why do guys i like always do things like this to me?

Question

There was this guy I was starting to like. I didn't like him that much at first- but then he kind of hit on me a little bit by sitting next to me, but not talking to me. I got home that day on myspace and got a message from him, and he was telling me that he really liked the color of my eyes and that they were really pretty. he was going on about how i was so pretty and stuff. so basically, he charmed me and i started to like him. i talked to him back and forth for a while, for a few days over myspace, and we'd say hi- how're you- that type of stuff- to each other during school. so we were talking online and he's talking about how he didn't get a lot of sleep, i ask why, and he said because he went to a party and "hooked up with a hot girl- she was an awesome kisser! =]" i couldn't even believe he said that, i thought he liked me. why would he say something like that? is he just not interested in me anymore? or is he trying to make me jealous? because it worked.

if he wanted to be just friends and wasn't attracted to me, why would he compliment me so much? it definetely made me conclude that he liked me. i guess that makes me dumb?

Answer 1

Because we know that you are insecure and want to please us

When we treat you badly, you are more willing to take your clothes off

Bummer huh?

Answer 2

Sounds like the guys you like are trash and would treat you the same way they treat their "hook ups". Go for the ones who are nice and don't talk stupid $hit like that and stop wasting your time with the a$$holes.

Answer 3

Sounds like this guy was just tying to make you jelous!

Answer 4

Did you ever think that maybe he just wanted to be your friend, and not a boyfriend?

Answer 5

That was classless by him, and I would not continue to pursue a relationship with him. He may be your friend, though.

Answer 6

he can think you're pretty and talk to you without liking you