we love each other. but he is married with 2 kids.says he is not happy.his wife did not treat himwell..he ask me to marry him.but he cant leave his wife . its for the sake of his 2 children.we had sex once in a while.should i trust him? i am confused.He is a muslim.
2007-04-30 05:29:01 · 27 answers · asked by hong3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oh you poor thing, to be so disillusioned by someone that you have mistakenly put your trust in, get out of this relationship now before you get hurt
2007-04-30 05:37:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not a fool but you are being foolish.
He is married and Muslim or not if he was so miserable in his marriage he would have gotten out.
He has no business asking you to marry him when he is still married.
He can and should leave his marriage regardless of his 2 children. If he was so worried about the best interests of his kids he would be a good example of a man and what a husband is supposed to do. He would not be thrilled if his child's spouse was a cheater yet he thinks it is so great for his kids that he sleep around on their mom??? I think not.
No you can not trust him as even if he left his wife and married you he would only create a job opening for a mistress as you would have stopped filling that role.
2007-04-30 05:35:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a fool. You really want to believe there's something for the two of you in the future, even though there is absolutely no indication there will be: 1 he's married, 2 he has children, 3 he can't leave his with, 4 sex is not love. You should trust that those four things are true. Nothing else he says matters.
2007-04-30 05:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by JB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run, don't walk, to the nearest exit...NO you should not believe him...oldest story on Earth..."My wife doesn't understand me. I cannot divorce her because of two children." Hogwash..you have fallen for the oldest ploy that still works again and again...I have no idea why it still works, it just does. Get the hell out of this, put your head on straight and look at things as if you were answering here on YA! I know you would not advise anyone to stay anywhere in these conditions..Girl, you are going to be hurt very badly, will not trust men for a long time, and you will sacrifice truely wonderful years waiting for him to pay you a visit...don't fall for this bull, you deserve a husband, but not someone elses....and that is what you have now...SOMEONE ELSES! Even if he did leave her and marry you, he would immediatley have another woman on the side telling her the same thing he is telling you! Wake up, girl, life is life, no matter what kind of spin you want to put on it. I wish you the sincerest luck in the world, and don't flame me for being honest...even you know I am right.
2007-04-30 05:37:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know which country you're at... In the US, it's illegal to be married to two women at once. He can't "ask" you to marry him if he is already married. If you are indeed in the US (or any western country), there's nothing to be confused about: he wants to keep you as a side dish, but you will never become the "main course". If this is acceptable to you, then you should stick around and have fun; if you are actually looking for a committed relationship and marriage - you are so wasting your time, it's not even funny.
However, if you're in a country that allows polygamy, then it's between him, you and his wife. Perhaps he can take you as a second wife.
2007-04-30 06:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing you ...getting his cake and ice cream. First you shouldn't be with a married guy, but seeing how you are... if he is not willing to leave his wife, to start something with you than he is S**t. T bring his kids into it is only an excuse. It is better for kids to know the truth that the marriage is over, if not the kids will blame you for breaking the family up in the end. Leave his ***, if he wants you because he loves you he would end his marriage if not you just a piece of butt to him.
2007-04-30 05:38:04 · answer #6 · answered by greek_gdess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are nuts. Leave this married man alone and go look for a single one. You should ask the question on here about how many women have heard this same line of crap from married men. They are leading you on and trying to justify having an affair, so of course blame the unknowing wife. No dont trust him, leave him.
2007-04-30 05:32:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'd leave his sorry a**. He's NOT going to leave his wife for you honey. For the sake of the kids is a bs excuse. His children would be fine if they were still married or not & he's got no business leading you one with marriage proposals that will never come to fruition. I mean HOW can he marry you & still stay with the unhappy marriage he has. Makes no sense to me.
I am very sorry to be so blunt, but honesty isn't always nice.
2007-04-30 05:33:20 · answer #8 · answered by kitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be the other girl. You don't want to marry someone who is married to another person at the same time. Many people have children and then get divorced. So his excuse for the children seems dumb to me. You shouldn't do anything with him if he is still married anyway. If he truly isn't happy with his wife he would leave her. I wouldn't trust him!
2007-04-30 05:34:19 · answer #9 · answered by Simon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is just feeding you lines to keep you interested so he could get into your pants. Trust me, the chances of him leaving his wife are slim to none.
Move on, and look for a man that doesn't have a wife or girlfriend!!
2007-04-30 05:36:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you trust him??? No way. i would start running in the opposite direction. He does not love you. If he did he would leave his wife and marry you. Don't sit around waiting for that to happen, you'll waste your life. Anyway do you think you an really trust him now seeing what he is dong to his wife. Run, he is using you.....
2007-04-30 05:38:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋