It seems as though the stupid girls are the ones who are always being chased after. Not fair.
2007-04-30 13:31:37 · 29 answers · asked by Danica 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I'm obviously not going to dumb myself down.
And I wouldn't consider myself "easy," but I do like to have a good time..... if you know what I mean.
Keith T- Haha, I might have to borrow those.
2007-04-30 13:42:39 · update #1
No, they aren't. It may just be that your going after the dumb guys. Don't dumb yourself down to be with a guy, youll just end up hating yourself for it, or feeling like your lying. There is always someone who can match your intellectual status, and its not really a big problem.
2007-04-30 13:34:52 · answer #1 · answered by Shoopedoop 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Whether intelligence is a turn off to a girl or not all depends on the girl. Most girls want a guy who is smart, but if you have alot of intelligence it shouldn't be throwin back in her face. If you talk about really smart things all the time she's going to get bored. Plus its incredibly sexy when a guy is asked a question and can come out of no where with a highly intellegent answer.
2016-05-17 14:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only dumb guys are turned off by smart girls.
It does seem like the stupid girls are the ones being chased, but keep in mind that stupid girls are easier to chase, but for some of these stupid girls, being chased is all that they have going for them.
Smart girls are much harder to chase, and the chase is much more subtle. The chase is more complex, because a guy not only has to show interest in the girl, but in the girl's interests as well. Smart girls also have a greater tendency to make themselves appear unavailable, intentionally or not, because they have more and greater interests than the dumb girls.
Don't worry that you're not being chased like the dumb girls, because the important part isn't the chase, it's what is there when the chase is over, and you're going to have a great deal more to offer than a dumb girl.
2007-04-30 13:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by OldSage 3 · 10⤊ 0⤋
A woman should never have to dumb herself down. That's ridiculous. You want someone to like you for you, otherwise they are a waste of time. Be true to your heart and you'll attract the right person
2014-11-22 17:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The stupid ones are being chases after cuz they are easy to get laid with. Believe me, once the guy is done with the girl, he'll drop her. But a girl who's smart usually play hard to get and boys seem to like that type of adventure!
Just be patient!
2007-04-30 13:36:21 · answer #5 · answered by sYnDiA 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No not all guys are. The only guys that are turned off by smart girls are the stupid ones because they don't like a girl to be smarter then them. But i like a girl who is smart because i could have a meaningful conversation with her and know she gets what I'm saying. You seem to have both smarts and your attractive
2007-05-01 05:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Guys can be turned off by a lot of things even girls you referred to as stupid. Smart girls from what i have realized do not seem too open and if a lil open, too shy, so it makes it hard chasing them unlike "stupid" girls who make it smooth and easy. But the secret is, most guys wish they had the smart girl b/c she is smart, she want drain you too much but help you save instead of 'forcing' you to spend lavishly on her hence they think of the future, and a whole lot of positive things, so if you are smart, shun; shyness, open up and read more articles about dating and all. You know, we sometime wonder how it feels like dating a girl like that, who seem genuine in every sense. peace.
2007-04-30 13:50:04 · answer #7 · answered by Young King 2 · 9⤊ 0⤋
No, it's the good looking ones that get chased after. It's just most of the time they are dumb as well. But you seem like you have the whole package, so I don't see the problem. Maybe you need to wear some "Sex panther pieces" or something. Just kiddnig. But seriously. I've got some if you need it. Just kidding. But seriousy, I do.
2007-04-30 13:36:23 · answer #8 · answered by Keith T 2 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Honestly smart girls can be intimidating but very sexy and the reason y guys go out with the dumb girls is because they're easy to take advantage of.
2007-05-02 01:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
All the guys who I've been interested in are smart. They've told me a few things about what they want in a girl, smarts being one of the critical characteristics. If a genius wants a girl, he's gonna want one who can keep up to his quick thinking.
2007-04-30 13:35:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋