I have been going out with this girl for about a month now. I barely get to spend any time with her because her parents cant know that she is going out with somebody of a different raice.(i am hispanic and she is white)recently sombody told her brother that we were going out and he is threatening to tell his parents .I dont want her to get hurt but i really like her. her mom is very sick and is dying. i am 13 years old, she told me i was the only good thing in her life,what should i do. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!
2007-04-30 06:01:56 · 23 answers · asked by lucky14 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
F*** WHAT HER MOTHER IS TALIKNG ABOUT IF YOU WANT YOU BETTER GO OUT THERE AND CLAIM YOURS. DON'T MAKE THE BIGGEST MISTAKE OF YOUR LIFE. YOU'LL THANK ME AFTER WORDS.......
2007-04-30 06:06:51 · answer #1 · answered by jaybabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably think that you've got the biggest and hardest problem in the world. And right now it looks unresolvable, you both like each other and she thinks you're the only good thing that happened in her life . . . but you're 13, still young and a lot of things can still happen . . . at this point it might be better if you let each other go, who knows maybe in a few years you'd get back together.
Take it easy, letting her go just shows that you care for her. And when you've made up your mind as to what you're gonna do, tell her your reasons . . . Hope you'd do the right thing by her.
2007-04-30 13:24:31 · answer #2 · answered by Impatient Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think breaking up will be the right decision. If you are so worried about it that you have to write Yahoo! Answers, it means that you are not committed to the relationship.
You are 13 years old, and the situation with her mother dying as well as the possibility of the stress of rejection from her family is placing a lot of stress on you.
Back off and give it some time.
2007-04-30 13:07:17 · answer #3 · answered by Mark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. If you really care about her and she needs your help, you can still be there for her without being her bf. You can see her at school and maybe call her. But if she truly needs someone don't leave her. Breaking up with her might be tough on both of you but if it means you can still be close to each other without the hassle of her parents (and Brother) then it may be the best option. Plus you are young ( so am i (17) ) so you will meet others. But be there for her! It might turn into a long friendship or more. GOOD LUCK!!
2007-04-30 13:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by Molly H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you really like this girl. Be her friend (first). Just support her and be her friend. I know I will sound like an "old person" (I guess I am!) but just love her and be respectful of her family. It's so weird --- this "race" thing has been going on forever. Love the person you love, Dude. Be there for her. If she is telling you that you are the only good thing in her life, she may need to see a professional. She may be depressed. Be her friend, and all good things will come from that.
2007-04-30 13:16:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think that race matter in a relationship. Then if her mother is dying, this is a really bad time for her. You shouldn't break up with her at a time like that. Oh yeah who cares if her brother tells her parents, if you really like her than try to make it work out.
2007-04-30 13:09:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOOOO HISPANICS>>>>>im cuban.... lol well about you situation i dont think you should break up with her since she is going thru so muxc hbut at the smae time you are too young to be going thru this things. i would very gentle tell her that you are better off without each other at least for now but that you wouldnt mind getting back together in the future
2007-04-30 13:09:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with her.
U are young, but it sounds like u are more mature than 13yo. U might have some rough times (like the bro), but stick it out if u can.
And especially since the mum thinks u are good for her u should stick it man.
This racism crap annoys the f... outta me. I get it once in a while too cuz I'm first nation (Indian to yanks).
2007-04-30 13:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by Travis M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you break it off with her right now, and remain friends. You can show her parents that you are a good enough person for her to date in the future. At age 13, you have plenty of time to worry about pissing parents off ahead of you. lol
2007-04-30 13:08:01 · answer #9 · answered by vulgar_2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take your time and let her parents get over it. I would take a break. A break would just be like talking since you don't get to see her now. Just take some time.Be friends and get to really know each other before you decide that you really really like her. You are only 13 you are too young.
2007-04-30 13:08:32 · answer #10 · answered by hot_mustang_gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if her mom told you that you were the only good thing in her life then continue dating her but it isn't always about what her parents want I am 16 and my mom has always told me that I am the one that is dating them not her and as long as they arent hurting me then she don't care. It is all up to how you feel about her and I hope that this advice will help you bye!
2007-04-30 13:10:06 · answer #11 · answered by lvs_momsgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋