Hey everyone, 2 quick questions today. I'm 24, my GF is 22. We believe she is pregnant and I find out tomorrow whether she is or not. I've comes to terms if she is things will be fine. I have a good job, as does she. We both work hard and love life, we're very active and positive. She said if in fast she is, it is a blessing and it would be exciting. She said we would get married, and things would just work. (which I would love to as she is the greatest girl I've ever met). She comes from a childhood growing up with 2 disabled parents and 2 disabled siblings, and she was responsible for taking care of them. She just got her own place last week and is focused on being a police officer. If she is in fact pregnant, is what she has been saying about being excited about possibly being pregnant just convincing herself it would be good? Once she finds out for real is she going to go crazy!?! Our relationship has been on and off because of her undecideness from her wanting to be a cop, her....
2007-04-30 02:05:19 · 12 answers · asked by Lowe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
family she had to take care of, and her past with guys that were jerks and cheated on her. It took me 7 months of heartache to show her I'm loyal, and have nothing but good intentions. As she warms up to me she seems to be pushing everyone else in her life away and bringing me closer. Should I be concerned for her or is this normal for a girl with a lot on her mind??? Please comment!!! Thanks everyone.
2007-04-30 02:07:50 · update #1
Its hard to say, she may have come to terms with it, or she may just be pretending. The best way for you to know is to sit down and openly discuss it. Having a child right now may prolong her career a little, is she able to accept that? Make sure you both understand the pros and cons, and can understand and are willing to accept the change having a child will make. Also just because she is pregnant doesn't mean you have to get married, things don't "just work". Marriages, like any other relationship, take a lot of time, commitment and hard work. A lot of times having a child makes it harder. Make sure you both have realistic views and expectations.
2007-04-30 02:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by ctelly22 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so, it sounds like she doesnt really want to be a mom, but is prepared and willing if that is how it ends up. im glad that neither of youare considering abortion and that you want to get married, but is the only reason for marriage your potential child? you may love her, and she may love you, but an off-again-on-again relationship turned marriage is not a good start. if yur girlfriend is willing, ask her if she would wait until after she has the child to get married, until you are both sure that it is what you absolutely want if you have a child together. putting a kid through the guilt of an unhappy home is no way to live life. you need to be absolutely positive that it is what you both want.
if she is not pregnant, still think about this stuff. also, have her get on the pill and get yourself some condoms.
2007-04-30 02:13:07 · answer #2 · answered by .life.love&happiness. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a problem I have come to comment on so many times. The first and foremost in anyone relationship is themselves and then there immediate family. if she is pregnant then you must decide who is going to be the bread winner and who will bring up the child. Understand it is not always the woman who brings up the child, but think carefully that in the police force it is a stressful job and a dangerous one. ok if your single it's not so bad but if you have a family and your putting your life on the line every time you go out the door is that fair on ether of you and is it going to be fair on the unborn child.
Dr Know.
2007-04-30 02:16:55 · answer #3 · answered by coofooman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure I really got the question...but , whats not to be excited about bringing a precious lil baby in the world!!?? You should be very excited! If its your time then its your time and you just have a life change.....thats what happens when you do the deed! Everything will turn out just how its supposed to in the end......have fun!
2007-04-30 02:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the signs point to her being pregnant. The soreness of the breasts mean that they are in a pre-lactating stage. the craving for food is a sign the body needs more nutrition ( for two? ), and the urge to pee is sign of a growing uterus putting pressure on the bladder. Go to the doctor for a pregnancy test, that should clear it up once & for all.
2016-05-17 08:04:15 · answer #5 · answered by mari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being mistreated by other men as she has, it's natural that she acts this way. Keep being good to her. She won't go crazy unless you start acting like those other guys. I hope things go well for you!
2007-04-30 02:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by Aiden 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her attitude after she learns that she really is pregnant will change wait till 2morrow
2007-04-30 02:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just as long as you step up and support her if she is pregnant, she should be fine
2007-04-30 02:09:58 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't go for it ,
b/c it can be a lie
or she wants to for a worrid resn
2007-04-30 02:17:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's sound as if she is ok with the fact, but only time will tell....
2007-04-30 02:09:08 · answer #10 · answered by babygirl31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋