How can a shy-girl who is so clueless of a "good" relationship have one at 26 yrs old?

Question

Shy, never had a "REAL" relationship before, try to be more open, afraid of being hurt, interests,...

Answer 1

Understand that a good/real relationship is in no way based soley on the sexuality, romance, or promises that an individual gives you. Instead understand that at the core of ever deep and meaningful relationship is a friendship. That friends can make great lovers, but great lovers rarly ever become friends.