Family & Relationships - 30 April 2007

i have been looking for a job but no one wants to hire me cuz i have no experiance anywhere!!!! i just tried this thing where you work that day and get payed, and i cant cuz i ahve to be 18 i quit school and i need money for my bfs birthday in 6 days!!!!!!!! im running out of time im turning 18 in three months thats so far away for me!!!!!! i really need to do something really nice fot my bfs birthday i kno he will understand if i cant but it will still hurt me if i cant.........i have no luck for anything anymore..........

2007-04-30 02:11:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My gf is 5 months pregnant and she has been going through a lot since the pregnancy, her very unsupportive mom, hormones, placenta previa, and ups and downs with us mostly from her. She wanted marriage and I was selfish and stalled at first but I want to be married to her now and I want a family. She told me on Friday morning she need time to think of everything and on Sunday she told me she just doesnt feel the same about us and doesnt want to be together and gave no explanation. We are both 24. I do not want to be a single parent and dont know if her behaviour is from hormones. I am trying to be supportive but this is taking a heavy toll on me. I have lost 15 lbs just over the weekend, cant sleep, cant eat without getting sick, having suicidal thoughts, no energy. I have sent her a couple of emails saying I am there for her but I just feel like crap myself. I have no idea of what is going on or will happen. I dont know where to turn for help or advice.

2007-04-30 02:08:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey everyone, 2 quick questions today. I'm 24, my GF is 22. We believe she is pregnant and I find out tomorrow whether she is or not. I've comes to terms if she is things will be fine. I have a good job, as does she. We both work hard and love life, we're very active and positive. She said if in fast she is, it is a blessing and it would be exciting. She said we would get married, and things would just work. (which I would love to as she is the greatest girl I've ever met). She comes from a childhood growing up with 2 disabled parents and 2 disabled siblings, and she was responsible for taking care of them. She just got her own place last week and is focused on being a police officer. If she is in fact pregnant, is what she has been saying about being excited about possibly being pregnant just convincing herself it would be good? Once she finds out for real is she going to go crazy!?! Our relationship has been on and off because of her undecideness from her wanting to be a cop, her....

2007-04-30 02:05:19 · 12 answers · asked by Lowe 1 in Singles & Dating

dear friends many house wives get hiv infected from there husbands.can she get divorce from husband on this ground.

2007-04-30 02:03:03 · 24 answers · asked by toploser 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Just curious...

And what's a "small" one? Size matters!!

2007-04-30 01:59:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband was caught cheating on me with several different girls and I found out and have him on tape stating that he did drugs while watching our infant while I was working. He says that he is not going to sign the divorce paperwork and it cannot go through. I need to find something legal to show him to prove to him that he cannot keep me in a marriage I do not want to be in. Or can he? I need the anwser. Thanky ou.

2007-04-30 01:58:58 · 11 answers · asked by sxyhzleydgrl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my girlfreind are no long going out and i expeced that she be angery or a lit sad but she was which is ok but i still dont know haw long to wait to ask out one of her freinds (that is also a freind of me)

2007-04-30 01:57:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband & I have been married for 6 mo. We dated 1 year before our marrige. He never mentioned his liking of womens panties before our marriage. Later, we decided to wear womens' matching panties..our fun panties. We agreed to ONLY wear these in bed & if we decided to wear a matching pair for a day. He began to wear them anytime he wanted. I told him I was upset but he continued to wear them. Over the past several months, he secretely orders panties (made to look like womens, extremely feminine) from online gay/crossdressing stores as well as buying womens panties from department stores..for his own use. He said he wants to wear a garter belt & stockings. I am becomming turned off. I now wonder if he is really gay or bisexual; I asked him & his answer: "No, I'm not sexually intrested in men." I let it go untill I saw he continues to do this. Again, I told him of being upset over this situation. Now he is mad & won't talk!! I love him yet I think he is gay & well.......there is more!

2007-04-30 01:55:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ladies a fun question for you at my expense?
I just shrank myself to an inch tall and snuck into your bedroom to spy on you, what would you do?

Just looking for creative answers

2007-04-30 01:55:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 01:52:06 · 15 answers · asked by windlove 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I married my husband almost 13 years agowhen I was 19 and he was 25. We have three children ages 9, 7 and 1. I have many regrets about marrying at such a young age, not going to college, etc. The only thing that kept us together was our physical relationship, but with three kids, that's non-existent now. We rarely talk, or spend time together. I spend my time taking care of the kids and he spends his time working and sleeping. He is also very involved in a religion that I don't want to be a part of anymore. I am not happy. I don't think he is happy and I am sure our poor relationship is affecting our kids. We were both raised to believe that divorce is wrong and that it is never best for the children. I feel trapped.

2007-04-30 01:51:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When I first met him he was so attentive and now he doesn't have sex but maybe one time a month been together almost two years hes 47 im 44 I have helped him so much no one in his family wants anything to do with him don't know feel so confused about this guy??? help

2007-04-30 01:50:02 · 2 answers · asked by Chellsea 1 in Friends

Ok i know its because there marking the territory. but this guy david ive been seeing he has never given me hickeys at all before. but the other day he gave me one out of nowere?

2007-04-30 01:48:59 · 9 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 01:41:49 · 11 answers · asked by sn@iLady 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I know this is gonna sound like I should already know the answer to it, but I don't. I know what some of you are gonna automaticly say, but tell me if there are any exeptions. Can a guy have sex with you in front of another guy and still care about you?

2007-04-30 01:40:43 · 12 answers · asked by Ashlee 2 in Singles & Dating

Telecom Eng. now on further studies in London

2007-04-30 01:39:33 · 17 answers · asked by jakombum2 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, yesterday a girl proposed to me and I said that we could be good friends. She was heart broken. I also like her but was not prerpared for any such situation, although I do think that it's not going to last for long as she would leave the city soon. Any way, today, she said sorry to me! It was my turn to be heart broken. Should I follow her for some time or should I forget all this?

Do reply.

Thanks.

2007-04-30 01:34:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont want to spend a alot on the bridesmaids bouquets since they will not be kept anyway and am trying to keep the costs within reason. This will be a fall (October) wedding.

2007-04-30 01:33:35 · 8 answers · asked by Shari 2 in Weddings

Ok yesterday I was talkin to my boyfriend.As we got into the conversation he started talkin bout me like I can't do this or that and he was talkin about how I talk because of my slang I mean I don't know what to do or say.Could someone please help me?

2007-04-30 01:31:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex boyfriend never like me in sexy lingeria he liked me to wear a tshirt and panties. but thats not sexy?

2007-04-30 01:29:46 · 14 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 01:28:08 · 15 answers · asked by hollie s 3 in Singles & Dating

Reason I ask is I had a dude talk to me while he was crapping with door open. I was brushing my teeth at the time directly across from crapper. We are in the Air Force so our latrines are equiped with functioning doors. Is this guy lonely or just been out in the field to long??? He did have the courtesy to close door to clean hisself up though. I am still a little disturbed from the incident.
This ever happen to any of you???

2007-04-30 01:25:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 01:24:34 · 14 answers · asked by Bill W 【ツ】 6 in Marriage & Divorce

We have a 2yr old an i"m pregnet right now do i confront him or should i let it go before i got to go I"m not on the tittle.im not cmpletely sure if hes talking to her but i found the name miss_prissy_20020 on his yahoo messenger she was"nt in his friends and he also had her checked for there message to be deleted when he signs out . he hasnt said anythig about her an hes normaly tell me who all the chicks are do i have a reason to stress or what should i do .NEED HELP ASAP PLEASE>>>>>

2007-04-30 01:23:06 · 8 answers · asked by LMB 2 in Singles & Dating

we work in the same company and have become very good friends and very very close, we compliment each other and appreciate each other in words, I have been very careful not to touch her in any way except handshake because she's a married woman, she really values and cherishes my company. Right now she is thinking of moving into the same compound where I live with her family and her husband travels a lot, my conscience is totally against adultery with her, please can someone tell me how I can continue being friends with her without compromising my integrity and help my friend keep her home? I don't want to do anything wicked.

2007-04-30 01:21:34 · 5 answers · asked by kingdavid 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If so then why.... and if not the how long should two people be dating before it's time to get married?

2007-04-30 01:19:26 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have seen lot of girls closer to have forgetten thier lovers easily than boys. but boys if they love them means they wont forget them after thier marraige also. if boys dont love that girl means they will forget.
i dont know how its possible for girls to forget thier memories that easily . i am not saying this by fluck. i have seen lot of girls very near to me and i know boys who suffered a lot from the girls.
what do think about this . do u believe this ? and above question is for girls and if interested boys also.

2007-04-30 01:19:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My younger sister, has dissappointed me by deciding not to include me or my children in her wedding party. Instead she has 3 of her friends in her wedding party along with our other sister, and a relative of her fiance. The wedding will take place in another part of the province and will be very costly for my family to attend. I am afraid that I will be unable to just grin and bear it when her wedding day comes, and I won't enjoy myself. Should I go?

2007-04-30 01:19:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-04-30 01:18:51 · 8 answers · asked by dback0013 1 in Friends

when a guy has a orgasm in the women, does the female feel it sqirting into her?

2007-04-30 01:17:47 · 8 answers · asked by makavelli405 1 in Marriage & Divorce