I am a 24yr old male and had sex for the first time the other night. It was excellent, everything i expected and more. However, afterwards, i began to cry. It was just so emotional. I think i began to cry because it was with this girl that i barely knew. I felt so ashamed of myself for not waiting for someone i truely loved and cared about. I can't believe i gave myself to someone like that.
Has anyone else had a problem like this?
2007-04-30 04:38:43 · 15 answers · asked by Scottie"T" 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didn't know that taking your virginity was going to be so devestating to you. I thought u were crying b/c u just realized that u were a 24 yr. old male that took that long to get laid. Well just so u know what relationship we had, is now over...don't expect to be getting any more booty calls from Lesby anymore!!
2007-04-30 05:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
chipper up there pal, remember the "cool" talk we had the other day, well guess what you are know peaking at cool/awesomeness. Congrats. I know deep down you were just so happy inside that it came rushing out in a lot of tears, and i know you...you're a crier, once you start you cant stop..remember when you got that paper cut last week...we almost had a river in our office. You know im here for you, and i give the best hugs -you said so yourself :). You should look at losing your virginity as a milestone, go out and buy yourself a new scarf.....you deserve it. Who cares who the girl was, its about you brother... but make sure you keep her around because practice makes perfect....
Hint: the key to awesomeness is blowing your load in her face...try it next time.
again, congrats.
Scotty J
2007-04-30 04:47:33 · answer #2 · answered by Scotty_J 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, that's something a girl would do. At 24, you should be banging everything that has a vagina and getting some experience under your belt. There's nothing wrong with having sex for fun, and you need to get over these emotions. Sex is fun, and casual sex is perfectly ok.
2007-04-30 05:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by eviltruitt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I have had a similar problem. My story is that there was this guy that I barely knew. He was saving himself for "that special" person. One night we got a bit tipsy on some white wine. Before I knew it he was nailing me from the backside. I felt so ashamed that I took that special moment from him...
To answer your question, yes I have and I'm so sorry your first wasn't w/who you love or care about.....
G/L ~JB
2007-04-30 04:59:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You will meet that special guy soon enough, then you will have reason to cry , Scotty z says it hurts. In meantime keep banging all the chicks you can. Better to be the giver than the receiver.
2007-04-30 05:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey there new cool guy, its me again. you have been given something. its a gift of crying. others have special gifts like seeing the future, running really really fast, or being able to slam dunk. take advantage of it. its hott. i agree with our friend scotty j, buy yourself something new; a scarf, or the newest george michaels cd. the more i hear about you the more i like you kid. all thats left for total awesomeness is the load. bust it and your on your way!
2007-04-30 05:17:51 · answer #6 · answered by mideik_eitches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but i got over it because when i found the perfect guy and he didnt care i was so happy becasue he understood so if the person u meet that u fall in love with when ya''l have sex it will be better than that other chick
2007-04-30 04:49:01 · answer #7 · answered by skyfallingchickenlittle37 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It happens to the best of us bro. As long as you used protection and go to the clinic to make sure she didnt give you nothing then your all good.
2007-04-30 04:45:44 · answer #8 · answered by /N/I/C/K/ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no but it seems that you weren't thinking when you were having sex with her, choose wisely next time and just forget what happenend
2007-04-30 05:41:40 · answer #9 · answered by greeninkheart aka gbs 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So is this a deviation from your normal g@y sex??
2007-04-30 04:52:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋