My husband has been telling me that our relationship is beyon repair, trust is gone, motivation and love! He spends lots of time with this neighbor (male) and lately he hasn't come home. So yes! we are getting divorce just he wants me to pay for it. My dilema is this, my friends (males and females) invite me to Vegas this weekend, should I go or stay home? I honestly feel that I should go but what is your opinion?
2007-04-30 13:28:20 · 7 answers · asked by Deyla C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your husband wants a divorce. He seems to be doing what he wants so why not go. If you have tried to talk things out and he is set on getting a divorce you should go. You can only try to work things out to a point. If he is not willing to make another attempt at your marriage then you need to move on. Chances are you will end up divorced and therefore, may regret missing out on such a fab trip! So go! Have fun, get your mind off things and be with your friends! As far as you paying for the divorce, forget it!
2007-04-30 13:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by Hunter T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What have you got to lose? Actually this may be the best medicine for you. Itll give you a chance to get away from everything and do some real soul searching and get things into perspective and get an idea of your future. Go have some fun too. Tomorrow will take care of itself
2007-04-30 13:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go girl and have the time of your life! Your husband is the one not wanting to work the relationship out so how are you suppost to try!
2007-04-30 13:40:41 · answer #3 · answered by Mellycat123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really am going to hold back judgment on this one. --- I will tell you how I played it (even after the papers were delivered). I NEVER did anything until I was sure my marriage was beyond repair.
Only you can figure out how you will answer that one!
2007-04-30 13:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until the papers are delivered to both sides you should hold back on what looks fun. There will be plenty of time later when you are single.
2007-04-30 13:32:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am of the belief untill your divorced you behave.
2007-04-30 13:32:01 · answer #6 · answered by Matt B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your divorce and then do as you please. Don't give your husband any ammunition before the ink is dry on the papers.
2007-04-30 13:31:21 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋