My husband & I have been married for 6 mo. We dated 1 year before our marrige. He never mentioned his liking of womens panties before our marriage. Later, we decided to wear womens' matching panties..our fun panties. We agreed to ONLY wear these in bed & if we decided to wear a matching pair for a day. He began to wear them anytime he wanted. I told him I was upset but he continued to wear them. Over the past several months, he secretely orders panties (made to look like womens, extremely feminine) from online gay/crossdressing stores as well as buying womens panties from department stores..for his own use. He said he wants to wear a garter belt & stockings. I am becomming turned off. I now wonder if he is really gay or bisexual; I asked him & his answer: "No, I'm not sexually intrested in men." I let it go untill I saw he continues to do this. Again, I told him of being upset over this situation. Now he is mad & won't talk!! I love him yet I think he is gay & well.......there is more!
2007-04-30 01:55:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is addicted to this kinky attraction and the more you feed it the bigger it will grow. He needs to try harder to control it. He should agree to stop for a few days, then agree for a few weeks. Then get him to agree for a few months. Try channeling his sexual interests into something else. How about nude beaches?
2007-04-30 02:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by Toosense2 3 · 0⤊ 6⤋
Well, I will wait to see what the more is to post anything.
There are men out there who like to wear women's undergarments and they are not gay. What other reasons do you have for believing he's gay?\
Who brought up the wearing of the matching woman's panties?
2007-04-30 01:59:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
I don't think he's gay. Being gay is about loving other men, not wearing feminine undies! And if this is his thing, and you really do love him, just accept him the way he is.
If my man started wearing women's underwear of course I'd think it was odd; but if he sat me down and said he really enjoyed it bla bla and could I accept it and let him explore then I would accept and deal with it.
He's my man; not my Ken doll. He dresses himself, he has his own quirks; if he was what I told him to be I wouldn't respect or love him.
Good luck with coming to terms with things.
2007-04-30 02:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by Callisto 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Well, he seems to have an under ware fetish.
And I too would be turned off, especially if he looked better in them.......just kidding.
If you think he is having homosexual tendencies, and he is denying everything, then you'll have to take his word for it, until you find concrete evidence other wise.
2007-04-30 02:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by Ella 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
My Husband Wears My Underwear
2017-02-25 05:30:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're the only one in "you'll" marriage that think it was happy...it's obvious that he has a secret life.
2007-04-30 02:00:14 · answer #6 · answered by Always Camera Ready 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
He is a cross dresser. Cross Dressers are normal but have had an overwhelming mom.
2007-04-30 02:05:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
You think he would tell u the truth? Hes gay, i never heard of a straight guy wearing ladies panties, Get out while u can.
2007-04-30 02:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by teenatld_32 1 · 1⤊ 6⤋
why does it really bother you?
Let him have his secret fun.
2007-04-30 02:00:06 · answer #9 · answered by INDUSTRYkurt 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
sorry..... if you can't live with the changes in your man......... change men.
sounds like you woke up a deep dark secret in him......
mention this to his friends....family.......the embarrisment might make him stop. or at least make him come out of the closet.
2007-04-30 02:02:06 · answer #10 · answered by rock 4 · 0⤊ 6⤋