Family & Relationships - 30 April 2007

I knew of one time when my b/f lied about going to the strippers. That was a long time ago. I had a feeling and some evidence that he went last week. I confronted him and I was correct. He then admitted that he has lied four times in the last 3 years. His reasoning is "I knew how you would react if I told you were I was really going". So if he knows in advance that I do not want him to go does that justify lieing about it? I personally feel it shows lack of respect, communications, trust and responsiablity.

2007-04-30 06:09:05 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how much is too much? do you like a lot or a little

2007-04-30 06:04:59 · 23 answers · asked by Frank 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been going out with this girl for about a month now. I barely get to spend any time with her because her parents cant know that she is going out with somebody of a different raice.(i am hispanic and she is white)recently sombody told her brother that we were going out and he is threatening to tell his parents .I dont want her to get hurt but i really like her. her mom is very sick and is dying. i am 13 years old, she told me i was the only good thing in her life,what should i do. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!

2007-04-30 06:01:56 · 23 answers · asked by lucky14 3 in Singles & Dating

My FSIL pulled me aside at a family party and we started talking. She began to bad mouth my in-laws and even my own Fi. She told me that my FMIL has babied my Fi his whole life and I should get out of this situation while I can. She was basically making it out that I would be in a life of servitude if I marry my Fi. She also said, she feels that my Fi's family bend over backwards, when my Fi is in need of anything. She claims her husband hasn't been given the same treatment. Although, our inlaws gave them money to buy a house and my FSIL/BIL are consisently borrowing things (lawn equipment, etc) from my Fi. Fi often needs these items at the same time, yet doesn't say anything when they borrow them. He feels bad because they need them, but can't afford them. I actually hate how FSIL uses him and then cries about how "unfairly" she is treated.

I know she is crazy, as she has started trouble w/ in laws before. How do I handle my ungrateful FSIL?

2007-04-30 05:48:11 · 12 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Weddings

I had went on a date with someone (female) twice, and then she never called me back again, what is with that??? She turned her email off, not returning my calls, etc.....Please help....

2007-04-30 05:47:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 05:43:20 · 27 answers · asked by Gregory N 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 05:41:49 · 4 answers · asked by Scorpion 1 in Singles & Dating

we have only gone on one date so far

2007-04-30 05:40:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

then you recently run into him and he starts talking to you again like it was nothing like you just met again

2007-04-30 05:37:10 · 7 answers · asked by missadvice 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 05:37:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-04-30 05:32:59 · 13 answers · asked by martin b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i really like this guy and we flirt all the time but the problem is he a girlfriend and they have been going out for months and are one of the cutest couples in school so should i tell him and have the chance of ruining their relationship or just stick with flirting with him. (he always starts flirting first does this mean something)?????????????????????????

2007-04-30 05:31:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm adopted by white parents and grew up in a white community. As a result, I've only dated white guys (they're the only ones that talk to me!), but I would like to try to date an Asian guy. I'm in New York now. The thing is, how do I even get an Asian guy to talk to me? Would they even be interested? Sometimes I feel I wouldn't be "Asian" enough for them. Ya know, like they want to date someone who's really Asian or a white girl. Any input or advice?

2007-04-30 05:30:55 · 14 answers · asked by KC 1 in Singles & Dating

we love each other. but he is married with 2 kids.says he is not happy.his wife did not treat himwell..he ask me to marry him.but he cant leave his wife . its for the sake of his 2 children.we had sex once in a while.should i trust him? i am confused.He is a muslim.

2007-04-30 05:29:01 · 27 answers · asked by hong3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Last night me and a few guys went swimming. My bf, me and his brother [ richie] and his friend [cameron] all were having a blast swimming in the lake and my mom had finally aloud us to go by our selves. Once she called and told us to come back we were on the other side of the lake and its a good 40 acers[sp?] back to shore and so we had a pattle boat and Richie and Cameron stole that so me and my bf were stuck swimming and i cant swim that far cause my legs get tired so we had to call the guys back and they were half way acrost the lake and that took another 10 mins and then a good 20 mins to get to shore and my mom thought i was giving the guys "a show" and i talked to her once we got home and said " well if i was giving the guys a show would ihave asked u if my top was showing anything and u should know that i dont like showing anything!" she said " well thats true, but since you were with 3 of them they could have talked u into it" why would she think that?

2007-04-30 05:23:38 · 7 answers · asked by Angelique 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 05:21:14 · 5 answers · asked by Super M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I are thinking about setting our wedding date in 2009. We want to wait a while and save up some money. We both have large families and therefore our wedding will be quite costly. We are budgeting around $20,000-$25.000.

My bf parent's have offered to help pay for part of the wedding costs, as they did with his brother. I'm assuming they expect my parent's to also contribute equally, as well as my FI and I. We have figured in will be about $8,500 dollars each.

However, my parent don't really have any money. They will only be able to contribute about $2500. I'm fine with this. However, my parents do not want my in-laws thinking they are skimping on the costs. They do not want talk about their money issues w/ my in-laws, which is understandable. I told my mom not to worry and I would make up the $6,000 on my own; as well as my Fi and I $8500. What is the best way to save up for $15,000 over the next 2 years?

2007-04-30 05:17:33 · 25 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Weddings

ma gf acts diff around me wen shes on her own thn wen shes wit her m8s nd its anoyin one min shell b nice bt as soon as her m8 phill ocmes along shell strt tken the piss nd calin me stupid wt does this meen

2007-04-30 05:17:13 · 11 answers · asked by favorite worst nightmare 1 in Singles & Dating

Now...what if I say....we have a joint account which pays for all the utilities except for car insurance but he goes and wastes his money in the charity shop or buys unnecessary food stuff that gets thrown out on a regular basis as he overshops and we cant eat that much...goes and buys a barbeque and hides it LOL in the garage till its needed then tells you to pay for his car insurance because he has wasted all his own money and then takes back whatever he has given you in the first place. Then what??????? LOL OMG

2007-04-30 05:16:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am not saying that I mind people who are classed as 'short' , I only want to find out what other people think of people who may stand out as different.

2007-04-30 05:11:52 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i listen to christian music whats wrong with that. why do people laugh aint nothig funny about that.

2007-04-30 05:07:28 · 22 answers · asked by Sydney 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

some people think God doesnt exist and even make rude and mean comments about him why is that. whats the matter with some people? i just dont get it. it makes me so angry when people talk about him. but i know i must forgive them.

2007-04-30 04:58:54 · 13 answers · asked by Sydney 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-30 04:58:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and some friends wanna go clubbing know any good ones?

2007-04-30 04:45:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it possible that 2 people fall in love with each other? How can one love and be loved at the same time by the same person? It doesn't happen...

2007-04-30 04:43:06 · 15 answers · asked by Mar 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 04:40:56 · 40 answers · asked by §P¡©ë¥ 2 in Friends

I am a 24yr old male and had sex for the first time the other night. It was excellent, everything i expected and more. However, afterwards, i began to cry. It was just so emotional. I think i began to cry because it was with this girl that i barely knew. I felt so ashamed of myself for not waiting for someone i truely loved and cared about. I can't believe i gave myself to someone like that.

Has anyone else had a problem like this?

2007-04-30 04:38:43 · 15 answers · asked by Scottie"T" 5 in Singles & Dating

We had sex and were going to get together, but he had to leave. he was gone for 8 months and had another girlfriend there. They broke up after 7 months and now hes back. Is it right for me and him to be together and to have sex so soon

2007-04-30 04:38:28 · 4 answers · asked by Marissa 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 04:37:38 · 20 answers · asked by *Joy* just keep smilin! 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i was in the car with my mom and i was playing with a tooney(canadian) than i pushed the middle of it with my Finger than it came out!!!! now what do we like get money for that or something cuz it happened to this lady long ago and she got a million dollars if so where do i go please HELP?:D

2007-04-30 04:36:44 · 3 answers · asked by CleoDarling 2 in Family