Family & Relationships - 30 April 2007

I'm 16 years old, and my boyfriend of four years just proposed. I love him to death and I want to, but there's a little nagging voice in my head saying "You're too young!" Should I follow my head of my heart?

2007-04-30 09:15:14 · 59 answers · asked by April <3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in love with emily.

2007-04-30 09:09:24 · 12 answers · asked by Matthew Adams 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 09:08:02 · 19 answers · asked by nash jr. 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 09:01:33 · 11 answers · asked by iraqisami 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I were smokers when we started dating. He smoked about 3 packs/day, and I was up to 1 1/2. Then, I found out I was pregnant and I tried to stop (got down to 1 cigarette per week and for whatever reason couldn't do better). He cut down a little, but could not quit. He said he was going to, but it would take time. It's been 7 months and he has actually increased. I have been nagging him about cutting down more because seeing him smoke is making me want to smoke and I keep blowing my goal once a week. I told him it needs to be a joint effort and that he needs to quit before the baby is born because even the chems. on clothing can cause problems with an infant, and that I really need his support in my efforts to be smoke-free (completely). We fight about it constantly because he just keeps smoking. He says I'm just nagging him and I should mind my own business in the situation. Problem is that his business affects mine. Should I shut up about it or am I right to nag?

2007-04-30 08:56:31 · 34 answers · asked by TruthSeeker 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in a wedding for yes the crazy friend and she is picking out bridemaids dress. Isn't their a scale for them??.. like the bridemaids dress shouldn't be more the wedding dress? I just think it's rude that if your wedding dress only cost $200 to have the bridemaids be more money. Am I the only one??

2007-04-30 08:52:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Me and my husband married too young, he cheated on me, but then we decided to work things out, but then we started arguing too much and then we realized how much we are different in personality and likes and dislikes and then he tells me he wants to be with me and grow old with me and spend the rest of his life with me, but right now he needs to be by himself and wants to be left alone and when he's ready for us to get back together he'll let me know.

But I feel as though if you really love someone dispite what you may go through you would stay together and stick it out. I feel by him asking me to just wait around for him until he finds himself and get his self together, thats not fair to me. I mean he was my first love and boyfriend and husband, and my first experience. I dont want to wait on him because who knows what he's doing while we apart, and It makes me look desparate. Its not that I can't live without him, its just I dont want too. But I also dont want to be no fool. HELP

2007-04-30 08:42:46 · 16 answers · asked by Survivor 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The computer at home had all of the history deleted on day. I hardly ever use this computer. My husband said he didn't know how all the history was deleted. He said he didn't know how to do all that. I just had a computer problem, and he emailed me exactly how to do it. I asked on here and didn't get an answer that precise. I called him and said how did you know that, and he said He knows a little about computers... So is he lying about deleting the history from the home computer?

2007-04-30 08:35:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Not a guest book, but more like a page people can write their words of advice or wisdom on... I've seen the plates that can be bought at like walmart that people sign, but what do people think about a scrapbook page people sign, then i can put it in my scrapbook i am going to make with our picutres.. any ideas or suggestions

2007-04-30 08:30:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I called the local store this morning to find out when I should bring my dress in to get it steamed for the wedding I am in on Saturday and she said if I brought it in today it wouldnt be done until Friday. I told her I work til 5 and she asked if someone could bring it in for me and I said no and she said "whatever" to which I asked to speak to the manager and told the manager I was told "whatever". How rude! The manager said it only takes 7 minutes and they would do it for me tonight. Have you had a bad experience with David's Bridal? I am starting to think that when I get married I wont use them.

2007-04-30 08:29:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I recently found out that I'm not the father of my son. My wife said that she went to a party (We were still engaged) and she cannot remember what happened that time. Her friend who is now dead (Car Accident) told her when she found out she is pregnant that he might be the father as they had sex the night she went out with all of them. She thinks he might have drugged her. Not sure how true her story is and I feel like I was tricked. We eventually got married and now that I know, I don't know what to feel. I cannot afford to see a psycologist and I cannot talk to anybody about that. I realy no longer trust my wife and I'm very angry but. I love 'my son' but not sure what to do. I don't want to desert him, as she is not a good mohter either and it would break his heart if I had to leave her. Anybody else who this has happened to ? Pease tell me what feelings you experienced. I have a lot of anger not sure how to handle this anymore. Please advise ? Thanks

2007-04-30 08:28:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a guy friend. I see him as just friend. He has a huge crush on me. He even tells me "Your going to marry me". He flirts with me. I told him I have a boyfriend which I don't.


If I tell him I have imaginary friends I talk to, and it's hard NOT talk to them in public, would he NOT have a crush on me???

2007-04-30 08:26:44 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 08:25:47 · 8 answers · asked by chargor1222 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we know were going together its just the thought you know.

2007-04-30 08:23:43 · 2 answers · asked by hot_pink_sunsets 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 08:19:48 · 18 answers · asked by Oh 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

After I got to know my in-laws after marriage I sensed they were false pretenses going on. Eventually I couldn't bare to pretend our relationships were fine, by hiding behind huggs and kisses when some people could barely make eye contact like they were guilty of something. For my B/day I really wore my heart on my sleeves, and when my mother -in-law wanted to buy me a U.V lamp to simulate sunlight energy in my home , I confessed the reasons behind my melancholy. Eventually, with much relunctance, she spat out what perceptions everyone had of me, and how they've ganged up on me, talking behind my back.Yet there were all smiles. I was in shock and felt like they were hyppocrites. If It wasn't for my first step, it seems they were not looking to resolve the differences, but would rather keep talking behind my back while the bitterness continued. I felt that she has also betrayed me, becoz she was part of the problem, but was resolving it with a lamp. She said she would initiate

2007-04-30 08:18:38 · 22 answers · asked by She-whom-shall-not-be-named 4 in Marriage & Divorce

So my fiance and I are taking a vacation this summer. We think it would be so romantic and special to get married while we are down there. We aren't getting married until NEXT year...we can't wait! BUT...it would kill our families to know that we got married without them being there! (My brother did this and they want me to have a wedding, which I would love to do, after I elope!) Can you keep a marriage a secret, and then get married in a church a year later?

2007-04-30 08:17:36 · 18 answers · asked by likeAdove 2 in Weddings

I'm not doing it on purpose, ya know...it just happens! My boobs are big, so I get enough attention as it is, but when my nipples poke out, I get even more guys looking at me. It's like I can see the dirty thoughts they're having. I work at a law firm and I really dont want people looking at them. It's not like they're alwayssss poking out, but when they do, I wish they wouldn't! It even happens when I'mn not cold and even when I'm wearing a top that's a bit thicker.

Anything I can do to help it?!

2007-04-30 08:17:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everytime my husband and I disagree about anything he runs and tells any co-worker that will listen to him. If they ask him what is wrong he will tell them we are having a fight and actually stretch the truth to make me look like the real bad guy when in actuality we are fighting about him doing this very thing!

2007-04-30 08:12:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-30 08:07:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 08:03:02 · 29 answers · asked by sugargems22 1 in Singles & Dating

This is for the staging of a musical, Fiddler on the Roof. We are wondering if during the Wedding Scene, is it necessary to build a gate to seperate the men and women? We're trying to follow closely to tradition, for example, we have a traditional canopy. The actors are already seated on the proper side of the bride and groom, based on their gender. Thanks for your help!

2007-04-30 07:59:56 · 4 answers · asked by dynamic_disaster 2 in Weddings

How do you flirt with a girl you just want to bone vs. one you actually want to have something serious with? What moves will you make, hints will you give? Will you take it slower with the serious one?

2007-04-30 07:59:14 · 11 answers · asked by Coming_home 2 in Singles & Dating

I am worried i am taking my appearance too far.
I am an 18 year old boy from a small town.
I am being bullied constantly both by my parents and other people because of how i look.
My parents tell me i am a weirdo and that they don't want to be associated with me, and my mum has recently asked my dad for a divorce, because their child has turned out to be like i have.
I'm quite lost inside this situation, and i feel like its my fault because i wanted to be different. Although I feel like i do not stand out as much as they make out.
I have 4 piercings, i have both sides of my lower lip and both of my ears. One of my ears is stretched to 12mm (1.2cm) which isn't very big when you think about it.
This is how i look:
http://i137.photobucket.com/albums/q208/davecieply/P8200103.jpg

I receive a mixed opinion on my appearance, my close friends and girlfriend tell me i do not look out of place, and that i am still a normal person. But i now feel like a 'weirdo'.
Should i take them all out?

2007-04-30 07:56:45 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok, i have been dating this girl for a week. but it seems like a long time - not in a bad way. it feels like we have known each other for a really long time. i think i am really connecting with her. but am i too attached already? should i take things slower?

2007-04-30 07:52:00 · 21 answers · asked by Troubled 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a niece that wants to leave home. She will be 13 soon. Her parents are emotionally and verbally abusive to her. We are a tight nit family. I have recently confronted her to let her know that her grandmother and I do know what's going on. That when she's ready to leave we will take her into one of our homes. We just aren't sure at what age she could leave and not be considered a run away. I am her aunt, making me her mother's sister. Her grandmother and I know that this will tear our family apart, but we know that she, my sister, is hurting her daugter. I believe that the only thing that can be done is to get my niece out of the home envirinment. But at what age can she leave? My niece is made to take care of several younger children and clean the house. She's not allowed to be a child. Which, is a very important part of life.

2007-04-30 07:51:21 · 3 answers · asked by b_i_t_c_h_s_l_a_p_w_h_y 1 in Family

2007-04-30 07:51:17 · 21 answers · asked by james c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She has lived in Kansas and Nebraska, she was a Methodist Pastor

2007-04-30 07:50:26 · 2 answers · asked by helofan2001 1 in Family

I am the maid of honor in my friends wedding and have already spent hundreds of dollars on stuff for the wedding, do I have to buy her a wedding gift? Am I a bad friend if I dont?

2007-04-30 07:50:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We are not married. She is in the 1st grade. We have joint custody.

2007-04-30 07:49:04 · 11 answers · asked by mike d 2 in Family