forward I will reward the best answer vote.

2007-04-30 10:29:12 · 3 answers · asked by theman 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had unprotected sex 5 days ago with an ex.bf i am having a fling with(he has a gf) currently i am worried because i am not sure if i was ovulating my last period was april 11th ish.The fling was supposed to have been payback for my bf cheating on me because i wanted to wait to have sex with him(we never had sex now broken up)and on my ex.bf's gf who i suspect he left me for my payback looks like it backfired.If i turn out to be pregnant do i have to tell my ex.bf i dont want the drama?

2007-04-30 10:29:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i phoned her 2 weeks ago to tell her our mom's not well. since then my mom has had to go for chest xrays and tests! i phoned my sister again tonight and said i would have thought that you would of phoned my mom or visited her as i told you 2 weeks ago she wasnt well! she had a go at me on the phone and said tell you what i will go and see her now then she put the phone down on me! she only lives 20 minuites away from my moms. should i phone her back or just leave it! i should't have to ask her to visit our mom! we both work full time but i make the effort and cook for my mom and dad 2 times aweek on my days off. she does fcuk all to help! but the sun shines out of her a@ss where my dads concerned! and if i have a go at her i now my dad will take her side!

2007-04-30 10:29:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am having a hard time deciding what to do. Our favorite colors are baby blue and silver. I also like pink, but pink and blue would be kind of tacky and remind me of a baby shower. We are looking at a date of May 17, 2008. So it will be a spring wedding. I am not really interested in a luau theme. It is going to be a formal wedding and we are having the reception at a very nice resort. I want something that is totally unique and something that everyone will remember as being one of the coolest! Yeah I guess I am a little competitive and I want to out do every wedding I have ever been to, this is my special day after all. But No I definately am not a stuck up rich girl or anything even close. I also thought of a Hollywood/red carpet theme because there is a beautiful dress I found that has red trim, but I am afraid that red and black will be kinda scary colors for a wedding, what do you think? I will take any ideas, themes, favors, whatever you may have that is unique! Thanks!

2007-04-30 10:27:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings