He said he will take care of me and he acts like it but I just don't know what to do.
2007-04-30 11:03:06 · 51 answers · asked by Autumn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You dont say how old you nor your b/f are so I will assume that since you are asking, you are not that old. When a boy says he will take care of you dont believe one word he says, he is too young to even take care of himself. The fact that you are even asking shows that you are not ready for this, so NO DONT.
2007-04-30 11:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by shirley e 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all how old are you? Second of all I really don't recomend that you should if you're not sure. Obviously if you're asking the questions, it's because you're not sure. I think when you have sex you should really be married. Trust me, at the end having sex with multiple partners it's not worth it. Save yourself for the right one and when you're really sure. Pray about it and read the bible. I know at your age, bcuz I know you're young you're confuse, but listen to an older more mature person and they would definitely tell you not to have sex w/ him. Peer pressure, men and promiscous women will tell you to go for it, but listen to your heart and don't do it, til you know for sure, ready and married. Save yourself to the right one, and I guaranteed you that you will be proud that you did.
2007-04-30 11:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by -K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just saying those things just to get some. That is a old tactic we guys use so don't fall for it. You sound like a teenage, if you are that think about it will he actually "take care" of you at your age, hmmmm?
2007-04-30 11:09:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer is do u love him? the second part is r u ready to give up something as special as ur vignity ? do u trust him? do u care bout him? if the answer to most of these is yes then take the chance and be safe. and just one more thing have fun.
2007-04-30 11:11:37 · answer #4 · answered by blackoceanview 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to, don't do it. If he loves you, he won't push you and that sounds corny but it's true. DO NOT do anything you don't want to do, you'll only hate yourself later. It doesn't matter how well he takes care of you, this is a big decision that should not be made lightly.
I suggest you think long and hard. Do you want to have sex? Does doing so pre-maritally go against your morals?
Please don't think having sex will make your boyfriend stay. It won't. Do want you want. Respect yourself first, and others will follow.
2007-04-30 11:09:33 · answer #5 · answered by Independence_Individuality 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's really up to you. If you feel like you are ready, and that you really want to, maybe you should. Just remember, sex is one of the few things that can make you fly one minute and crash the next.
2007-04-30 11:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by caraangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you're looking to a board full of strangers to answer a question like that, no. No, no, no!! Sex is not about the guy taking care of you. How absurd! Put the chastity belt back on...
2007-04-30 11:07:20 · answer #7 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
How long have you been with him? If he is easy-going about it and will let you decide then maybe. But if you just met the guy and he is like lets have sex lets have sex! then no way.
It's your decision, and if you decide to, use a condom!!!
2007-04-30 11:12:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked if you should have sex, and he says he will take care of you...How is that? Unless you are in a serious relationship, where you are looking for commitment, don't have sex
2007-04-30 11:07:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-05 03:17:46 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋