i have a best friend onika right? everytime there's some guy i like she teases me about it and last time she told him and i wasn't even sure if liked him like that you know? and now when i know i dont like him like that, her teasing me is just ruining our friendship i try to tell her but she doesn't let me talk. guys i need help, what should i do?
2007-04-30 11:07:21 · 7 answers · asked by tigerlily 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Stop telling Onika who you might like. she's jealous....
2007-04-30 11:10:57 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who often asks me what I am working on (in my writing). She loves my writing and when I tell her any ideas I have for a story or a poem she inevitably has suggestions for how I can make it better. It isn't her fault. She has ideas of her own, obviously. But for some reason her suggestions always make me shut down and lose interest in my ideas.
So I don't tell her. When she asks I say something about not being ready to really discuss it because the idea is still vague.
I don't know how you can apply this to your situation because it could be that your friend is observing your appreciation for these guys but if you are telling her you have feelings for these guys then resist the urge to include her in these early feelings. If she is picking up on signals you don't even realize that you are sending then you may need to re-evaluate how much you value this girl's friendship. Not all friends are meant to be there for a lifetime. Some friends will come and go. Some may even return. You never know but the only thing you will regret, really, is not being true to yourself and being your own best friend.
Perhaps ask yourself . . . if your best friend were asking you this question, what would you encourage her to do? Be your own best friend and follow your own advice.
2007-04-30 13:07:07 · answer #2 · answered by Satia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a Friend d like that too. the last time she teased me it was not only me but it was the guy I liked too when I found out I got so mad I told her that I hated him now and now I won't tell her who I like I think that's what you should do too.
2007-04-30 11:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People like that do get really annoying. I had a friend like that once. I handled her by flipping the script an d doing it to her. She got mad bu t I had to let her know how uncomfortable it was. She got the hint and finally quit. We barely speak to this day, though.
2007-04-30 11:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who needs enemies when you have friends like that???
I HAD a friend like that and she got in the middle of my relationship and I cut her off as a friend.
Follow your heart.
2007-04-30 11:12:54 · answer #5 · answered by ta7series21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that right, do you think the best for your friends, its right that becuase your heart know it, know the feeling and what is the best for your friends, if dont like this person , your heart tell you
2007-04-30 11:18:43 · answer #6 · answered by pia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds jealous
2007-04-30 11:10:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋