We have a 2yr old an i"m pregnet right now do i confront him or should i let it go before i got to go I"m not on the tittle.im not cmpletely sure if hes talking to her but i found the name miss_prissy_20020 on his yahoo messenger she was"nt in his friends and he also had her checked for there message to be deleted when he signs out . he hasnt said anythig about her an hes normaly tell me who all the chicks are do i have a reason to stress or what should i do .NEED HELP ASAP PLEASE>>>>>
2007-04-30 01:23:06 · 8 answers · asked by LMB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You definitely need to find out who miss prissy is! If he wanted you to know, would he be deleting the messages? I would ask him outright.
2007-04-30 01:30:58 · answer #1 · answered by MISTY 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi, Be cool. You didn't mention your nationaility. Being an Indian, here wifes takes such things seriously... But it differ in other countries and they took lightly.
I will answer your question assuming u belong to indian like culture. It is natural that you get angry when your hubby flirt with others, but if it is thru net, you need not worry much. Check whether he spends more time only on chat or it takes late to reach home. If he flirts outside more and if it confirmed, you need to deal the issue carefully.
Talk to him regarding your initial marriage life, about the child inside the womb and express that you depend mostly on him only.... Spend more time with him and express that you are in deep love with him.
All the best...
2007-04-30 08:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by Raviji 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, you're obviously feeling really distressed about this. You could ask him about her and see what he says. You know him well enough by now to know whether he's telling you the truth or not.
If you can help it, try not to go in to the conversation too revved up. It might be innocent, or he might just be feeling a bit left out of things. You know, one minute it's just the two of you and the next, you've got kids and there are lots of things to think about.
I hope it's all ok. Good luck and congratulations on your pregnancy! :-)
2007-04-30 08:31:10 · answer #3 · answered by Claudia G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do nothing she is a person on the net i dont think chatting or even flirting is bad. if thats what he's doing try this ask hime who is miss_prissy_20020 say i had a weird pop up from someone with that name and see what he says if he say i dont know then you have a issue if he tells you she someone i talk to on her then you have no worries. dont be to accusing but do it in a sly way. gl or u can get u a chat buddy and do the same thing.
2007-04-30 08:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he usually tells you who they are and he seems to be hiding something from you, I would be wondering what the hell he was hiding from me! I would talk to him and try to get him to talk to you about it.
2007-04-30 08:25:51 · answer #5 · answered by firegirl90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be a suprise for you, had that happen with my girlfriend (i'm a dyke) turns out she was tryin to find someone to escort me thru mexice for a vacation she couldn't go to and wanted a local. ask him boutit or write her
2007-04-30 08:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by spinningjenny 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
slap the hell out of him and tell him to get a grip because him being shady is just going to cause more problems for you.
2007-04-30 08:26:03 · answer #7 · answered by yingyangurl12 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
straight up...ask him who is she to him. who has time for games, especially if you're pregnant?
the question is: what are you prepared to do if he is cheating on you?
2007-04-30 08:26:57 · answer #8 · answered by D.... 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋