we work in the same company and have become very good friends and very very close, we compliment each other and appreciate each other in words, I have been very careful not to touch her in any way except handshake because she's a married woman, she really values and cherishes my company. Right now she is thinking of moving into the same compound where I live with her family and her husband travels a lot, my conscience is totally against adultery with her, please can someone tell me how I can continue being friends with her without compromising my integrity and help my friend keep her home? I don't want to do anything wicked.
2007-04-30 01:21:34 · 5 answers · asked by kingdavid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree with you guys, It is not that easy to severe the relationship, she has found a wonderfull friend in me and my presence gives her joy, Ladies have always found my presence interesting and before I know it they are in love including married women but I have always escaped the married ones, but this one I see every working day, I guess I have to ask for grace to remain good until I get my own wife. is that good enough compared to severing the friendship?
2007-04-30 01:44:24 · update #1
You sound like a morally upright guy, but no matter how good we tend to be sometimes some pressure comes in and breaks us down to give in. Reduce or totally stop your compliments on her, reduce the number of times or periods you and met and chat, mind your work in the office and now that she is going to move into your compound besiege the Lord and ask Him to make a way for you to get married and be with your wife, that would help prevent anything from happening. Read and abide by what the Bible says on adultery. Don't waste your destiny.
cheers
2007-04-30 02:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Discipline my friend. You have values that you hold true one is not to Screw with another mans wife. So you must have discipline not to do so. You can however be just a great friend. If she tries to persist, then tell her you just would like to be friends.
Just remember girls have friends who maybe similar, she may just have a friend who would be single and perfect for you.
Good Luck and Discipline is the answer. Keep safe
2007-04-30 01:28:24 · answer #2 · answered by Andrew R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not allow yourself to cross over that line. If you cannot control yourself, you will have to sever the friendship.
2007-04-30 01:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are questioning whether or not you are falling for each other, you are falling for her!
If you continue to allow yourself contact with her, you could find yourself giving in to your desires.
You might want to reconsider your friendship with her.
2007-04-30 01:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just stay friends with her. dont cross over that line. you will feel guilty forever if you do. you should think about what can happen if you cross the line. you should concider, she has kids. they would get hurt.
2007-04-30 01:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by juskilentime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋