Family & Relationships - 30 April 2007

When i find a guy that seems like he has his head on straight. It turns out...how can i say this? Crazy!! I love taking care of a man that i love. Making sure he has a smile on his face n when he says there something he wants i always go out of my way 2 make sure he has it. But when i'm having a hard time he know where around. I just dont kno what 2 do anymore. I dont want 2 turn into a ***** n be cold........any advise??

2007-04-30 14:30:25 · 9 answers · asked by S.L.A 1 in Singles & Dating

We have provided foster care for these boys (7, 6 and 4) for the past 18 months and have biological sons slightly older. We are looking for inspiration for the entire evening (which we'd like to be slighly formal) and envolving our family, extended family and friends. Ideas on "ceremonies" as well as gifts are appreciated! Any meaningful suggestions are welcomed. Thanks!

2007-04-30 14:28:46 · 3 answers · asked by parents2sons 2 in Family

He's giving me a small sum, about $10,000, to spend, but it's with his own money so I want to buy a gift where it's the thought that counts, because otherwise he could just buy it himself.

He turns 42. Any suggestions about what to buy?

2007-04-30 14:28:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know if I was married I would in a heartbeat! I think people these days are stupid for not getting a divorce when the time is right. Anyone who cheats on their spouse is not worthy or marriage as far as I'm concerned. People don't seem to stay together very long these days and I guess thats sad. Although I don't have a wife that does not mean I can't be happy. I cannot understand how people think that marriage is the beginning of happiness. Some of the most miserable people these days are married people. And sluts and man whores seem to like to attempt to play the game of stealing someone's spouse for a good time. Many marriages are corrupt or even perverse. It kinda makes you wonder if there is anyone out there for you at all. When your friend is asking you to have sex with his wife I think that can very well be classified as "Sick" or "perverse". People are too open to sex and mind games these days. I think a person is better off single.

2007-04-30 14:27:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

her best friend wants me

2007-04-30 14:27:31 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend doesn't want me to be friends with another friend. what should i do.

2007-04-30 14:26:39 · 20 answers · asked by Kelsey N. 1 in Friends

I sold my car when I was with my ex bf (we broke up 2 months ago) to pay for renovations to my house, to sell the house, so we could buy a decent house together. That didn't work out, so he let me use his car (he has another one that he uses every day), with the stipulation I had until October to give the car back. I have paid for the registration until Oct, I have bought new tyres and I am getting it serviced. There is a problem with the radiator, and if it is expensive to fix, do you think it is fair to ask him to pay for all or half of the repair work? The catch is that I know he wants the car back so he can sell it and get some money, I have decided that I am going to buy it off him, and I hope to get a good price as I know there is money that needs to be spent on it. Do you think it's sneaky asking him to pay for all or half the repairs if I know I'm going to offer to buy it off him (he doesn't know yet)? Keeping in mind that I am maintaining the car right now.

2007-04-30 14:25:05 · 13 answers · asked by dogcazza 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-30 14:21:58 · 12 answers · asked by I_LURVE_CHOCOLATE 1 in Friends

i wrote to you guys yesterday about my mum telling me , that my boyfriend was cheating on me.I also found out yesterday that im 5 weeks pregnant.Im so confused, do i tell him or not.He says he needs time from the relationship, i just dont know whether telling him will help.I dont want him to be there for me because of the baby alone , i want him to be there because he genuinly loves both of us...its doing my head in, any advice wouldnt go astray..thanks guys

2007-04-30 14:19:03 · 15 answers · asked by scarlettstar 2 in Singles & Dating

twins are on the way, i have a 2 y/o. been together 7 yrs. Converstaion about not being happy has come up before. Now Im in love with another woman who is also married

2007-04-30 14:15:56 · 27 answers · asked by btiller123 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He dumped me so suddenly from a three year relationship, out of the blue, then he dissappeared. It was months til I heard a word from him so i asked him for a reason, says i dont know,something has changed but i dont know what. I tried to narrow it down and give him examples, eg is there someone else, is it something i did, did you feel restricted and so on. He denied all of it, but still says he doesnt know, i dont know whether if he is hiding something, i told him i need to know the truth and i dont care if it would hurt me or not but he just avoids it. I dont get it? If this is the only reason then how can someone dump their partner for something they dont even know themselves? I just couldnt see this coming, there was nothing wrong, he kept on saying that he loved me and he was happy and there was no change in his behaviour prior to it? And he didn't even talk about the relationhship at all, even when i tried to talk about it. Im so confused!

2007-04-30 14:13:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 14:09:03 · 26 answers · asked by Special K 5 in Weddings

im talking to this new guy and everything has been going spectactular. we kissed and little stuff. but the night before he asked to be in my slide show on my myspace page and i said no because that slideshow is just pix of me and that he could go into the friend slideshow. so now he thinks that we are only friends and claims to be mad at me. sometimes he wont talk for like 15 minutes on the phone and then he will go back to bein normal and acting fun and stuff.i keep tellin him that he knows we are more than friends but i dont know if he believes me. and also he is painfully shy and he knows we dont go out. is this his way of trying to be my man?? or is he just jokin around?

2007-04-30 14:08:50 · 1 answers · asked by LuvaBaby08 1 in Singles & Dating

My life is a mess! I am only 11 and don't say i am over reacting. I really hate my life. I am so happy at school. People are so jealous. But the minute i get home everything changes. I don't get along with my mom. I hate a so called best friend who is always playing with this other braty girl i walk home with. She just got all these cool stuff a ds a ps2. It is not fair. I am the oldest girl of the little kids be years. But they get cell phones and ipods and stuff. My mom says no cuz she hates me and my dad says no uz my mom says no. It isn't fair. The only good thing about my life is school. Everything els is bad. People say you have as many good things as bad this but i don't My dad just left for a trip for a month. My mom is being a butt. I am not the prettyest girl eather. I am the only afercan-amercan in my class. When people start talking about it i get so embarresed. I alsways look the same everyday cuz i am scared to change. I want to be happy but something alway pulls me down

2007-04-30 14:08:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This guy attempted to rape me but I really keep denying that it was really attempted rape....I just cannot believe it.... I still trust this guy for some reason and I do not want to tell the cops and get myself into a whole trial.... it just seems so scary to do that.... is there any other way I can make him sorry for what he did besides telling the cops

2007-04-30 14:03:48 · 40 answers · asked by Lindsey G 5 in Singles & Dating

I asked a question on here wanting friends because I feel so lonely even though i do have brothers and sisters, i feel like they never listen to me. I have no mum and my dad is an insane man, he is very abusive and I wanted someone to talk to because I don't know what to do and i'm scared and I just want a friend and it is clear to see that i won't find a friend around this neighborhood because everyone is so mean. So why is people deleting my question.

2007-04-30 14:01:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband is gone, my children are gone and I'm alone at home trying to patch things back together by myself. All I do is pray to God everyday that things get back to normal. But, it hasn't so far.

2007-04-30 14:00:10 · 23 answers · asked by 9BLESSINGS 1 in Marriage & Divorce

About 2 yrs and some months ago my sister started dating this guy. He has a wife that he's been married to for I think about 8 yrs. They have one daughter together and one that isn't his but calls him daddy and my sister has a son with this man and another baby on the way. He keeps saying he is going to divorce his wife but it has been 2 yrs since he has said this. She keeps saying she went and got the papers since hers are free otherwise he'll have to pay $330 that he cannot afford.

At the beginning of the relationship this woman would call my sisters house asking for him and even my mothers house saying she was his wife. He denied it and she knew he was living with this girl but still wanted him back and to this day I think she still does. Later my sister found out that he was emailing her, chatting with her online and telling her he loved her, he was even staying at her house (he lived 2 hours away) when he was gone but hasn't since, they've been together everyday. Any thoughts?

2007-04-30 13:58:53 · 12 answers · asked by Nisi 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-30 13:56:21 · 11 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i sometimes work the bar, and a great looking girl walks in, i said high, we got chatting and then she says, and i quote 'cant lads think without there dicks for one second.

2007-04-30 13:54:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My daughter is 15 and lives in another state. She is currently being taken care of by her grandmother. My ex-husband moved due to job reasons.

She has a facebook page and I set up one also. I routinely check it for pics and what she is doing.

I feel very sad when I see that she posts "she is yeah screwed." or having trouble in her classes.

I feel like I should be there for her. She lives in another state though. I tried to go and stay with her, but only was able to for a few weeks.

I feel like punishing myself for not living up to my responsibilities as a mother even though he has sole physical and legal custody. I am a complete and total failure in my life because of this action of mine.

My ex-husband also says that I only think of myself and need to learn to think in terms of family?

2007-04-30 13:54:24 · 10 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Shy, never had a "REAL" relationship before, try to be more open, afraid of being hurt, interests,...

2007-04-30 13:50:17 · 1 answers · asked by Younique 1 in Singles & Dating

My big bro was killed in iraq the other day,
We were so close. I need help to cope with this.
I LOVE HIM SOOO MUCH!!

2007-04-30 13:40:56 · 13 answers · asked by NeeNee 1 in Family

Okay well here's the Deal...i am turning 15 in like a few months, and i really have no idea what to do!!! i want to be something big but like i don't wanna have a typical party. i want my 2 REALLY REALLY close friends to be there and maybe like 1-2 more. i wanna go somewhere but i don't wanna stay near by. like both of my friends went to San Francisco for their birthdays and we went to one of the HUGE malls and went shopping. i would wanna go there but my parents don't really like san fran because of the traffic and everything. so i wanna go somewhere that has a beach near the bay area. about 2-3 hours away from Sac-town. so if you have any ideas PLEASE let me KNOW!!!!!!!!!!!! thanks SOO much!

2007-04-30 13:33:29 · 1 answers · asked by xxHOLLiiSTER.LOVERxx 1 in Friends

It seems as though the stupid girls are the ones who are always being chased after. Not fair.

2007-04-30 13:31:37 · 29 answers · asked by Danica 3 in Singles & Dating

Everyone goes on about the teenage years being difficult, because of change. I agree, but I also think that age 24 (and around this age) is full of change and even more difficult than teenage years. At my age people are finishing university, getting their first 'real' job, moving out of home, moving in with bf, thinking about the future (marriage, children etc). Ahhhh. It's a lot of change. I think I'm having a quarter-life crisis. Anyone feel the same, share your experiences...

2007-04-30 13:30:58 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems that I always have people telling me to avoid getting married at all cost (I'm single) and they begin to tell me their "sob" story, always leaving me feeling uneasy and questioning whether there are any more happily married couples anymore, I mean truly connected (emotional, spiritual, physical connections) in love kinda happy marriage and not just one where it seems like a successful business arrangement of two people who happen to get along. Help, I need to restore my faith in people and the institution of marriage.

2007-04-30 13:30:50 · 24 answers · asked by Nickel555 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What are some good lines that will help me with the ladies
nothing too obvious
don't want to sound desperate
Some good FLIRTING LINES that will make girls feel good
GIRLS PLEASE HELP ME

2007-04-30 13:29:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has been telling me that our relationship is beyon repair, trust is gone, motivation and love! He spends lots of time with this neighbor (male) and lately he hasn't come home. So yes! we are getting divorce just he wants me to pay for it. My dilema is this, my friends (males and females) invite me to Vegas this weekend, should I go or stay home? I honestly feel that I should go but what is your opinion?

2007-04-30 13:28:20 · 7 answers · asked by Deyla C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently got hypnotized and my friends said I did a lot of funny and crazy things. These included thinking I was a cat, forgetting my name, dancing, giving a lap dance, having an orgasm when my foot was touched, and being stuck to the floor. Anyone out there ever been hypnotized and what is the funniest thing you did while under. Thanks!

2007-04-30 13:26:33 · 1 answers · asked by stephiebabylynn 1 in Friends